What do you think about someone with long histories of love?
By Miss_Leafy
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
Colombia
July 21, 2019 3:03am CST
A friend of mine keeps asking me for a relationship. He is quite good looking, he has a good position in his job, and he seems to have a bright future. But still I can't ensure myself that he will be a good boyfriend for me.
I know his pasts quite well. He is a guy with long histories of love. And I know he has many ex girlfriends.
What do you think about someone with long histories of love?
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14 responses
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
21 Jul 19
Give yourself time and see how you feel yourself first don´t just jump in there right away.
Maybe the girls were not meant to be for him it could be just that and nothing more.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
21 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy
Perhaps you can just be friends for now you know no compromise on either side and see if he keeps coming around good luck.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 I think you're right. I will give myself more time to learn him . Thank you for your wish.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
He confessed everything, his pasts to me. It makes me doubtful
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
22 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy I guess you don't need to think twice then.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
22 Jul 19
@Shavkat But I'm not sure. I want to give it a try, though
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@cacay1 (83581)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 19
As long as he confessed with you his past and promise to be good , but it is so hard to change the person's innate personality. He'll surely be the same. Only few humans whose pledge could be down to earth for usually they remain polygamous.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
This is what I'm afraid of. How if he never changes.
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@cacay1 (83581)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
22 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy , Just observe him, you can sense if he is repentant or not. If during your walk he keeps on looking around watching other lades, then, leave that person alone. He is not worth of your love and trust.
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
21 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy didn't you ask the reason?? We can't exactly take whatever he said ..
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
@vsai2008 I already did. He said they cheated him. They just used him.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
Hmm...he told me they left him. I can't 100% believe with what he said.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
21 Jul 19
Maybe he hasn't found the right person yet but if in doubt then leave him out. You want a relationship that is comfortable and not worrisome.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
Yes, my friend, I will think about what you said.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
21 Jul 19
How did he tell you his love for you?
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
He said he had feeling that I would be his last love. Lol
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
21 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy Don't fall for it. He isn't sure of his self yet.
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@Letranknight2015 (52090)
• Philippines
21 Jul 19
What's wrong with that? I feel sorry for him but at least he had the courage to keep looking. What are you afraid of?
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
I'm afraid if he keeps looking even though he already makes me his girlfriend!
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
That's what I'm worried about, my friend
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
21 Jul 19
I know what you mean. Guys act like they want you but once they have you they start to mess up sadly. This has happen to me and it makes it hard to believe again. The million dollar question always is will he be the same guy he was when you swept me off of my feet? I would go on a few dates even though i know you say you know him already and observes how he treats you. Don't give him your all until you feel certain to do so. Enjoy dating. Just go on dates. No need to jump into the relationship right away. If he does treat you bad or makes you feel bad then make sure to get out of there as fast as you can lol. Don't tolerate any bs.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
22 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy yes don't rush. Enjoy the dating stage lol
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
I agree with your opinion about guys. And you gave me a great idea 
. Thank you!
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
21 Jul 19
There's no problem about it as far as I am concerned. I always discard past experiences and face the present with greatness.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
22 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy That's better. Keep moving on.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
I'm trying to ignore his past experiences though.
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@raveeen (3457)
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21 Jul 19
It all depends to you if you would like to be in a relationship with him. If you think that you'll be happy then go ahead, but you should think first especially when you think that his past (as you mentioned before, he had many ex girlfriends) if this will be an issue to you then you must really think first and accept his Past to avoid TOXIC Relationship. 
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@raveeen (3457)
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22 Jul 19
@Miss_Leafy Yeah, it will take a long time for you to forget about it but you really have to accept his past, you have to focus on the present. If you let yourself to think MORE in his past... you'll be a toxic partner.. that's true... because of trust issues. Just remember that you' re not involved in his past.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
22 Jul 19
@raveeen You're right. That's his pasts. I don't want to carried away by them. But I will not rush anything.
@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
21 Jul 19
I'm trying to ignore his past experiences. It will surely take time, but while doing so i can learn more about him.
