Why makes a LOVER loves the WHOLE FAMILY?

If a person got married,they should separate from parents..they should live and have their own own home to avoid monster in laws. Monster in laws are only there if you live with them

Hear also we having same situation lol. Daughter in law and Mother law always fight each other. But by good luck in my family we having good understanding so no fights hear.

ha ha ha monster in law this word made me laugh

Here also...and the daughter in law is usually the one who is blamed for anything that gets wrong.

I love that movie and have watched it several times. It's the same type of culture in India as well and the bond between the MIL and DIL is interesting... It's almost like a soccer game where both keep playing against each other without actually directly engaging in a fight(most of the times) and of course the husband being the soccer ball But oh well, there is no spice in life without a game! What say!

Whether we have things we did or not,people has a say.. we cannot please everybody.

That's the thing now. Sadly, this is why foreigners forced to spend here and there not only for the woman but also her family. Only to realize he or she was being scammed. Not even locals are safe, I mean I've watch a couple of tulfo episodes, in laws can be a pain.

It is impossible to impose to people to love others. You must love the person who will be your wife or your husband, it is better if you like the family, but if not, you try to stay away as much as you can. We cannot even love our own family sometimes, this claim is ridiculous.

In laws are usually not coexisting in harmony. If it happens, then you are very lucky. There always friction and misunderstanding in such relationships

It is not a myth AT ALL! I have heard of those stories where mother-in-law does not get along with the daughter-in-law so it might turn things into a disaster and fights! It happens in all cultures I guess!

It is difficult situation

I have no issues being the monster in law.

Funny enough it’s my sister and brother in laws that I can’t stand hahahaha

I’ve learned that dealing with family in general is very difficult as obviously everyone likes to judge everyone else.

It's the same here in India too. It's good in a way. But also sometimes it can have a negative impact as people's minds are really complex. An unknown man or woman becoming the part of a new family, and you can also see how he behave with others, treats others, it says a lot about himself or herself. But it is not the only option. I have two sisters. One of my sisters has arranged marriage, and it's the same situation as you mentioned. Her husband loves his own family as well as he loves us too. He treats my mom and dad like his own. We are lucky to have someone like him in our family, and also my sister is lucky to have him. Again my other sister, who did love marriage, her husband also the same. He also treats every one of us like his own family members. It's really common here. But I have seen a lot of people also who have no relation with family, after marriage, they live in other place and no contact with the family.