I Can’t Lift a Pot

@DianneN (247184)
United States
May 12, 2020 10:11am CST
It sounds really ridiculous, but I can’t lift certain pots and pans. A finger or two on my right hand lock up when lifting a pot, especially these ultra heavy All Clad professional pots. I think it’s pretty darn dangerous to lift a pot of boiling water, carry it to the sink to drain whatever is inside it, and then not be able to let go of the handle. With the long handle I’ve been able to slide my hand off and pry one or two fingers opened. I have trigger finger. The hand surgeon I’ve been to refuses to perform surgery on me. He suggested I use paper tape to wrap my fingers before bed to prevent making a fist in my sleep whenever my fingers start locking up. It works, so back to it I will go. In the meantime, hubs has been the pot and pan carrier when I do the cooking.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
12 May 20
I'm glad you have your husband's help if and when its needed. That is scary.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
13 May 20
@DianneN Good to see you as well! Missed being here.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@LovingMyBabies Will you return to us?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
Thanks! Good to see you! I thought of you when we drove through Georgia.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
12 May 20
It's wonderful that he is always there to help you when you need him, do your fingers hurt?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
He’s so good to me. I don’t know what I’d do without him in my life. My fingers only hurt after I pry them open. They ache for a while.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
@LowRiderX Aw, thanks. Yes, he knows and feels the same way about me. Two silly lovebirds here.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
12 May 20
@DianneN That's so nice, I hope you told him that
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 May 20
I'm sorry you have that trouble. I'm glad taping the fingers together helps. I see he has his uses.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
He’s good for something. I only tape individual finger - 3 on my right hand and sometimes my ring and middle finger on my left hand. It helps so much if I do it three nights in a row.
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@just4him (317238)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
15 May 20
@DianneN That's great it helps. All men have their uses.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
15 May 20
@just4him True!
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
13 May 20
Why does he refuse surgery
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Taping helps. He said he’s the best surgeon around, which he is, but doesn’t recommend it for me. I had steroid shots twice, which helped a bit.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
13 May 20
@DianneN oooh. ok.
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@LindaOHio (181717)
• United States
12 May 20
Sorry to hear that. I have arthritis in my hands really bad. That's why I can't do needlework anymore. I'm glad hubs can help you.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
Thanks. I’m sorry you have arthritis. I don’t know which is worse.
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@LindaOHio (181717)
• United States
13 May 20
@DianneN No need to be sorry. It's all part of the body breaking down! :-) Sorry you have a trigger finger.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
12 May 20
Oh dear. You're right. That does sound dangerous. Well, good thing hubs is nearby ... I hope that the condition isn't too uncomfortable.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
12 May 20
@DianneN I can understand how you would feel that. I think I would really freak out.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
@FayeHazel I scream every time!
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
12 May 20
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@popciclecold (39518)
• United States
13 May 20
Wow, that can be painful I hope it gets better. Good your husband is there.
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• United States
13 May 20
@DianneN Its amazing how a person's hand or fingers can lock up.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Thanks! Only taping each finger affected will help.
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@snowy22315 (182199)
• United States
12 May 20
I am sure he doesn't mind. You make fists in your sleep? Hmm, don't think I have heard of that before. Hopefully the tape will do the trick.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
No, he’s very helpful. I don’t know exactly what I do in my sleep, but whatever I do, it doesn’t help with my trigger finger.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
12 May 20
I remember decades ago when I was about to buy a set of awesome Rena Ware. Just when my husband had given in, I held one of the pots with my hand and decided that they weighed too much.
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@marguicha (223795)
• Chile
12 May 20
@DianneN I decided not to buy them. I would not have used them if they weighted so much. It is like a set of beautiful set of Japanese dinnerware I have that I have never used. It is so delicate that I wouldn´t dare place it in the dishwasher. And it is for 12 people, so it would be for special occasions
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
@marguicha I use my fine china for guests, but not for the grandkids. My husband and I wash them by hand. We have it down to a science after all these years.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
I knew they were heavy, but wanted those pots and pans so badly to go with my new kitchen.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
13 May 20
Oh goodness, that is not fun, I have to be careful with my arthritis but Al is even more of a danger so I am on my own.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Bless us all!
