Sadness Strikes
@just4him (317720)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
November 12, 2019 12:50pm CST
I got a phone call and a message on FB yesterday. Well, the message was Sunday, but I didn't see it until yesterday. It was a shock, to say the least.
My sister called yesterday afternoon to let me know our cousin passed on Friday. The funeral is on Thursday. This means, I won't be here most of the day and will get almost no writing done. It also means I won't be in the pool on Friday morning.
The funeral is three hours south of me in Illinois. My cousin lived just across the border from Wisconsin. It's also at 7:30 p.m. The showing starts at 3:30. I'll be going with my sister. They're driving, which is good. I'll also be spending the night at my sister's since I don't drive at night with my cataracts as bad as they are. But not bad enough yet for surgery.
We won't get back to her place until around midnight, which is why I'm not driving the extra hour home to Green Bay.
As children we were close. They lived here in Green Bay, and we did everything together when we visited Grandma and Grandpa who lived around the corner from them. We became distant as adults with our own lives. We were close in age. She was 9 months older than me. She was far too young to die. It's a sad loss for the family.
Death is part of life, the sad part. Thanks for reading.
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
12 Nov 19
Sorry about the loss of your cousin. Some of mine I barely know.
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
13 Nov 19
@just4him My mother was hard to get along with..so my dad,s brother and his family did not come around much at all as the kids water growing up..sad really.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Her mother was my father's only sibling. We were close growing up. Here's a picture of all of us, she's the one sitting. This is at my grandparent's home. Grandma and her sister are in this picture along with me right behind her and my sister to my right. Grandma is holding my youngest brother. My late brother is also in this picture along with my dad and her mom. I think this was Easter.
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
12 Nov 19
Sorry for your loss. I know what you mean though about growing apart as you get older. I have cousins that I grew up around and seen all the time, but I grew up, got married and moved away. I haven't seen them in a very long time.
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@wolfgirl569 (108954)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Nov 19
So sorry. Thinking of all of you. Glad you will be staying overnight there.
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@divalounger (6131)
• United States
12 Nov 19
I am so very sorry--I will be thinking of you and your family
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Nov 19
I'm sure you feel terrible, losing your cousin this week. It's hard to let go of people, we shared good memories with.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Nov 19
@just4him They didn't know she had a blood clot and it broke loose.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
12 Nov 19
I'm so sorry for your loss. Travel safely
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Nov 19
Hi Valerie! Do you still remember me? I’m sorry about your cousin. My deepest condolence.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Nov 19
@just4him yes it is, Valerie. Happy to be hear again.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 19
All condolences going out to you and her family and relatives.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 19
@just4him
Its a very difficult time for all of them and you also.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yes, it is.
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@averygirl72 (38007)
• Philippines
16 Nov 19
It is even sadder when people die too young. Rest in peace for her soul
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@arunima25 (87894)
• Bangalore, India
13 Nov 19
Sorry to hear about that. You must be having so many memories of growing up together. May her soul rest in peace!
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@samysotelo18 (7744)
• Mexico
12 Nov 19
I am so sorry for your loss my friend, my condolences and prayers go out to you and your family.
hope to hear from you soon
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