Cesarean section
By Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8344)
Pakanbaru, Indonesia
November 2, 2020 8:27pm CST
Yesterday I met my doctor and checked my pregnancy. All good and healthy. I also told him about my plan to do Cesarean section for this pregnancy because I think I am already old and this is gonna be my 4th kids, I am almost 35 years old btw.
So I kinda worry, mostly like I don't know what to do or what to prepare. I am gonna do c-section in the middle February, it seems like there are plenty time. But I want to prepare everything earlier, because once my pregnancy's getting bigger, I will get exhausted so easily, so shopping won't be fun anymore.
Is there any tips for me? Share please...
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@marguicha (223863)
• Chile
3 Nov 20
My second daughter was around 45 when she had Sofía, her 4th child. No Cesarean.
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@marguicha (223863)
• Chile
3 Nov 20
@Cheyee Then you could do both things at the same time.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
3 Nov 20
@marguicha yes. That's the plan. I just don't know what to prepare.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
3 Nov 20
That is not old at all there are risks but like another said we have no choice in the matter here if they want to do a C/Section they will but you cannot tell them here no way.
If you feel that there might be problems like a breech birth or baby lying transverally all the time then it would be a good idea to have a C/Section wishing you a very safe delivery for you and the child.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
3 Nov 20
@Cheyee
I can appreciate that what you want to do.
Its good thinking and again wishing you a very safe and happy delivery for both ot you.
All best wishes.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
3 Nov 20
@lovinangelsinstead21 thank you so much sue...
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
9 Nov 20
LOL... this brings back a lot of memories. My first child was a C-Section for medical reasons. My second was a C-section at my request. I have no idea which is easier, but I'm glad that I chose what I did. I also had a vertical cut instead of horizontal and I'm the biggest baby going lol. I got through it no problem. Sending some hugs your way. You will do just fine. :)
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
9 Nov 20
Vertical cut? Because the baby was too big? Wow..
Thank you so much. Hugs 
@Letranknight2015 (52090)
• Philippines
4 Nov 20
Hello @Cheyee then you should ask the doctor if it's okay to ligate at the age of 35. I think your still young. In my opinion that operation it very risky. A tip is something you should get from an experience doctor or woman who gave birth 1 to 4 times.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50561)
• United States
3 Nov 20
I had a c-section when I had my son. I wish that I had him natural.
@Tampa_girl7 (50561)
• United States
3 Nov 20
@Cheyee yes, it was an emergency c-section.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39509)
• United States
3 Nov 20
i read below that'cher reasonin' fer the c-section 'tis coz ya wish yer tubes tied. i'd mine done 'fter the birth 'f my last young'un. 'tis a relatively simply procedure done with a tiny 'ncision - nothin' like a c-section'n much quicker recovery time. but, that'd be 'twixt yerself'n yer doc.
'n 35 aint ol', one 'f my cousins 'd her first 't 39, her second 't 43 with no complications.
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
3 Nov 20
Why do you want to go for a C section. 35 is not that old age. If you are healthy and doing good, you should go for a natural birth. Is your doctor suggesting for a C section??
@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
3 Nov 20
@Cheyee Oh! Then it makes sense. I guess you will need rest post your surgery and so some support system should be in place to take care of your household and your children. I guess they must be young right now.
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
3 Nov 20
@arunima25 yes, the oldest is 11 years old. The other 2 are under 5 years old.
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