Wait Until Your Father Gets Home

@simone10 (54187)
Louisville, Kentucky
April 17, 2020 7:12pm CST
I used to be so afraid when my Mom would say, " Wait until your Father gets home". It usually meant we had done something really bad. As I got older, it didn't happen that much because I knew how to not get caught...lol. I have always been sensitive and emotional. I could get scolded and I would be just as upset as I would if I got a spanking. With my father, it seemed like it was hit or miss on whether we were talked to or we got a spanking. He was somewhat of a softie when it came to us girls. Most of the time I was scolded and grounded. When I became a Mom, I said I would never do that to my children or their father and I didn't. I always took care of their punishment myself if their father was at work. Did either of your parents do that to you?
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Apr 20
My mother said the same thing. I never got a spanking, nor did my kids. I never used those words either.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
Now being an adult, it wasn't right to put all of this on our fathers. I can see if something was serious enough that the mother and father had to talk about it. But I don't think it's right to make the father the heavy. I'm sure he wanted to be loved by his children and not feared.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Apr 20
@Courtlynn That's great that you were the best kids. It makes it so much easier for parents.
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@kokoks (466)
• Philippines
18 Apr 20
I'm a daddy's girl but I'm always afraid when he gets angry. I guess I'm just so used to seeing my mom angry that it's normal but I don't know what to expect with my dad so that's really scary.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
I don't think it's right for children to fear their parents.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
28 Apr 20
@kokoks Exactly! Respect is what is important.
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@kokoks (466)
• Philippines
27 Apr 20
@simone10 Not fear them as a whole, more like be respectful to actually listen and do as they're told.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
18 Apr 20
Nope cause I was raised in a happy single family home.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
That's great! I'm so happy for you!
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@LindaOHio (177809)
• United States
18 Apr 20
No. I got punished right then and there.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
That's the right way to do it.
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@Janet357 (75646)
18 Apr 20
I think yes. my mom did that to me. Also I grew up with spanks and other forms of punishments.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
I got spankings also but most of the time just talking to me hurt me just as bad.
• India
18 Apr 20
Actually never because it's not good to punish kids
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
Depending on the circumstances, I think punishment may need to be done but that doesn't mean spankings.
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• India
26 Apr 20
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@FourWalls (67705)
• United States
18 Apr 20
No, my mom took care of discipline things right then and there. To me, wait till your father gets home was a cartoon.
Wait Till Your Father Gets Home is an animated sitcom produced by Hanna-Barbera that aired in first-run syndication in the United States from 1972 to 1974 (a...
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
Lol...I didn't know there was a cartoon named after it.
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@Deepizzaguy (102525)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
18 Apr 20
I most got lectured by my late parents when I stepped out of bounds with their rules of behavior.
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
26 Apr 20
That's what should happen. For me, that's all it took as it would really hurt my feelings. I was a very sensitive child.