Psychic Problems
@VanyS97 (104)
July 23, 2020 8:45am CST
I do not know if this is really something that should be in here, in this page.
But people, maybe you would have here and there a little advice for me.
Do you know this feelings, whether it is friends or family. They lie to you, they make you feel worthless and else. And you think about to leave all of those bad people behind and get your own family or a get a new circle or something like that. But then you feel like: What if they do it to me too?
Like there is no ground for you anymore, no home. No person you can lean on and you will be shure that this person will stay with you.
Right now I am struggling with this problem and I decided to make a therapy.
But is there maybe some advice you can give me to be okay with being alone and not to feel lost?
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11 responses
@Butterfingers (66583)
• India
23 Jul 20
There are always bad people in our circle and relationship but we should tackle them properly
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@moffittjc (121612)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Jul 20
You are letting self-doubt creep into your thinking. Don't let it. You are better than that, stronger than that, and able to overcome your negative thoughts. Don't try to bury those thoughts, but acknowledge them. When you acknowledge your thoughts, you can own them. Tell yourself that it is just your mind fearing the unknown. You can't always control everything, but you can control certain things. So focus on those things you can control, and try to let go of the things you can't control.
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@moffittjc (121612)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Jul 20
@VanyS97 You're welcome! I hope you're having a great day!
@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
@moffittjc Wow, this is an amazing view. Only to focus on the things I can control. That makes life so much easier. Thank you so so much!
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@pumpkinjam (8768)
• United Kingdom
24 Jul 20
I taught myself to be happy on my own, to create my own happiness and to be content with my own world. It's hard to advise on that as it depends on the person. Once you are happy with yourself, you can then let in the people who complement and support you. You will realise that you don't need those who make you feel worthless.
Apart from that, some people come into our lives only temporarily. I believe that some are with us for a reason - to make us stronger, to teach us something, etc. - and once their lesson is over, they disappear.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
That sentence with to teach us something is really interesting! I think it is true. And you mean self love right? Yes I started to go this road and I feel like I get closer, but I am not really there. Messages like yours give me hope. Thank you so much!
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
24 Jul 20
Many have health problems due to wrong bacteria - Dr Mercola wrote about this and mentioned Dr Natasha Campbell, who helped her son who had autism to get healthy. More problems like dyslexia, Damp and other mentallly distubing things can become better using lactic acid bacteria, as our gut seems to be our second brain.. We can find many kinds of fermentd foods in different foods. I hope this info is useful for you.
@inglebhushan555 (200)
• Amravati, India
23 Jul 20
People used to say me lunatic.
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@Fifihanda (138)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 20
I used to feel the same way, I always ask questions and don't find answers every time I ask someone, but I try to read a book. and I was amazed by books like friends who always accompany me. I found the answers there from some of the books I read, keep reading and you will find new perspectives that will make you a better person
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@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
@Fifihanda I thank you so so much! I never thought that way. But right, reading gives you chills and make your mindset calm down. This is an amazing advice, thank you!
@pandeydeependra (611)
• India
23 Jul 20
Today's era people forget to respect the emotion. Most of the Friends and relatives are very mean. They think about himself.
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@Swayamsiddha (4354)
• New Delhi, India
23 Jul 20
I suggest you to go to a counselor. Things will get better then
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@ExplorewtMe (6332)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Jul 20
Being alone is not a good idea. You need to be self-confident and have faith on yourself. Things will definitely change.
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@Young_boy (1055)
• Bekasi, Indonesia
23 Jul 20
maybe you are tired of that incident. You need time to be alone and calm your mind. I usually if spend most of the time alone in the room and so far I enjoyed it
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@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
@Young_boy Yes I think so too. I hope it will get better then, thank you so much!
@Sourabh12 (17)
• India
24 Jul 20
Your thinking is making you alone. you will think -- I'm not alone, and if you do something, you won't feel lonely. And you'll be able to focus on your goal.
