It Appears that We Have Acquired a Third House

@DianneN (247186)
United States
January 3, 2020 7:58am CST
My husband and I bursted out laughing hysterically! Why? I will tell you. Our younger son has been dating like crazy since his divorce. He is not interested in marriage. He tells his dates from the beginning that he only wants companionship. They all agree at first. After one or two dates, they want much more, and then he drops them immediately. When he brings them to his house to hang out and talk or watch TV, they are very impressed with his beautiful house. Each girl sees dollar signs in her eyes, and each asks him why he has such a large house. His response is that it’s his parents’ house, but they live in Florida for 6 months. He tells them he lives in his mommy and daddy’s house. Unfortunately, that doesn’t scare them away.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
3 Jan 20
Maybe he should say his 5 kids are staying with the grandparents!
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Jan 20
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
I will mention that to him. That’s a great one!
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@snowy22315 (181861)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Well, I guess they have good taste. Maybe he won't marry again. I know someone who has been single a very long time since a divorce, although he does have a steady girlfriend.
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@snowy22315 (181861)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@DianneN Yikes,,,don't mention Brazil! I just hope son doesn't come back toting one on his arm!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Thanks! He would prefer a companion. Marriage is the furthest thing from his mind, at least for now. Only time will tell. Just as long as he’s happy, we’re happy. (Even if he dates another Brazilian girl! )
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
May be he should try something else to scare them away!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Yes, like taking them to our house a couple of blocks away.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
@DianneN Why not?!
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@AliCanary (3249)
4 Jan 20
@cherigucchi - oh, don't make her do all the dirty work!
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@LadyDuck (471936)
• Switzerland
3 Jan 20
Good move from your son, but you know, those gold digger think that... sooner or later, the house will be "his" house.
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@LadyDuck (471936)
• Switzerland
3 Jan 20
@DianneN And this is surely the case.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Jan 20
@LadyDuck, that is always the experience of others mind dollar imagining.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
You’re right! He didn’t think of that. Hopefully, they will have a very long wait.
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@moffittjc (121652)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Jan 20
Can I have your son's number? I'd like to go out on a date with him. I like big houses!
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@ptrikha_2 (47058)
• India
4 Jan 20
@moffittjc OMG! You would make @DianneN run away from this site!!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Jan 20
@moffittjc I just asked Siri for tomorrow’s forecast. I’m so sorry. Here it we have a 40% chance of rain with a high of 88 and a low of 53. Want to play here? And no, but I’ve been hit with frozen snowballs. Ouch!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
He’s on FaceTime talking sports with hubs right now. When he’s finished, I will connect you with each other. Good luck with your paintball practice tomorrow! He played paintball in high school.
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@NJChicaa (120031)
• United States
3 Jan 20
That is funny
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@NJChicaa Okay! Can you imagine if I became your MIL? That would be amazing and so much fun!!!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
He makes us laugh all the time. Thanks!
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@NJChicaa (120031)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@DianneN Tell your son that I'm available to go out with!
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@shaggin (72216)
• United States
3 Jan 20
that would scare most girls off thinking he lives with Mommy and Daddy. I understand how your son is feeling I was that way after my children's father and I split up. It wasn't until I met my current boyfriend about 2 years later that I actually wanted to commit to anyone. I was terrified at first of giving in to any feelings for him.
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@shaggin (72216)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@DianneN the men always expected more too it was frustrating
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
I think my son feels like you did. It will take him time to trust anyone again. Right now, he is only looking for companionship and no strings attached. These girls all agree and after the first date are expecting more. We just want him to be happy.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@shaggin I’m sure it goes both ways.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
3 Jan 20
Hahahaha he's quite the smooth operator, your son! And my, what a lovely home! So, I don't blame him for wanting to protect it and himself. There are way too many opportunistic ladies out there these days.
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
3 Jan 20
@DianneN I like that he makes it very clear from the off that he's not looking for anything serious. I don't know why women these days seem to want to rely heavily on men Oh, and we too have gold diggers here. They're everywhere.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Let’s just say he knows what he wants and what he doesn’t want. Thank you! I loved that house from the moment I saw it. And it’s only 5 minutes from our house up north. Yes, we call those ladies gold diggers here. They all seem to want a sugar daddy, and my son can tell instantly.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@Lushlala Thanks! He is honest with them immediately. Some women are independent and successful, but I heard there are quite a lot of losers out in the world. Very sad.
