Big Sigh of Relief
By DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
United States
December 13, 2019 2:30pm CST
If I’ve seemed a bit off or curt, it’s been due to a life being a roller coaster. I believe it has come to a stop.
Our younger son’s divorce was finally finalized today. It’s a bit sad, but a huge relief.
He saw his ex for the first time, since he threw her out of his house on July 4th. They did not speak, although he told us she was about to say something. He didn’t want to hear another lie, so walked away.
He let the lawyers battle out his final demands. Thank heavens for his brilliant lawyer and the sage advice our older son drafted into the documents. He’s a corporate attorney, not a divorce lawyer, but he knows his contracts.
Our son came out smelling like a rose, so to speak. His ex will not get the big, beautiful, costly house or his money, but in return she will get a cash settlement just to shut her up and make her disappear.
We all let out a big sigh of relief. We are so happy this ordeal is finally over.
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31 responses
The ex deserved the divorce. 
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Dec 19
Thank you. He feels a bit emotional, but that’s to be expected. He plans on going to Boston to party with friends, and tomorrow is having a friend hang out with him for his meatless nachos and some football games on TV.
Hubs and I are soooooo relieved this is over.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
13 Dec 19
That's the hassle of divorce that you need to go through the settlement. We don't have divorce here but I find the younger generation avoiding to get married, they just live together and get pregnant. It looks like a convenient way of settling down.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
13 Dec 19
@DianneN so nice to hear that they have no children. When I separated with my first wife, she went to the US with our daughter. But I did not protest just to have a little peace between us.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
13 Dec 19
@Alexandoy I’m sorry to hear that. Do you ever get to see your daughter or she you? I know you are remarried.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
16 Dec 19
@shaggin She was kind enough not to ask for alimony 
. They were only married for 18 months, so the courts wouldn’t be too sympathetic to her if my son took her to trial. However, trial would have cost them both a fortune. We suggested he pay her off and make her disappear.
. They were only married for 18 months, so the courts wouldn’t be too sympathetic to her if my son took her to trial. However, trial would have cost them both a fortune. We suggested he pay her off and make her disappear.2 people like this
@marguicha (223297)
• Chile
14 Dec 19
@DianneN I hope your son forgets all about her soon.
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@Tina30219 (81978)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Dec 19
I bet he is glad it is over with. Now he will have a new start in the new year.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
14 Dec 19
Its really a big relief because of its the most hard thing here as its a business where girls demand a lot of money for a divorce.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Dec 19
@birjudanak Yes, the game really started with her. Now it’s all over for her and she’s all alone.
They knew each other for 7 years, but you really never know some people.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Dec 19
Yes, she tried for lots of money, but they agreed on an amount. My son wouldn’t budge and would have taken it to trial if he had to knowing she couldn’t afford a lawyer for that long. He still thinks that she didn’t deserve anything after what she did to him - sexting and lying during the marriage.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
15 Dec 19
@DianneN Sexting is thing which everyone forget other thing and then game start. Its good your son now free but here its very tough so its much need to know person during wedding and thus its OK it take time but need right person.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
13 Dec 19
I am glad she didnt take him to the cleaners as well. God is good.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Dec 19
Thank you. This has been dragging on and going back and forth for far too long. He’s a little sad and angry at her lack of remorse, but he will be fine. He’s in Boston partying with his friends, male and female. It’s just what he needs now.
We are so relieved!
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
14 Dec 19
Congratulations I'm also happy that your son get ride off all the problems of his ex
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@GardenGerty (160721)
• United States
14 Dec 19
This was a good time to let the lawyers do their work.
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@ptrikha_2 (46978)
• India
14 Dec 19
Indeed, it would be a big relief for him. I think he would take time to adjust to the changes. But living with such a dishonest person is not worthy.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16764)
• China
14 Dec 19
Glad that your younger son's thing worked out fine ! "Better a finger off than aye wagging."
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@LindaOHio (179011)
• United States
13 Dec 19
I'm glad it's over and that it turned out relatively well.
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@LindaOHio (179011)
• United States
13 Dec 19
@DianneN That was nice of the two of them. All's well that ends well.
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