To Let You Know

@RubyHawk (99405)
Atlanta, Georgia
August 29, 2020 10:19pm CST
I want to let all my friends know that I won’t be back at Mylot for awhile. My son died this morning. Needless to say I’m heartbroken. A mother should never have to bury her son.
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@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
31 Aug 20
Oh Ruby, I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. My heart is broken. It is understandable for you to take a break from myLot. Just remember, we are all here for you if you need us, and will try to help you in any we can. I will be thinking of you and praying for you during this heartbreaking time.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
I appreciate my friends here. You are so kind and understanding. This is the first time I could find the courage to come back here. Thank you for your prayers and being here for me.
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@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 Oct 21
@RubyHawk So glad to hear from you Ruby, and thanks for popping back into myLot. How are you doing?
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@moffittjc (121540)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Oct 21
@RubyHawk I understand Ruby. I know it's been tough for you over the past year. I'm sending a big virtual hug your way.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
30 Aug 20
Oh my goodness Ruby. I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs to you my friend and you can message me any time. So heartbreaking. I agree, I buried mine and it is so unfair. Hugs!!!
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
I’m sorry for your loss too. Life happens in spite of anything we can do.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
30 Sep 21
@RubyHawk Yes it certainly does my friend.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
6 Sep 20
I am so sorry for your loss and you will be in my prayers.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thank you. Today’s the first time I could come back to this page.
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
8 Sep 20
Ruby, I'm so very sorry about your son. I lost my brother the same day. My heart hurts for you
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
And I’m also sorry for the loss of your brother. I feel for you too.
@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
2 Sep 20
I’m so sorry to read this. You are in my prayers.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
1 Oct 21
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thanks, I appreciate you all.
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• Sonora, California
2 Sep 20
I am so sorry to hear this...
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thank you for caring.
@msdivkar (23359)
• India
30 Aug 20
So sad, sorry to hear that. It is hard for a mother to take the demise of her son. My heartfelt condolences.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
I appreciate your condolences. They mean a lot to: me.
@Juliaacv (51045)
• Canada
1 Sep 20
My heart goes out to you. No parent should ever have to bury their son, but it happens, and what we are left with are sweet memories. Hold on to them, they will carry you far. I will keep you in my thoughts and in my prayers.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thank you for your kind words. I welcome your prayers.
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@sallypup (60954)
• Centralia, Washington
30 Aug 20
What!? I'm shocked and sad and well, upset for you. Blessings for you and I'm truly deeply sorry.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thank you for your sympathy. It means a lot to me.
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
1 Sep 20
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you. Take care.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
It’s been over a year and it’s still hard to accept.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
30 Aug 20
@RubyHawk Ruby, I am so so sorry. Take all the time you need and please take care of yourself. I am so glad you have Leo to help you through this.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
Thank you for your kind words. Leo was a big help and sadly he passed away three weeks ago.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
1 Oct 21
@RubyHawk You are so welcome and I care about you Ruby and remember how much he suffered and you alongside of him. That is very recent that he passed away.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
@Hannihar yes, I can still hardly take it in.
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• Agra, India
30 Aug 20
Omg ...this is shocking. I have no words..your post gave me a goose flesh . How did this happen
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@fluffy69 (4955)
30 Aug 20
How sad,stay strong
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
I try every day to be strong.
• India
30 Aug 20
Am so sorry to know about him. My condolences
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thank you, it’s been over a year and it’s still fresh on my mind and he will always be in my heart.
@tammys85 (30065)
• Baltimore, Maryland
6 Sep 20
I am so sorry to hear of this. My inbox is open if you ever need to talk.
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@tammys85 (30065)
• Baltimore, Maryland
6 Oct 21
@RubyHawk You're welcome, and I hope you're doing okay.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thanks, I’ve been away for over a year and checked back in a coup of days ago.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Oct 21
@tammys85 Thank you, I’m trying to take it all in.
@RebeccasFarm (89832)
• Arvada, Colorado
30 Sep 21
I feel so badly that I had missed this posting Ruby. God rest your beloved Son.. How old was he and what happened to him Ruby? So so sorry now.
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• Arvada, Colorado
30 Sep 21
@RubyHawk Thank you for telling me Ruby. I too have a son who is sick so I more than understand. There are no words to comfort that I can say here as I know that would be futile. Do you have other children too? Or was he the only?
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• Arvada, Colorado
1 Oct 21
@RubyHawk I am glad too you have them Ruby I appreciate you saying so as I know you understand. I hope the day is kind to you there Ruby.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
@RebeccasFarm I’m sorry your son is sick, you have my sympathy. I have two other sons which I’m so very thankful for.
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@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
30 Aug 20
Oh my goodness Ruby, I am so very sorry, what happened to your son? I am sending my deepest condolence.
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@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
1 Oct 21
@RubyHawk I am so sorry he was in pain. No matter how much we are prepared it is always a shock. He is resting in peace now.
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@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
1 Oct 21
@RubyHawk It was the same for me for my mother. After the stroke she was paralyzed and in pain and she did not enjoy life anymore.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
@LadyDuck I take great comfort in knowing he isn’t suffering pain. It’s the only thing that helps.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
29 Sep 20
Oh Ruby, I am so sorry to hear this. Your right, a mother should never have to bury their children, I have buried 2 of mine so I know what you are feeling. I hope you will be alright, if you need to talk I am here for you. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
4 Oct 21
@RubyHawk Staying strong is all we can do but don't forget to cry when you need to, they are our children and we have a right to grieve for them as long as we need. My heart is with you Ruby.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
5 Oct 21
@RubyHawk OH Ruby, I was the same way, we lost a part of us that we will never get back, that's quite a shock. Do you believe he is still with you in spirit, that's the only thing that keeps me going. I talk to mine all the time
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
I’m so sorry that you have lost two children. I know the sorrow you feel. I’m trying to stay strong.
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@nela13 (58592)
• Portugal
2 Sep 20
OMG, I am so sorry, it must be devastating My prayers are with you, I will pray to God to give you comfort.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
30 Sep 21
Thanks for your kind thoughts and your prayers.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
1 Oct 21
@nela13 Thank you. I’m glad to be back.It helps occupy my mind. And I’m enjoying catching up with my friends.
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@nela13 (58592)
• Portugal
1 Oct 21
@RubyHawk you're so very welcome. I am glad to see you here again.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
18 Apr 22
Older news, but news to me, and I sincerely hope that responding to this now does not stir up ill feelings. Gosh, what a terrible thing. You are in my thoughts even if this was not recent.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
18 Apr 22
It will be two years 29th of August since my son passed away. I didn’t come back to Mylot until my mate passed away last September 10. It’s been a hard two years but I’m still putting one foot in front of the other. Thank you for responding. It’s still fresh in my mind and probably always will be.
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
19 Apr 22
@RubyHawk Never easy to say goodbye. How old was your son if you don't mind me asking?
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@porwest (89914)
• United States
21 Apr 22
@RubyHawk Gosh. Very, very sorry to hear it.
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