Things only go good for so long before they fall apart..story of my life!
By Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
August 12, 2019 8:19am CST
My fiance just lost his job. Just when things were going good in our lives and really looking up. Financially we were doing so well for the first time in a long time and now we are back to just my income and to barely surviving. Jobs are hard to come by and it took him years to find that one so who knows what lies ahead for us but it isn't good. I know I haven't been here much but I just need somebody to talk to. I am feeling pretty upset and sad and I don't want to show him those feelings. I know he is feeling the same way and I don't want to add to that. :(
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
I wish it was that way here but sadly it is not the case.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
12 Aug 19
Bummer 
Easy to write hard to apply but I hope he does find another job soon! Not sure in Canada, but will be get some sort of unemployment in the meantime to help out a little until he can find another job.
Easy to write hard to apply but I hope he does find another job soon! Not sure in Canada, but will be get some sort of unemployment in the meantime to help out a little until he can find another job.2 people like this
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
13 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe It will be better than nothing. 
I do hope it processes much quicker. I hope all works out for you and your fiancé.
I do hope it processes much quicker. I hope all works out for you and your fiancé.1 person likes this
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
Yes he will be able to but that can take up to a month to go through.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe I will keep you two in my prayers.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
14 Aug 19
@LeaPea2417 Thank you..prayers are always appreciated
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
Ya it was a shock but we will get through it.
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@Janet357 (75646)
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12 Aug 19
i know this feeling. you are right. dont show it that you are sad. just cheer him up. i remember one of your post. last year i think. you were so happy then when your.fiance got a job. maybe he can resort to other.fields. keep on praying. God Jah knows what you need. have faith.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
Thank you. Yes we were so glad when it happened only to have it end like this. But we will get through it.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
@Janet357 Thanks you are so right. My faith will get me through this. We have had more then our share of rough times with jobs and health issued but we get through them. Giving up in never an option.
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@Janet357 (75646)
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12 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe dont worry, i experienced that too, And am sure a lot of mylotters.experienced that too. but there was something better in.store for us.
there was a time that i could hardly find.a job when i got.it, i.just worked for 1.5 years and started my small.business.
sometimes creating an opportunity is the solution to our problem.
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@snowy22315 (180703)
• United States
12 Aug 19
That is tough. Can he get unemployment at least? He may have to do something he doesn't want to do for awhile.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
Yes he will be able to if he has enough hours worked. It will take a month or more to get that up and running.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
15 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe Absolutely. It does get harder. I will keep my fingers crossed for you guys,
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
I know and as you get older it gets more difficult.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
Thank you..we will get through it someway somehow.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
12 Aug 19
Life does not get any easier.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
I hope so too. We have to believe that there is a reason for everything even though it is hard to see now.
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@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
12 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe Yes, it usually happens for a reason, just got to stay positive. Don't let it drag you down.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Aug 19
We life in the city but in an area where the unemployment rate is high
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
15 Aug 19
@Ladanger It is just the part of the country that we live in but everything will work out.
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
15 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe sometimes good jobs are in the next town or state over and transportation is needed.
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
13 Aug 19
I understand how you feel. It is frustrating, but have faith that things will improve with God's help. Remember, when the night gets darker, it is because dawn is closer.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
Thanks..I love that quote and it is so true.
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
13 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe Here, wishing that things are going better for you today.
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@Tina30219 (81929)
• Onaway, Michigan
12 Aug 19
So sorry to hear this I hope he finds something else soon. Can he get unemployment until he finds something else
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
He will be able to but there is always a waiting period and time before it goes through. It can take a month or more so In the mean time there will be no money coming in but what I make. Oh well we will get through it someway somehow.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
15 Aug 19
I'm sad to hear this things are not going perfect as we want it to be. I would be very depress but I will just pray that God would help me in moments like this
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
12 Aug 19
Oh, I'm sorry for you both. Don't worry at all.. I know you are feeling that it's difficult to get another job soon for your husband, but just remember whatever happens is all for our good. Wait patiently and leave it to the almighty. He is already working on a better plan for you guys. Just don't leave hope.
You must be pushing with lots of responsibilities on your head. But, this too shall pass. I will surely keep you in my prayers. Just hold on to this. Hugs!!
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
18 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe You're welcome, my friend. Oh, that shows how desperate you're. Do not worry, stay positive and you shall have your luck soon. 
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
Thank you so much. the prayers are greatly appreciated. I was awake most of the night praying.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
12 Aug 19
bless both y'alls hearts, hon. 'tis 'lways diff'cult when one loses their job. self-esteem goes right out the window'n many cases. i hope he's able to find somethin' soon. perhaps he could do some local volunteerin' there'n y'alls community? does wonders fer ya when ya feel ya can help somebody free 'f charge. gets ya out'ta the house 'n meet new folks. perhaps e'en somebody who knows 'f the perfect job fer him'n his skills.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
Thanks for the wonderful words of support and advice.
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@melissa1024 (2456)
• Beckley, West Virginia
12 Aug 19
I know exactly how you feel. It always seems when things start going well look out because something is going to happen, atleast that's how it goes for me. I am going through a similar rough financial situation myself but hang in there. You can only do what you can do. I know that from experience. If you need a listening ear I am here for you.
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@melissa1024 (2456)
• Beckley, West Virginia
18 Aug 19
@Happy2BeMe You're welcome. Yes, you are correct it does help talking to someone who understands, I am working on my situation, I am hopeful.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Aug 19
Thanks I do appreciate that. It helps to talk to somebody who understands. I hope your situation improves soon too.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
12 Aug 19
Please be clam. Tell him to find another job. May God is great. So please have faith.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Aug 19
Thanks..he is already looking for another job
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