Double shock
By Gary Marsh
@garymarsh6 (23404)
United Kingdom
July 31, 2019 12:06pm CST
I am not really up to posting much at the moment but a friend of mine contacted to let me know that @goaskalice had passed away. I did not know him personally but I do know that he was a very popular and fair guy who helped people and was a very diligent and fair admin of this site.
I pass on my condolences to his loved ones and I feel your pain to lose someone so special and dear to you! Time is a great healer and you will have many happy memories of such a kind and fun guy!
Unfortunately I am dealing with my own loss at the moment and I am in bits. Sadly my brother collapsed on Friday and although I was able to resuscitate him he went on to have a further cardiac arrest. He was in intensive care over the weekend but it became clear that he was only being kept alive by the ventilator and drugs they were given him.
Following a discussion we agreed that they should harvest his organs as he had requested. My brother passed away at 14:45 on Monday. I am not up to going into details about what happened as it was pretty horrific.
My prayers and thoughts are with @goaskalice's loved ones, my brother and his family and my extended family.
I will be back in a short while please bear with me!
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25 responses
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you I am back now I came back yesterday to the most warmest of welcomes. I have missed all my on line friends here. I should not have stayed away for so long! Great to be back !
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
31 Jul 19
I am so very sorry Gary. RIP
Thank you for coming here to share with us
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you for your message Tiara I am sorry I stayed away for so long as everyone has been so kind and thoughtful. I have missed everyone here too so glad to be back!
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@celticeagle (167430)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Jul 19
So saddened to hear of your loss. Take care.
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@celticeagle (167430)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Sep 19
@garymarsh6 ........I can understand that.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thanks for you kind words I am going to be in catchup mode for a few days I think!
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you. I am so pleased to be back I have missed everyone's news!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Sep 19
@garymarsh6 so sorry to heard t his incident .Not sure w hat goes through people mind.
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
My brother was only 63 which is quite shocking Alfredo. It is a most bizarre thing to have happened although on reflection I wonder if he knew it was going to happen by some of the things he said. Probably not in the way it happened but by what he had been doing in the weeks before he went.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
31 Jul 19
@garymarsh6 Oh Gary! I am so sorry for your loss! Take all the time you need. We will be here when you get back. Thinking of you!
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you for your kind words. I am back now and full service will resume. I have missed you all! I hope you and your father are well!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
14 Sep 19
@garymarsh6 I am so happy to see you back. You have been missed also! And thank you very much. I hope you are doing well yourself! Hope to see you around.
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
1 Aug 19
Praying for you at this difficult time. Always never good when you loose a Family member you were close too.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Yes my whole family are close and it has been a difficult time supporting them all. Thank you for your kind words!
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Yes it is not a nice time for anyone to face up to!
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@allknowing (137051)
• India
1 Aug 19
Sometimes it just does not rain but pours and that is the state you are in today Deepest sympathies.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
I am back now and happy to see so many of my friends who have sent very thoughtful messages. Thank you too!
@LadyDuck (471740)
• Switzerland
13 Sep 19
@garymarsh6 I hope you feel well Gary. Has your wife already came back home? I know she was in India for a long travel.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
@LadyDuck Yes she came back on Monday although she shut her finger in a door and it was badly cut. I have been cleaning the wound and dressing it for her. It is looking a bit better now but I am sure it is going to be very sore for at least another week! I am glad she is home and she is pleased to be back!
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thankyou Anna for your kind words. I am back now and glad I have been so touched by everyone's kind words!
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@RasmaSandra (80205)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Aug 19
My condolences for your loss. My prayers to you and your family. Many blessings.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you so much for your kind words!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Aug 19
I am so so sorry for your loss as well. I'll be praying for your comfort and all who loved/knew him. 
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Thank you Jennifer for your kind words!
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@xFiacre (13068)
• Ireland
31 Jul 19
@garymarsh6 So sorry to hear that Gary. So sorry.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
13 Sep 19
Yes it was but all is better now I am back. Thank you for your kind words!
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@Michellekidwell (29427)
• Sonora, California
31 Jul 19
I am so sorry for your loss!
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