Why does woman speak of kids always

Karachi, Pakistan
September 18, 2020 3:25am CST
Everytime I talk with my childhood friends, colleagues, pals, coworkers or relatives. Whenever they speak of having a relationship their most emphasized reason is to have kids. I don't say that having such motive is wrong but why do you need someone to fall in love to produce you a kid, isn't that too greedy? Does relationship has no other fuel but future generation
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Sep 20
I married because of love, children made the bond stronger
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
But lets just say he doesn't plan to have kids wouldn't your relationship still be strong. I mean why does it has to be something else to complete the 2 person who love one another
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 Sep 20
@Loverabbit it's a case to case basis my idea and experience does not necessarily mean that it's the most ideal for everyone, no 2 people or situation is the same so generalization is impossible.
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• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Sep 20
@louievill yeah not saying they must not have kids ....but hasn't a relationship got to be beautiful itself with no need for a third one to complete
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@Janet357 (75646)
18 Sep 20
I married becausd.of love. not because of kids
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
18 Sep 20
Reproduction is the primary motive love is just a tool.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
20 Sep 20
@Loverabbit It is out of the world experience the moments you spend with your kids.
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
@msdivkar I can't answer that I haven't been there yet
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
For real but can't understand why that motive is stronger than love
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
18 Sep 20
I think it is given to love someone and have kids with him or her.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
22 Sep 20
@Loverabbit Nope. There are many things to love someone.
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• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Sep 20
@Shavkat exactly then a kid to complete a relationship is such a killer
• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
Is having kid the only way to prove love to him or her?
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@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
18 Sep 20
For me, it is an arranged marriage, Kids giving more bonding now. So happy with my life.
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
See even when you married without prior love .... bonding grew stronger after having kids. I mean why does there has to be a third person to complete the first 2 and make their relationship grow stronger, can't it be done otherwise.
• India
18 Sep 20
There are lots of children on this planet
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
Evidence that tons of relationships exist
• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
@piyushbhatia1 ready to process many more kids
• India
20 Sep 20
@Loverabbit sure. Many more new couples
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• Indonesia
18 Sep 20
I married because of love
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• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 20
And you don't see kids making your life complete?