My kid and I are not thieves.
@Nevena83 (65277)
Serbia
September 11, 2019 4:44am CST
Friends,
My brother said my kid or I were thieves and we stole 20 of his cars.
My heart breaks because I've never stolen anything in my life. I know that he had 60 euros in his car yesterday because he needed to give me 50s, because instead I paid rent for the room he rents. Suddenly, there was no € 20 in the car today.
He blamed me or my child for that. I doubt my father for a reason, because he always lies when it comes to money.
I cry for hours, my heart breaks, my father hears and he is the only one still. My brother used to say he'd run out of money when he came here.
When I asked why he only doubted the two of us, why he did not doubt his father, he said because he knew he had not done it.
I told him I hoped he would be called one of his children someday by a thief. He told me that I should not mention his children. I can, because without a single piece of evidence, my kid called him a thief. And I know that my kid never wants to take money out of my wallet when he needs it, but he waits for me to give it to him.
I can no longer endure the pain that my family gives me.
Has anyone called you a thief?
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24 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Sep 19
I'm so sorry this happened. =( God knows the truth and it will come to light. I am praying that you can get out of there soon.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
Oh, I feel you, my friend. I hope you and your brother will make up after this event...
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I hope that will happen for awhile, my friend but what I hope the most is that they change their ways on how they treated you...
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
@simplfred Thank you, but that will never happen.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
11 Sep 19
Hello it's very bad feeling for you I am sorry and please be clam down .
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
12 Sep 19
Oh dear! That's bad..Without evidence how can one put a blame on others. You don't worry my friend..Time will give the best answer to your brother and your kids are poor thing to be blamed..My hugs to you all. Stay calm and don't react to him.. let him say whatever he wants.
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
16 Sep 19
@Nevena83 You're welcome dear. I can relate to your feeling. Yes, that pain is horrible and I guess you've been so patient with him. Blaming your kids is not a joke. They have a life ahead and their name shouldn't be spoiled for some silly reason like this.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
16 Sep 19
@smileyhema Yeah, I can't believe he could say that.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
11 Sep 19
why'n earth would he leave money'n his car anyhow? anybody could stole such. i so wish ya could safely get out 'f such a toxic environment. seems yer brother's chosen to take'n his fathers traits 'n not the good'uns.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
12 Sep 19
@Nevena83 learnt behavior. 'tis sad he's not made the choice to break the cycle 'f such.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
@crazyhorseladycx But my dad's been like that for maybe the last 15 years, we had a good childhood. I'm afraid my son won't become like that. That would kill me.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
13 Sep 19
its a very strange situation where your brother told you or your kid thief, as he knows you and your children,how can he talk like that. its really hurt when someone us hurt us like this way and i am so sorry for you that you are facing this kind of problem too.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
@birjudanak Yes, in fact, he is even worse than my father.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
12 Sep 19
That was rough and I feel sad for you, when you know you didn't do it he insisted you stole the money, that was very hurt.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
12 Sep 19
It has not happened with me.
But I can surely feel the pain and hurt that you must be going through. It is sad when your own people hurt you and it becomes even tough when it is for your child, No parent would feel good about it.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Yes, that is very difficult for me. I have been experiencing horrible things from him for years, but I do not want my child to go through that either.
@jenniferdelirious (31)
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12 Sep 19
I unequivocally decry the acts of your brother. Don't fret and repose faith in the Almighty.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Thank you for your support. I have been experiencing horrible things from him for years, but I do not want my kid to experience the hell out of him.