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@FourWalls (69030)
• United States
12 May 20
That sucks that you can’t get any surgical relief...but then, it might make things worse. That’s one of those middle age arthritis things. My mom’s fingers would lock on her. Mine do, too, occasionally, but not to the point where I drop heavy objects. I hope you can find something to help.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
I agree, but the surgeon told me that I was his wife or daughter, he wouldn’t operate. At least a few nights of tape helps. He told me I should have seen him at the first signs and not waited. Perhaps you should see a surgeon, soon.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
13 May 20
That is annoying, but I am glad that what your hand surgeon suggested seems to work.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
13 May 20
@DianneN I am glad, problems to the fingers are so much annoying.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@LadyDuck Exactly, but the rest of me works fine for now.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Thanks. I began taping the affected fingers last night and already feel the improvement.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
12 May 20
Do your fingers hurt?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
They ache after I pry them open, but otherwise don’t hurt.
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
13 May 20
I am glad your husband helps you. Is it painful? I hope not
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@nela13 That’s great! I let mine go way too long.
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
13 May 20
@DianneN but I glad the paper tape helps you.
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@nela13 (58710)
• Portugal
13 May 20
@DianneN my father had the same problem and he went to surgery last year. He is fine now.
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@much2say (56056)
• Los Angeles, California
14 May 20
Lock up ? That is scary when handling a heavy pot of boiling water. Thank goodness your husband is there to help you out! I wonder if there are certain exercises you can do on your hand for that? My fingers don't lock up like that, but I do make fists and sleep on top of it (stress thing for me, I think).
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@much2say (56056)
• Los Angeles, California
16 May 20
@DianneN I guess the taping prevents it from getting into a certain position?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
14 May 20
The tendons get caught up on bone. Not fun. Hot water, playing the piano, and taping seems to help me a lot. It could be due to stress, I’m sure.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
16 May 20
@much2say Yes, and it’s been working. I have been taping them for the last three nights and will continue tonight and tomorrow.
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
13 May 20
I sympathize with you on this, as I have problems myself. And my husband helps me too. Glad that your hubby is there for you. How do you enjoy your Spring right now?
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@marlina (154130)
• Canada
13 May 20
@DianneN , Here it is chilly also but today we got the sun .
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@marlina The sun brightens our mood first thing in the morning despite the chilly weather.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Thanks, and I’m glad your husband helps you out, too. Spring is beautiful here, but too chilly for me.
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@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
13 May 20
That sucks but at least you have a pot and pan hubs to fall back on lol... Is that your hob in the photo it looks amazing.
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@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
13 May 20
@DianneN That is what we call the gas range top I liked the pot or saucepan too. The range looks like it would be a joy to cook on.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@maggs224 Thanks so much. It is called a gas range top here, too. It is a joy to cook in my kitchen now. We had the kitchen gutted several years ago and had it redone to make it my dream kitchen.
@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
At least we know he’s good for something. Is a hob a pot or range top? Thanks either way.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
13 May 20
Sorry for that you cant lift it and i am sure i will do for you if i am there. Glad your hubby did for you and hope everything alright with you.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
@birjudanak Thanks and goodnight!
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
Thanks, and of course you would be kind enough to help me out if you were here. I started taping the bad fingers last night and they feel much better today.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
13 May 20
@DianneN Glad to know you feel much better today. Have a great day to you and good night from here.
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
13 May 20
I hate it fingers want to lock up.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
13 May 20
You have it, too?
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
14 May 20
@Elizaby Yes, that happens to me also. Sometimes it happens when I pull weeds or unscrew something.
@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
14 May 20
@DianneN It is not too bad but I hate it when they do cramp up mostly when I am getting a pan out ot the cabinet.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
12 May 20
@DianneN I can understand that. I have shoulders that are damaged and hard to lift heavy things. I am glad you have your husband to help you.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
I’m sorry your shoulders bother you, too. It’s very scary when that happens.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
12 May 20
@Hannihar My husband has two torn rotator cuffs and surgery won’t help. I feel for you.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
12 May 20
@DianneN I have torn ligaments and my doctor once said what happened to my right shoulder was worse than a break and the left is the same way too. It is very hard. I have limitations.
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