Don't Judge Me Before You Know Me

@djbrat13 (392)
Phoenix, Arizona
August 25, 2020 10:23pm CST
Okay, I always get weird looks from people when I tell them I was a Correctional Officer at an All Male Prison. And worked there for about 2 years. They seem to think they know me and when I tell them this they don't believe me. Why??? Is it because I look innocent? Is it because I look weak? Why do people judge me for how I look? I'm just as capable as the next guy. So why judge me?
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• Agra, India
26 Aug 20
My life have no place for judgemental people around .e
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• Agra, India
26 Aug 20
@djbrat13 yes...leave the world behind always
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
exactly (((hugs)))
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
26 Aug 20
if you put it on your cv or resume and the name of your supervisor, then it's up to them to do a background check to confirm if you worked there. so how did you end up working there? do they train you? was the contract only for 2 years?
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• Philippines
26 Aug 20
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
I had to take a series of tests to even be eligible to apply. I had to take a psychological test to make sure I was mentally fit of the job. Then I had to take a psycholocial test similar to boot camp of the military to even apply.
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@1creekgirl (41447)
• United States
26 Aug 20
We're often surprised when we find that our assumptions are wrong.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
Yes, that is true, thank you
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@JudyEv (340256)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug 20
Some people are very quick to judge others. It's a shame but I guess it's just the way they are.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
Yes, you are right. Sadly it's true
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@Janet357 (75646)
26 Aug 20
you are right. only God can judge us.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
Exactly, thank you. It's very simple..
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
28 Aug 20
Many will always be quick to judge unfortunately. You seem to be a strong lady. Doesn't matter what others think.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
Thank you but I don't feel strong sometimes, Sometimes I care too much of what other people think. I'll have to work on that.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
@CarolDM You are strong, I'm glad you are able to free yourself from that judgmental feeling (((hugs)))
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
28 Aug 20
@djbrat13 I have been through that many times. I used to care and still do but not as much. I don't let things bother me as much these days.
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@GardenGerty (160708)
• United States
27 Aug 20
My current (female) pastor worked in corrections, and in security, before going back to school and becoming a pastor. I would not judge her by her looks either. She is capable and smart.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
Wonderful, I wish more people saw the situation the way you do and some others. (((hugs)))
@Shavkat (139962)
• Philippines
26 Aug 20
That's the problem for some. They judge a person without knowing him or her first
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@Shavkat (139962)
• Philippines
27 Aug 20
@djbrat13 I agree. I sometimes felt bad because some people cannot speak out. I am not going to force them to say things if they are hurting from within.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
You just never know what someone is going through so I try to not to be judgemental towards others.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
28 Aug 20
@Shavkat Exactly, great way to look at it.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
1 Sep 20
That must have been an interesting job. As you say, it's easy to jump to conclusions about someone and those conclusions may be completely erroneous.
@Sojourn (13837)
• India
26 Aug 20
Wow, you are a super lady! Straightening up the prisoners is one heck of a job.
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
Thank you, It's hard work but it's worth the hard work..
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@fluffy69 (4955)
26 Aug 20
I don't understand why people are easy to judge other's life,
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@djbrat13 (392)
• Phoenix, Arizona
26 Aug 20
I think it's partly human nature, You don't understand so you feel like you have to judge..
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