Sadness Strikes

@just4him (317720)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
November 12, 2019 12:50pm CST
I got a phone call and a message on FB yesterday. Well, the message was Sunday, but I didn't see it until yesterday. It was a shock, to say the least. My sister called yesterday afternoon to let me know our cousin passed on Friday. The funeral is on Thursday. This means, I won't be here most of the day and will get almost no writing done. It also means I won't be in the pool on Friday morning. The funeral is three hours south of me in Illinois. My cousin lived just across the border from Wisconsin. It's also at 7:30 p.m. The showing starts at 3:30. I'll be going with my sister. They're driving, which is good. I'll also be spending the night at my sister's since I don't drive at night with my cataracts as bad as they are. But not bad enough yet for surgery. We won't get back to her place until around midnight, which is why I'm not driving the extra hour home to Green Bay. As children we were close. They lived here in Green Bay, and we did everything together when we visited Grandma and Grandpa who lived around the corner from them. We became distant as adults with our own lives. We were close in age. She was 9 months older than me. She was far too young to die. It's a sad loss for the family. Death is part of life, the sad part. Thanks for reading.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Nov 19
So sorry. It is hard to lose anyone especially family. My thoughts are with you.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you.
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
12 Nov 19
Sorry about the loss of your cousin. Some of mine I barely know.
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@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
13 Nov 19
@just4him My mother was hard to get along with..so my dad,s brother and his family did not come around much at all as the kids water growing up..sad really.
@snowy22315 (182873)
• United States
13 Nov 19
@just4him so sorry
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Her mother was my father's only sibling. We were close growing up. Here's a picture of all of us, she's the one sitting. This is at my grandparent's home. Grandma and her sister are in this picture along with me right behind her and my sister to my right. Grandma is holding my youngest brother. My late brother is also in this picture along with my dad and her mom. I think this was Easter.
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• United States
12 Nov 19
Sorry for your loss. I know what you mean though about growing apart as you get older. I have cousins that I grew up around and seen all the time, but I grew up, got married and moved away. I haven't seen them in a very long time.
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@wolfgirl569 (108954)
• Marion, Ohio
12 Nov 19
So sorry. Thinking of all of you. Glad you will be staying overnight there.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you. I am too or I wouldn't be able to go, not that late in the day.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Nov 19
So sorry for your loss
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
12 Nov 19
@just4him You are welcome
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@Gracezy (1632)
• Germany
12 Nov 19
Sorry for your loss.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you. It was a shock.
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@Gracezy (1632)
• Germany
12 Nov 19
@just4him Yes, I know. Especially it it is very close to your heart.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
@Gracezy We weren't really close anymore, but it was still a shock.
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@divalounger (6131)
• United States
12 Nov 19
I am so very sorry--I will be thinking of you and your family
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you. I appreciate it.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
12 Nov 19
It is always sad to lose someone.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Yes, it is.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
12 Nov 19
I am sorry to hear about your cousin. My thoughts are with you and your family. Prayers are winging their way t you.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you. I appreciate it.
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@NJChicaa (120438)
• United States
12 Nov 19
Sorry to hear it
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
15 Nov 19
I'm sure you feel terrible, losing your cousin this week. It's hard to let go of people, we shared good memories with.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Nov 19
We asked her husband what happened. It was sudden. She was at work. They believe it was a blood clot.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Nov 19
@kobesbuddy That's sad.
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@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Nov 19
@just4him They didn't know she had a blood clot and it broke loose.
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@nela13 (58737)
• Portugal
13 Nov 19
I am so sorry about your cousin. Be careful on the road.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
Thank you. It should be good tomorrow. We're getting snow today, but tomorrow the sun comes out and will be a little warmer so the roads should be good.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Nov 19
@nela13 It was a good trip there and back.
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@nela13 (58737)
• Portugal
13 Nov 19
@just4him I hope so Valerie. Keep us updated when you get there.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
12 Nov 19
I'm so sorry for your loss. Travel safely
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Nov 19
Thank you. The weather is supposed to be nice, which is a plus.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Nov 19
Hi Valerie! Do you still remember me? I’m sorry about your cousin. My deepest condolence.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
It's been a long time. Thank you.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 Nov 19
@mlgen1037 Yes, it is.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
13 Nov 19
@just4him yes it is, Valerie. Happy to be hear again.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 19
All condolences going out to you and her family and relatives.
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• Pamplona, Spain
13 Nov 19
@just4him Its a very difficult time for all of them and you also.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
Thank you. They are appreciated.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
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@averygirl72 (38007)
• Philippines
16 Nov 19
It is even sadder when people die too young. Rest in peace for her soul
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Nov 19
Yes, it is. Thank you.
@rebelann (113071)
• El Paso, Texas
13 Nov 19
My condolences for your loss.
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@rebelann (113071)
• El Paso, Texas
13 Nov 19
You're welcome @just4him
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
Thank you. I appreciate it.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
13 Nov 19
@just4him I am so so sorry for your loss. I believe your cousin even though you lost touch still knew you cared.
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
That would be nice. Thank you.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
14 Nov 19
@just4him You are welcome.
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@arunima25 (87894)
• Bangalore, India
13 Nov 19
Sorry to hear about that. You must be having so many memories of growing up together. May her soul rest in peace!
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
Thank you. Yes, I have some good memories.
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@arunima25 (87894)
• Bangalore, India
20 Nov 19
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• Mexico
12 Nov 19
I am so sorry for your loss my friend, my condolences and prayers go out to you and your family. hope to hear from you soon
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@just4him (317720)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Nov 19
Thank you. They are appreciated.
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• Mexico
13 Nov 19
@just4him You're welcome
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