How do you handle a SMARTY person?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140053)
Philippines
May 27, 2020 9:43pm CST
Some people were born to be smart. How about those people who are acting to be one? I am sure some of you had encountered these people. They act as if they know everything in this world. A smarty-pants can deceive us, right?
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@jefferson126 (3290)
• Shenzhen, China
28 May 20
Unfortunately,many persons like this lived around me,i can meet such person everywhere.No choice,you know,this is a colourful world,various people lived in the world.No doubt i dislike a smarty_pants,but i don,t think i can change their mind,so i prefer to dismiss them,only listen,but speak nothing out.
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@jefferson126 (3290)
• Shenzhen, China
30 May 20
@Shavkat ,yes,this guys often have firm mind,we are unable to change their mind,dismiss them is best choice.
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@Shavkat (140053)
• Philippines
31 May 20
@jefferson126 I had worked in your country before. Sometimes it is hard to deal with them if they don't listen.
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@innertalks (21980)
• Australia
28 May 20
That's a tough one!
Just how is it best to handle or relate to a know-it-all type of a person, who knows it all, in their own way, and who will not give any credence or time listening to your way, or to your ideas about the subject too?
The answer is not simple because nothing can be added to the full cup of such a tea drinker, but you can pour the tea somewhere else, other than in his cup, instead.
When you hit him or her with something out of left field like this, you create an opening in their thinking, but even so, they will just then usually act quickly to close it off again.
When you love another person, you allow them to be themselves around you, but do not let them stop you from being yourself around them too.
There is an old Zen story that points this out nicely:
A renowned university professor went to visit a famous Zen master.
He claimed that he wanted to learn something about Zen.
While the master quietly served tea, the professor talked about Zen himself, espousing all that he thought that he knew about it.
The master poured the visitor's cup to the brim, and then kept pouring.
The tea was now running over the table, and it was almost reaching the side of the table, where it might run then onto the Professor himself, seated there with the Zen master.
The professor watched the overflowing cup, until he could no longer restrain himself.
"It's full! No more will go into the cup!", the professor blurted out, angrily.
"This is you," the master replied, "How can I show you Zen, unless you first empty your cup."
We cannot teach such a smarty-pants person ever much at all.
He, or she has no room inside of themselves, for any new learning to fit in.
@Shavkat (140053)
• Philippines
28 May 20
Thank you for sharing your epistle about this concern. You did have a point that we cannot teach a smart person because it is his or her system to believe fully to himself or herself. It can be irritating sometimes but we tend to understand them in some ways. Perhaps it is because of having insecurity of themselves.
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@Shavkat (140053)
• Philippines
28 May 20
@jefferson126 Good to know, Welcome to myLot.
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@jefferson126 (3290)
• Shenzhen, China
28 May 20
I heard of this story long time ago,it is a enlightening example.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
28 May 20
we used to call it the : smartest person in the room" syndrome. The one person that always thinks they are the smartest person in any room. i normally just ignore them.
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@Shavkat (140053)
• Philippines
31 May 20
@DocAndersen If I can only walkout, I will do it.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
28 May 20
@Shavkat that is very true, they are also very disruptive when it comes to meetings.
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@marguicha (223439)
• Chile
28 May 20
@Shavkat THey won´t change. So, why bother?
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@Shavkat (140053)
• Philippines
31 May 20
@marguicha I am not bothered. I am irritated.
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@Letranknight2015 (51993)
• Philippines
28 May 20
Maybe they're just good at talking. I was fooled once before when I thought he really had experience with women.
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@Dragonairy1 (1722)
• Newcastle Upon Tyne, England
29 May 20
They can deceive you as they are often very convincing, and it can be a while before you spot the truth.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
28 May 20
a smart person never acts smart but proves thru his results while a acting smart person just claims to be so by his words which no one believes.
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