@rakski (125608)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
A huge house will not scare them away, that is for sure. I hope he will find a girl without a dollar sign in her eyes
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@rakski (125608)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
@DianneN tell your son not bring them to his house.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@rakski I did after he told us about the first one he brought there. They all want to go to bars or clubs or other crazy places after he takes them out to dinner, but those are not his thing. He doesn’t drink and is a vegetarian, and very much into his body. lol He can either drive them home or hang at his place. Such problems!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
We hope so, too. Right now, he just wants a friendship and not marriage. Those girls all want something more. They text him, and he blocks them.
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@just4him (317193)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Jan 20
That's one way to acquire a third home. It would be great if women weren't so pretentious.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
You are absolutely right!
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@andriaperry (117108)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 20
That is funny! BUT they still see dollar signs, I bet they ask how old you guys are.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
I’m sure that is the second question they ask!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
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@andriaperry (117108)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Jan 20
@DianneN Inheritance!!!
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@Bensen32 (27743)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Never let them know where you live, ever. He needs to go to their place that way he can get out of there at anytime.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
I told him that as well, but most of his dates live with their parents or with roommates. They are also being cautious these days, as most girls should be. He’s discussed that with us, too. He’s very open, which we appreciate.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@Bensen32 Thanks! He’s a smart cookie and street smart.
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@Bensen32 (27743)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@DianneN well that is good of him to be open. It's a dangerous place out there, hope he is careful.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Jan 20
The more that they will see dollar signs, with parents having several houses which he will eventually inherit. I think your son is just taking his time out. Don't he have kids from previous relationship?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Jan 20
@florelway Exactly. As I said, pathetic.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Thank goodness he has no children. You May be thinking of our older son, who has blessed us with.a girl and a boy. Yes, so many girls see $$$ signs now. It’s pathetic.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
4 Jan 20
@DianneN you are right. Their looks are their capital
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• India
3 Jan 20
I hope he find the love of his life early
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
All he wants is a companion he likes. Unfortunately, the girls he dates want marriage.
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• India
3 Jan 20
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@GardenGerty (160865)
• United States
4 Jan 20
It is a shame that they are gold diggers.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Jan 20
Not all, but there are many out there.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
3 Jan 20
even if he says he lives in the basement, they'll still see dollar signs because it sure is pretty!
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• Philippines
4 Jan 20
@DianneN i meant both the house and the son of course!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Aww, thank you! He is tall, dark, and handsome.
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• United States
3 Jan 20
Sometimes we think we will never marry again. I was married once, and after my divorce I said I would never marry again. I am single now, but my heart has changed. If I find love again, I think I would marry again. I hope he finds a girl that isn't after his money and who will treat him the way he deserves to be treated. At the moment, he should just enjoy life after divorce.
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• United States
3 Jan 20
@DianneN Oh yes, time does heal all wounds. I think he will eventually change his mind. He just has to get through this heartbreak and betrayal first.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Thanks so much for your wise and kind words. I believe time heals most wounds. Hopefully, you and my son will find love and happiness again. His divorce was recently finalized, and his ex turned out to be a cheater and liar. He has to lick his wounds and recover.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@ScribbledAdNauseum Exactly! Thanks so much.
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@GreatMartin (23672)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
4 Jan 20
One of the main differences between men and women--the former want companionship every now and then--women want marriage/commitment for more than 3-4 days/nights
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Jan 20
You stated that perfectly! Thanks.
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@xFiacre (13114)
• Ireland
3 Jan 20
@dianneN and as well as getting a third house I see that you've also moved to the top of the "Top Rated Discussion" list Congratulations.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Oh, thanks for letting me know. I never check that part of the site.
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@thelme55 (77169)
• Germany
3 Jan 20
LOL! Very funny.. Maybe they have detected that he was lying.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
Who knows? It’s his story and he’s sticking to it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Jan 20
@thelme55 Thanks!
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@thelme55 (77169)
• Germany
3 Jan 20
@DianneN We will never know. I like the story he tells to the girls.
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