My kid and I are not thieves.

@Nevena83 (65277)
Serbia
September 11, 2019 4:44am CST
Friends, My brother said my kid or I were thieves and we stole 20 of his cars. My heart breaks because I've never stolen anything in my life. I know that he had 60 euros in his car yesterday because he needed to give me 50s, because instead I paid rent for the room he rents. Suddenly, there was no € 20 in the car today. He blamed me or my child for that. I doubt my father for a reason, because he always lies when it comes to money. I cry for hours, my heart breaks, my father hears and he is the only one still. My brother used to say he'd run out of money when he came here. When I asked why he only doubted the two of us, why he did not doubt his father, he said because he knew he had not done it. I told him I hoped he would be called one of his children someday by a thief. He told me that I should not mention his children. I can, because without a single piece of evidence, my kid called him a thief. And I know that my kid never wants to take money out of my wallet when he needs it, but he waits for me to give it to him. I can no longer endure the pain that my family gives me. Has anyone called you a thief?
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
It's hurtful when someone calls you more so if it's just a family members. I don't care if someone doubted me for that as long as my conscience is clear but it has a limitation.
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
12 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I hope that you are more OK and at peace now.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
You are right, my conscience is pure, but it hurts me.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
@ZedSmart I'm not well, I can't take that much pain in my life.
@Janet357 (75646)
11 Sep 19
no, no one called me this. but i feel sad for you with all honesty. i wish someday you could find a place where you could live in just you and your child. it is hard to live with your relatives. problems will really arise.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
Thanks for feeling my pain. I just want them to stop hurting me, I can't stand it anymore.
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@Janet357 (75646)
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 i wish they would. life should not be complicated as this one.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
@Janet357 I just want some peace.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Sep 19
I'm so sorry this happened. =( God knows the truth and it will come to light. I am praying that you can get out of there soon.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
It's so painful.
@rakski (122214)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
Oh my, I hope your brother will be enlightened
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
I just want him to leave me alone and stop hurting me.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
Oh, I feel you, my friend. I hope you and your brother will make up after this event...
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I hope that will happen for awhile, my friend but what I hope the most is that they change their ways on how they treated you...
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
@simplfred Thank you, but that will never happen.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
I just want them to leave me alone, and I want them to stop hurting me.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
11 Sep 19
Hello it's very bad feeling for you I am sorry and please be clam down .
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
Thank you. I can't calm down all day, I feel terrible.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I'm sorry dear
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@smileyhema (4606)
• United States
12 Sep 19
Oh dear! That's bad..Without evidence how can one put a blame on others. You don't worry my friend..Time will give the best answer to your brother and your kids are poor thing to be blamed..My hugs to you all. Stay calm and don't react to him.. let him say whatever he wants.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Thank you for your support. The pain is immense. I have been suffering horrible things from him for years, but I cannot stand that my brother does this to my child.
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• United States
16 Sep 19
@Nevena83 You're welcome dear. I can relate to your feeling. Yes, that pain is horrible and I guess you've been so patient with him. Blaming your kids is not a joke. They have a life ahead and their name shouldn't be spoiled for some silly reason like this.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
16 Sep 19
@smileyhema Yeah, I can't believe he could say that.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
11 Sep 19
I am so sorry, I understand you very well and I know how you feel. I will not add more because I do not want to talk about the day someone called me a "thief" and of course it was not true but I did not even received apologies.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I know how you feel, it is horrible simply to think that someone could accuse you of something so horrible.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
@LadyDuck For a while I noticed that he was throwing up a story about his missing money, but today the highlight was when he said he left the money on purpose because he knew he would be gone.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
I'm sorry you experienced the same thing. It's a terrible pain. My brother would never apologize.
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• United States
11 Sep 19
why'n earth would he leave money'n his car anyhow? anybody could stole such. i so wish ya could safely get out 'f such a toxic environment. seems yer brother's chosen to take'n his fathers traits 'n not the good'uns.
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• United States
12 Sep 19
@Nevena83 learnt behavior. 'tis sad he's not made the choice to break the cycle 'f such.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
@crazyhorseladycx But my dad's been like that for maybe the last 15 years, we had a good childhood. I'm afraid my son won't become like that. That would kill me.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Yes, my brother is acting like my father, I think it's worse.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 19
I'm sorry your brother called you and your son a thief. No, I don't think anyone has ever called me a thief.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Sep 19
@Nevena83 There's no sense in that.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
It's a terrible feeling. I have experienced a lot of bad things from him, but I can't stand to get my kid involved.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
13 Sep 19
its a very strange situation where your brother told you or your kid thief, as he knows you and your children,how can he talk like that. its really hurt when someone us hurt us like this way and i am so sorry for you that you are facing this kind of problem too.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
13 Sep 19
@Nevena83 so he is like your father?
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
@birjudanak Yes, in fact, he is even worse than my father.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
13 Sep 19
My brother has been hurting me for years, but I can't let him do it to my child.
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@thelme55 (76940)
• Germany
11 Sep 19
Sorry to hear that. I hope your brother will realize that you have not stolen his money.
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@thelme55 (76940)
• Germany
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 so sad that he doesn't believe you.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
@thelme55 He is a terrible man.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
He's sure I did it, and I can't believe it's happening to me.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
I am sorry this happens to you and your children.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I hope you will feel better.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
@Moon24 Thank you so much
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
15 Sep 19
Thank you. It's a terrible feeling.
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@Aleskys (5879)
• Venezuela
11 Sep 19
Hello friend, it is unfortunate that, I understand that you must be ruined since said by your own family, but well above there is a god everything looks calm.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
@Aleskys He will never apologize.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
Yes, God sees everything, but I just want them to stop hurting me.
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@Aleskys (5879)
• Venezuela
11 Sep 19
@Nevena83 I understand, just calm down and give time to time and you will see that everything will be solved and late that he will apologize to you early.
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@Shavkat (139786)
• Philippines
11 Sep 19
My uncle and his son accused that I stole my toy car.lol In fact, his son stole my toy car.
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@Shavkat (139786)
• Philippines
12 Sep 19
@Nevena83 Yes, indeed. Now, I am not that close to them.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
11 Sep 19
Some people can really be cruel, right?
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
12 Sep 19
That was rough and I feel sad for you, when you know you didn't do it he insisted you stole the money, that was very hurt.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Thank you for your support. It's terribly painful. It's been hurting me for years, but I can't let it hurt my kid.
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
12 Sep 19
It has not happened with me. But I can surely feel the pain and hurt that you must be going through. It is sad when your own people hurt you and it becomes even tough when it is for your child, No parent would feel good about it.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Yes, that is very difficult for me. I have been experiencing horrible things from him for years, but I do not want my child to go through that either.
@banksim (5256)
12 Sep 19
peculiar situation
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@banksim (5256)
13 Sep 19
@Nevena83 yes my friend you are right
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
A very difficult situation.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
11 Sep 19
Never been and you should not have been. What a horrible situation you are in and I am so sorry.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Sep 19
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Thank you. It's a terrible pain.
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12 Sep 19
I unequivocally decry the acts of your brother. Don't fret and repose faith in the Almighty.
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
12 Sep 19
Thank you for your support. I have been experiencing horrible things from him for years, but I do not want my kid to experience the hell out of him.