Do you like a BIG talker?

@Shavkat (140025)

Philippines

August 1, 2020 1:33am CST

I can be a big talker virtually, but I cannot deal with people who are like this offline. Speaking to teaching online, some professional students are so defensive when correcting their mistakes. They tend to be a big talker in defending themselves. The best course of action is to ignore and go with the flow.

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pandeydeependra

@pandeydeependra (611)

• India

1 Aug 20

I cant deal with them. Big talker talker means opposite listener become deaf.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

Some big talkers are not a good listener. He or she is always in the center of the crowd.

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@sophie09 (34236)

• Indonesia

1 Aug 20

I like people who talk much if what they are talking about is useful

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

That would be great if they know what they are talking about.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

2 Aug 20

@sophie09 You can add a person wherein he or she is always in the center of the crowd.

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@sophie09 (34236)

• Indonesia

1 Aug 20

@Shavkat yes i dont like if people talk much about useless stuff

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@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

2 Aug 20

@Shavkat People that talk too much do not listen to what others are saying because they want to hear the sound of their own voices and want all the attention. What you do online is different than those just want to hear the sound of their own voices.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

4 Aug 20

I agree. They tend to be self-centered.

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@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

4 Aug 20

@Shavkat You are so right.

@arunima25 (87830)

• Bangalore, India

1 Aug 20

I do conduct talks and seminars on professional basis. So guess I am a big talker professionally

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

For job-related, I think it is an excuse. I was a Community Facilitator before and I talked too much, too.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

@arunima25 I had enhanced these communication skills through the years. I am an educator but on a different level.

@arunima25 (87830)

• Bangalore, India

1 Aug 20

@Shavkat Yes my job as educator and workshop conductor requires me to talk a lot while as a counselor I need to listen a lot. So I have refined both my skills over a period of time.

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@rhuenz (10643)

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1 Aug 20

I cannot deal with those kind of big talker as well. One time i was told to tutor but then my students is a big talker ,they pretend to be smarter,then why the hell i will teach,haha

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

That's what I am whining about. There is this particular girl student that sounds smarty. When the class starts, I cannot explain it.

She has many mispronounced words and takes note, it is word per word in a paragraph. I can feel that she is going to fail me with my evaluation, but I do not care. She needs to have a big lesson. I corrected her all throughout the class.

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@rhuenz (10643)

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1 Aug 20

@Shavkat you can handle it,i know. That's a role of teacher, to correct and teach the right no matter what.all you need is patience,and strategy,because student have different behaviors.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

@rhuenz Indeed, I am still the master of the class. They need to deal with me and not the other way round.

@Brideen40 (495)

• Kenya

1 Aug 20

It depends can be annoying or can make someone laugh atleast in a serious session

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

It can be annoying if a person doesn't know the perfect timing. He or she needs to be sensitive. There is always time to be tame and not.

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@dawnine1992 (65)

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1 Aug 20

@Shavkat You're right. Some of them are insensitive.

@LadyDuck (471573)

• Switzerland

1 Aug 20

I do not like being talkers unless people are speaking professionally.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

I can deal with this kind of person. I hope he or she talks professionally, too.

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@thelme55 (77137)

• Germany

1 Aug 20

No, I don´t like them especially if they KNOW it all.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

That is also what I hated most the know it all persona.

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@amitkokiladitya (171927)

• Agra, India

1 Aug 20

I hate big talkers and the best way to deal with them is to ignore them

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

I cannot bear talking with someone who doesn't listen to others, too.

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@amitkokiladitya (171927)

• Agra, India

5 Aug 20

@Shavkat yes...but I have to tolerate such a person here.

@Janet357 (75646)

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1 Aug 20

No, I cannot stand people who talk a lot just as I can't stand those who almost don't talk.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

Speaking of a person who can not bear to utter any words, I cannot stand that, too. It was like there are so many times that I am talking to myself.

@piyushbhatia1 (11695)

• India

1 Aug 20

If I get paid.

@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

If you have the skill, then why not.

@piyushbhatia1 (11695)

• India

1 Aug 20

@Shavkat That too.

@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

4 Aug 20

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@Aurel2 (342)

• Surabaya, Indonesia

1 Aug 20

Not like it. I can only smile at them when i meet them.

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

I also do the same thing. A smile cannot hurt anyone.

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@sherlysherly (304)

• Indonesia

1 Aug 20

I really hate a big talker

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@Shavkat (140025)

• Philippines

1 Aug 20

I hate them if they don't know how to stop.