Love Or Arrange

@Ajy78613 (2001)
Australia
October 16, 2020 2:35am CST
At present my age is 26 years old And now my parents insisting me that i go for my marriage.. But I'm waiting for my true love, I'm not refusing or rejecting my parents'proposal but i would like to do love marriage if possible.. Do you like love or arrange marriage? Which one is best, love or arrange??? Your marriage is loved or arranged?? What's your thought about love marriage and arrange marriage?
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
16 Oct 20
I am married for last 20 years. I knew him from my 9 grade but never felt anything till we got engaged. We were arranged to fall in love. Well we got an year of courtship and that was really romantic. For me success of any relationship, respect and friendship is more important than romance in long run.
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Long time no seen you
@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
All the best for your love life, have a happy married life Yes you are right, in a relationship trust & understanding is one of the most important thing
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@arunima25 (87770)
• Bangalore, India
16 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 Thank you. It's already twenty years over.
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@rhuenz (10643)
16 Oct 20
I don't agree with arranged marriage. Love marriage ofcourse is the best. Why parents need to arranged?they are not the one to live with what they choose. We have the freedom of will,in terms of love and everything .
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@fahmita_ (2261)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 20
Very good opinion. I agree with you.
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@rhuenz (10643)
16 Oct 20
@fahmita_ thanks
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Exactly, i have the same thinking as you
@ckciasigurl (2081)
• Italy
16 Oct 20
hi im married for almost 3 yrs and we have a baby girl 1 month old for me love marriage for me is the best we're both inlove and i know that i made the right choice.
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Nice to know that, have a happy married life
@Shavkat (139694)
• Philippines
16 Oct 20
I prefer the free will to marry someone. Not in fixed marriage.
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@Shavkat (139694)
• Philippines
17 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 It's my pleasure to share.
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Thanks for your precious advice
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
17 Oct 20
@Shavkat how are you today
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
16 Oct 20
are you parent's marriage arranged?
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• Philippines
17 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 uh, no. i was asking how your own parents got married. were they arranged by your grandparents?
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Well this is not final yet
@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
17 Oct 20
@hereandthere yes arranged
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
16 Oct 20
I would have to agree with @edisondanila that you should be able to exercise your freedom of choice. We never know what we got into until we are there
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Hehe then also find someone for me
• Santiago, Chile
16 Oct 20
I just think that your parent should not get into your intimate life. They should give you your space, and let you decide whether to get married or not. I understand for some cultures it is so important to be married at a certain age, but the world has evolved, we're not in the 1950's anymore. I do hope you find true love.
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• Santiago, Chile
17 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 agreed.
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
17 Oct 20
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Yes you are right, it's depend on new generation thinking and old generation thinking
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 20
I dont like arranged if i can find my future husband by my own, i will be happy
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 hahaha
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
I'm here for you lol You looking for husband I'm looking for wife Both are looking-looking Let's look at each other
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
@KityCat (7736)
• India
16 Oct 20
In my opinion marrying your love is the best thing
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@KityCat (7736)
• India
17 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 Nice to see you here again . Haven't seen you in a long time
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
17 Oct 20
@KityCat yeah, do you remember me? Wow
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Yes you are right
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• India
16 Oct 20
Arranged or not look for a stable partner
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
16 Oct 20
Thanks for your advice
• India
16 Oct 20
@Ajy78613 welcome
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• Romania
16 Oct 20
@ Ajy78613 love is the most beautiful feeling between two people, if you get married out of the arrangement you will feel suffocated and you will want to give up everything with the first problem.
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@Ajy78613 (2001)
• Australia
17 Oct 20
Exactly, I'm agree with your words, what about your married life?