Are You Beautiful?

@DianneN (247186)
United States
May 2, 2020 4:50pm CST
I get messages from newbies and some not so new users trying to romance me. Flattery will get them nowhere. I do not reply and most of them go away. Most of them have no discussions. It creeps me out. I have not told my husband, or he’d go crazy. Perhaps I should change my profile photo to these pretty New York City flowers. Have you been approached by nut cases?
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John Roberts
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
3 May 20
Here? On myLot? Everyone I am familiar with here would not do such a thing or at least I think so. Now I read the other comments and this is a common thing apparently. I just can't imagine any regular here doing that. I am sorry that spoils this site.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Let’s put it this way. It makes for a hilarious discussion. I’m enjoying my Saturday evening at home. Um, what are you doing next Saturday night?
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
@JohnRoberts . Maybe some other time, Mistah!
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John Roberts
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
3 May 20
@DianneN Sorry, I have a hot date with the TV!!!
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WorDazza
@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
2 May 20
Never happened to me. Unbelievable I know!! Maybe the lady members are more shy than the male members. Or maybe not so creepy!! I wouldn't change your profile pic. It's nice to put a face to a name. Just ignore the idiots. Do they really think you're going to throw away many years of happy marriage to take a punt on some chancer who you don't even know?
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Well said. Either that or they think I’m crazy. So no flowers it is. I prefer seeing someone’s face, too, even if it isn’t beautiful.
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WorDazza
@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
2 May 20
@DianneN I just think there are some men who think that women should see their advances as a compliment. Or maybe they just mistook this place for a dating site
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much2say
@much2say (55901)
• Los Angeles, California
2 May 20
Oh my! I get the nut cases in real life - but not so much here . I'm fine with that, well not with the real life nut cases .
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much2say
@much2say (55901)
• Los Angeles, California
2 May 20
@DianneN I know, it's flattering . . . but a nut case is a nut case . . . I guess I've been trying to practice social distancing from them before .
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
@much2say I like them suave, sophisticated, and debonair, but they are losers to me. You kill me!
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Oh, this grandma still gets the real life nut cases, too. I’m ashamed to say I’m flattered by them, but I never let on.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (341743)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May 20
I haven't had any such messages. There must be something wrong with me.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Oh, I’m so sorry. Perhaps it’s because you are over the age of 18.. There. There. Not to worry. Know that Vince is much better than these youngsters out of the cradle and jobless.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
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sourav
@sparial02 (858)
• India
3 May 20
Your comment just made my day
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 20
Yes I have unfortunately. I ignore and keep going. I did change my profile pic. But I don't think it has helped.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Maybe we can double date!
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
@CarolDM If they bother us, we can always report them. Usually they just go away. I only reported one once.
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 May 20
@DianneN It is really crazy.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
2 May 20
Don't change the picture. I don't have that problem.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
You are a flower!
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
2 May 20
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
2 May 20
@DianneN Yes, but I am the most beautiful flower.
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Amber
@AmbiePam (93739)
• United States
3 May 20
The last two maintenance men at my apartment complex have asked me out, but one was 22. A 22 year old who asks me out is definitely a nut. I said no thank you to both.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Definitely a nut with good taste! What is wrong with men?[
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Tina Dalasinski
@Tina30219 (82056)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 May 20
Funny you say this I was messaged a while ago from some guy wanting me to date him I was not even friends with him on here he just messaged me.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
So, are you going out tonight?
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The Horse
@TheHorse (220068)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 May 20
@myklj999 I'll ask you out if it'll make you feel better. Here's my dating profile: "Straight middle aged white guy looking for the same to smoke cigs and eat pizza with. Must be tolerant of occasional bouts of explosive flatulence."
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
@myklj999 All you have to do is send a PM telling us how beautiful we are, and we will leave our husbands and run straight into your arms.
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (107859)
• Marion, Ohio
3 May 20
Those are pretty. No one seems to want to ask George out. Of course he is showing the business end in my profile pick
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Eva James
@wolfgirl569 (107859)
• Marion, Ohio
3 May 20
@DianneN So far he hasnt.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Thanks! Our son took that photo while walking his dogs in NYC. I would think George’s business end would attract many.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
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Marsha
@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
3 May 20
Maybe when you are approached by then you can switch to the flowers and switch back once they are gone. Hopefully the flowers would confuse them. Do you turn them in? I have that problem on Instagram and I wouldn't consider myself anywhere close to your league. I just thought of your granddaughter. How is she doing these days? Does she have a place to practice skating until things are back to normal?
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The Horse
@TheHorse (220068)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 May 20
Ah, good question. And don't forget her grandson the hockey player! I think he still has long hair like Horse Jr.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
@TheHorse Yes, he does. It’s the rocker in him. Perhaps you can jam together one day.
DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Aw, you’re sweet. I’m keeping my avatar and will ignore the nuts or report them. I’m not on Instagram, but Facebook has some crazies, too. Thanks! Actually my granddaughter and grandson just got a rink for skating. They have it set up in their courtyard where they can stay safe.
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PLETHOS
@Plethos (13581)
• United States
2 May 20
ive been called a lot of things, and pretty hasnt been one of them.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Well, your profile picture is very beautiful.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
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PLETHOS
@Plethos (13581)
• United States
3 May 20
@DianneN - and still not called pretty.
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Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 May 20
Yes, I had two trying to convince me how great I am, to them! One was about two years ago. He kept sending me those little emojis with hearts and he wanted to get to know me. Finally, I blocked him, end of this jerk.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Aw, we could have gone on a double date together.
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Kharla Jolly
@kobesbuddy (78871)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 May 20
@DianneN That moron was treating My Lot, like a dating service! LOL
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
@kobesbuddy Hilarious! Now we know where we want to go if we want to fool around!
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
2 May 20
No, not here on Mylot but I ignore them.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Of course you ignore them. You’ve been happily married for 39 years!
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
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Thelma
@thelme55 (77168)
• Germany
3 May 20
@DianneN That´s right. I don´t want trouble and no one is as good as my man.
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LowRiderX
@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
2 May 20
No, only one was much boring, he kept asking, I didn't answer and he gave up.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Playing hard to get?
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
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LowRiderX
@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
3 May 20
@DianneN No, I really don't have those problems here, they're all quite ok to me.. that one 'case' happened in my beginning here
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Judy Story
@jstory07 (139782)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 May 20
Yes that happens all the time I just ignore them and delete the conversation.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
That’s all we can do or report them.
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Bobby Larkin
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
2 May 20
sometimes but not because i am beautiful, mainly it is because they think i am also just a nut case
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
I know you are a lovable nut case. Not to worry.
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NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (120054)
• United States
2 May 20
nope
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
You’re a parrot!
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
3 May 20
I received some messages too but not very frequently, I just ignore them.
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
Well, if you someone really handsome and brilliant, let me know. I have a friend who may be interested.
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Manuela Lopes
@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
4 May 20
@DianneN I will
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (181228)
• United States
2 May 20
Nope. A smiley face with reading glasses gets them nowhere! Being beautiful does have its downfalls! :-)
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
2 May 20
Almost like the school librarian.
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (181228)
• United States
2 May 20
@DianneN Yeah, no one bothers me!
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Simone
@Janet357 (75646)
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3 May 20
that means you still have this charisma Miss D. Yes, some of them are Indians. Naaa I did not answer them First, how sure are they am a woman
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DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 May 20
How desperate can they be to want to date a grandma. I hear from many different countries all big losers in my book. I think they know you’re a woman, but who knows?