A New Chapter Begins

@WorDazza (15830)
Manchester, England
January 8, 2020 5:39am CST
Yes, I've finally retired. This is my first official week of retirement. After spending a wonderful 10 days over Christmas and New Year in the beautiful North Pennines in County Durham in the North East of England, the reality of not having to go back to work is just sinking in. ""What will you do?" they all asked. "You'll get bored" they all said. Not a bit of it! After getting out of bed when I feel like it, walking Hugo, going to the gym, having a leisurely lunch and walking Hugo again I haven't yet found time to do the things I want to do. Added into the mix is the fact my daughter has sprung a surprise visit on us and I'll most likely be playing taxi driver over the next few days as she visits her old friends and staggers home somewhat worse for wear at 3am. (Like father like daughter!! I'm so proud!) I can only hope that I start to settle into this retirement lark and begin to get the time I envisioned to spend on learning to play guitar, learning Greek and Spanish and continuing with an online Chemistry course I started a while back. And I also hope that the additional time I'm spending with Mrs. WorDazza doesn't lead to one of us occupying a shallow grave while the other is given bed and board at Her Majesty's pleasure!! On that sobering thought I will wish you all a belated Happy New Year and to let you know I hope to be spending a bit more time in these parts. You have been warned.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
8 Jan 20
I am glad that you are now officially retired and enjoying it. I was never bored one minute after I retired. I hope you will be with us a little more from now on.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
8 Jan 20
@WorDazza No, we will be happy to have you more often with us.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
@LadyDuck We'll see if you're still saying that in a couple of months
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
Thanks, I hope so too. But you all might regret it
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@1creekgirl (41447)
• United States
8 Jan 20
Congrats! I love being retired, especially not having to get up at 6am every morning. I loved my job, but I'm not a morning person. My husband retired around the same time. Fortunately, the adjustments didn't involve a shallow grave. Close a couple of times, but we're good now.
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@1creekgirl (41447)
• United States
8 Jan 20
@WorDazza Sounds like a good plan. I've had a few part time jobs since I retired because I missed being around people. I've just about gotten it out of my system, though.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
@1creekgirl My wife's the same. She prefers being around other people. I'm perfectly happy in my own company. I might consider looking for some local part-time work if I get fed up of myself. But I'm such scintillating company I can't see that happening
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
I was getting up at 5:15am and I hated my job too so it couldn't come soon enough for me. My wife left her job at the end of November but she's planning on looking for something local after taking a few months off so we shouldn't be in each others pockets too much.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
9 Jan 20
Congratulations! You will get into a retirement schedule and enjoy loving your new life. No doubt about it. Happy Happy New Year and Happy Retirement to you!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
Thank you. I am wondering where I'm going to find the time to do everything I want to do. I'm finding that walking the dog and getting to the gym takes up a large portion of my day. I might have to start getting up at 5:15am again just to fit everything in!!!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
@DianneN Surely not everything!!!!!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
9 Jan 20
@WorDazza That should not be! Just do everything more quickly.
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Jan 20
Yay for you! Way to go. You will love being retired and you don't have to rush about doing this or that. You have the rest of your life to do all sorts of things - and you can do them Monday to Friday if you wish, not just on the weekends. Good for you. Enjoy!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
Cheers! I must admit I've still got the weekday/weekend mentality. There's a few things I've thought "I'll get that done at the weekend" before realising every day is a weekend The mischievous part of me wants to be as awkward as possible and do stuff at the busiest times, like lunchtimes and weekends, just to annoy people.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
@JudyEv I know. It's just not in my nature!!!
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 20
@WorDazza I wouldn't have thought of you as an awkward person - much!!
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@YrNemo (20255)
9 Jan 20
OMG! You have retired already, at this young age? My lovely friend whose husband has retired, told me that she didn't want to have early retirement because her husband constantly wanted her to do this or that whenever she was at home (preparing food for him, washing this or that for him, etc). But I guess I understand what you mean, the freedom!!!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
I suppose only time will tell if my wife and I start to get on each others nerves. While there's stuff we like to do together we also have our own interests which means we shouldn't be in each others pockets.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
10 Jan 20
@YrNemo The naivety of youth
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@YrNemo (20255)
10 Jan 20
@WorDazza It is amusing however when you really think about it. Young couples when first courting each other, want to be with each other 101% of the time.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
8 Jan 20
Happy New Year. Retirement is just another milestone or phase in life. And I feel that just like any other phase, we can make it fun, productive and enjoyable. It's our choice to stay happy and engaged is all that matters.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
I think this is definitely a period of adjustment. Once I've settled into it I'm sure I'll get into all of the things I want to do.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
10 Jan 20
@WorDazza Any transition phase takes time to settle in.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
10 Jan 20
@arunima25 Indeed. And I have plenty of time.
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@much2say (55665)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Jan 20
A happy new year and retirement to you! Bored - no way - not you. I think you will have to live life to the the fullest and more - and then come to tell us about it here more often .
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@much2say (55665)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Jan 20
@WorDazza Life doesn't always have to be "exciting" - being happy would be important though. I would say not going to work is plenty exciting .
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
@much2say It's certainly enough for me right now.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
Cheers. Not sure my life is going to be particularly exciting though. At the moment I'm just happy not to have to go to work.
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• United States
8 Jan 20
I am so happy for your and have a lot of fun now.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
Cheers. And I will certainly try
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@Tampa_girl7 (50270)
• United States
8 Jan 20
Happy retirement
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@Tampa_girl7 (50270)
• United States
8 Jan 20
@WorDazza I bet you will.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
Thank you. I'm sure it will be.
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@xFiacre (13035)
• Ireland
8 Jan 20
@wordazza Has Mrs WorDazza got a long list of things for you to do? Mrs Banks has one for me and retirement doesn’t start for another 3 years and 51 weeks.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
She hasn't really. We're still deciding if our current house is our forever house. If it is then there'll be a long, long list.
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Jan 20
Hope you continue to enjoy that wonderful freedom! What is Mrs WorDazza doing?
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Jan 20
@WorDazza There are any number of organisations needing volunteers, I'm sure she'll find something of interest!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
14 Jan 20
@Fleura I suspect she would prefer something that pays!!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
14 Jan 20
Cheers. Mrs. WorDazza finished work before me (end of November). Unlike me she can't envisage occupying herself longer term so she's going to start looking for a stress-free, part-time job in our local area once the winter is over.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
9 Jan 20
Not fair! I want to retire, but I still have over twenty years before I'm officially recognised as old. *sigh*
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
14 Jan 20
@Poppylicious It's actually very difficult to work out how much money you're going to need in retirement. If I'm being honest we're sort of winging it with the intention of getting part time, stress free jobs in our local area if the need arises.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
9 Jan 20
I still have just over 12 years until I'm officially old. You have to start planning for it very early and not have expectations of a hugely lavish lifestyle if you want to get out as early as I have.
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14 Jan 20
@WorDazza I think Husband has his sights set on early retirement. I just know that I'll never be able to retire early, unless his private pension is huge!
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Jan 20
I am retired and hell no, I am never bored. It's a relief not to endure the work grindstone and the getting up early and the commute.
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
8 Jan 20
Yeah, that's the biggest plus as far as I'm concerned. No more getting out of bed at 5:15am and walking the dog when it's pitch black outside. I've not stopped smiling for 3 days. My wife is getting suspicious!!
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@ScotMac (1335)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
10 Jan 20
I retired about 18 months ago and it's wonderful! Plenty of time to do what I want and no pressure!
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
10 Jan 20
Although I'm still adjusting I'm definitely appreciating not having to be in specific places at specific times.
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