Being yourself in this world is very hard but very important

I know the most important thing is to be yourself, cause your real side will definitely come out before others how much hard you try to hide it

You are right. Always pressuring kids to be in the rat race can often make them unhappy and unprepared for other challenges of life.

Yes, actually our education system disconnect our social realities.

be your self but in a good manner

Very true. Totally agree with your thoughts. But what to do? Is there any solutions? But this school study has no value after you get a job.

I do not agree with you I believe that teachers where put on earth to teach and children where put on earth to learn Life is a learning experience whether it is a good od bad experience it is all about learning a lesson and maturing and moving forward in life.

Actually, there are entire academic departments devoted to research on early childhood education, and scholarly journals that publish articles on the same. The consensus right now is that young children learn though play and that teachers should encourage play, and occasionally guide such play, or model new ideas during play. I see nothing but joy on the faces of the younger children I work with as they dig tunnels, make stacky towers out of blocks, are read books, and so on. Kindergarten is a transitional "grade": there's a bit more structure to prepare children for reading, math, etc., but the emphasis is still on fun. There are families who put too much pressure on their kids--that is true. And there are some teachers who are "burnt out" and don't impart joy to the children. But good teachers make leaning fun.

True..

That's your point of you. Mine is different. Man is here to search for his happiness not to compete with others but to follow and obey God's commandments to reach or achieve that eternal happiness.

yup you are right

For me secondary school was not a fun place, but a place where I was expected to conform to social norms. I am not someone who likes to be fettered with rigid rules. I tend to fight against them, often to my detriment I will agree. I quit high school in the 10th grade. The reasons are many, but basically, I saw no point in continuing. I got quite a rude awaking. I tried to get work... no diploma, no way!. That's what I was told over and over again. I missed one semester of school after quitting, and then went in and asked to come back. I got my diploma the summer after my graduating class. I loathed having to go every day, I often fell asleep in class because the lectures were so poorly given, and I barely survived. I learned something. Not all teachers had the attitude of You will do it my way or else. (There were many of these.) But I had a couple who took an interest in the students. Who made opportunities for learning fun. Those got my attention. One in particular managed to instill something in me that pushed at me from inside so that when I had done my military obligation, I went to the Local Junior College and then on to a four year school. I got a degree. I think it depends on the school and the instructors how well students learn. A good teacher, one who genuinely cares about the students, is worth twenty of the ones who are there to collect a paycheck and benefits.