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By Eky
@Fasuskey92 (110)
Malang, Indonesia
July 17, 2020 2:17am CST
Recently i had a mishap with my Mom, which is further straining our stale relationship.
Friend of mine told me if my Mom treat me like a Television, she brought it and forget it later, which is correct in my case.
As a kid, seeing this kind of act or emotions every day makes me hates family and didn't have an urge to create one, which is some people think it's weird.
Eventually, I understand if having a kid is unlike buying things, you have to prepared and committed to them.
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@ExplorewtMe (6332)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jul 20
As a kid, you tend to think like that. But it is not the same as time passes. What do you think now?
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@ExplorewtMe (6332)
• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Jul 20
@Fasuskey92 ok, There must be some strong reason behind that. But I differ from you regarding this matter.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
It's the same I suppose, especially when I realized my Mom won't change
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
17 Jul 20
Very difficult to digest the criticism of ones mom. The relationship of mother and son is always something different, no other relationships can match this. You must have special reasons to come out openly with the strained relationship with your mother.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
Perhaps just because I'm grew tired about this kind of relationship, when everyone can trust its own family I can't do that, in my late 20's today I dire need of someone to talked to.
Sure I have a girlfriend but having the family I can call my own is a luxury for now.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
17 Jul 20
@Fasuskey92 Yours is a specific case. I sympathize with you.
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@Shavkat (140131)
• Philippines
18 Jul 20
@Fasuskey92 I am sorry to hear this. My mom doesn't talk much before, but now, we do.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
Not gonna happen unfortunately, she never listened to her own child
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
17 Jul 20
@Fasuskey92 im sorry but you feel that your mom treat you like that?
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
17 Jul 20
Oh so sorry to listen like those from you. But like those not at good.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
Thank you, Yes it is not good.
Well, we can't choose our family in the first place.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
Thank you. Wish you all the best
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@pandeydeependra (611)
• India
18 Jul 20
If it actually happening with you its unfortunate, sometimes we have to maintain the sanctity of the relationship. Mother is above of all the relationships but why she is doing this to you know better than me. I think you should ask to her and resolve the issues.
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@Fasuskey92 (110)
• Malang, Indonesia
17 Jul 20
Absolutely, I would treat them differently.
I created them, so I have to take care of them
@aureategloom (11043)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
17 Jul 20
i'm not sure if your mom acts like that now that you're almost 30 or she was like that even during your childhood.
also, if you don't think that you could do a good job raising your kids, don't.
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