Cheating in a relationship
By Rain Drain
@fahmita_ (2261)
Indonesia
July 10, 2020 10:52am CST
I hope none of you have ever been cheated on a relationship. Because what I know, it will cause great trauma to something and it's hard to get rid of it. I also couldn't imagine a couple who was married and had children but still had an affair behind their partner. I wonder what is the reason they are having an affair? Is it bored? I'm sometimes afraid of marriage because of thinking about this kind of thing.
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Jul 20
I fear being totally committed to a man it may end up in tears
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
11 Jul 20
@fahmita_ but one can try though incase of luck
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@Luacsadel4 (158)
• Hungary
10 Jul 20
Well first of all, it's a great trauma indeed. In my opinion cheating is done either because of boredom, or the person just not themselves, and don't know what is right, and what is not. It's very common nowadays, but I think you shouldn't be afraid of marriage. If the one you are together with is the one you need, the I'm pretty sure there won't be such problems :)
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@Luacsadel4 (158)
• Hungary
11 Jul 20
@fahmita_ Thank you. I believe you'll find that person ;)
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@kareng (62072)
• United States
10 Jul 20
Throughout my life I have known people who were married that were not happy or were having an affair and confided in me. One I told to leave, get a divorce. He said he couldn't do that because of his kids. I said your kids know something is wrong. Wouldn't you rather them have two happy parents? And they were older late teens so could understand. He didn't and now 10 years later he has left and going to file for divorce. Basically he wasted ten years of his life.
Also a woman I worded with did the same thing. She and her husband had an understanding that the marriage was over. It's sad.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 20
I see, divorce is the best way when our partner cheated. But it's also hard to do, they must think about their child also their family. And moving on is really hurt and difficult. But it's better than stay with a liar. I'll be regreted if I was your friend. wasting her time just for a liar like that. I hope she'll be strong and moving on.
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@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
realtion is commitment
commitment is all about trust
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
15 Jul 20
Yeah, I agree with you. But it's hard to find someone who can keep commitment with me. My ex was lied to me, so I can't believe anyone right now
@aureategloom (11043)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
11 Jul 20
that's why i think it's not good to get too attached to someone - so if that kind of things happen, you can just leave the person. you don't have to forgive the person or try again, you simply leave.
but i kinda understand when people stay together after cheating, if they have a child.
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 20
Yes, but I swear that moving on is the hardest thing. Even though they've cheated on us but obviously we still have a feeling to them.
@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
10 Jul 20
You never know what the other person is thinking it) or planning. What if the couple who are married were in relationship with other person before marriage but were unable to part
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@crafty01 (481)
• Jamshedpur, India
11 Jul 20
Nobody likes to be cheated in any way,
let me explain in this way,
My cheating is like an accident,
now if my partner is cheating then I call it cheating, not an accident.
Welcome to the Age Of Hypocrisy,
anyways the word cheating has a delicate, tactical, complicated sometimes philosophical interpretation.
