Tomorrow Is His Birthday
By SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
November 10, 2020 2:19am CST
Hello all, hope you all are fine today. Tomorrow is his birth. Now the question is "who is he"? I'm confuse about he that I should say he is my boyfriend or my ex-boyfriend? We can't stay apart but these days he realising the hardship or reality of life. He also making me understand that he has family and his family will never accept an orphan like me.
He convincing me that we are not made for each other at the same time he is telling me that he can't live without me. Its hard to be disconnected completely for our emotional attachment. If we bring any animal to our life, it become a part of our life and he is my love so it may takes time to be apart. I always told him my limits as a girl or woman but he always told me that he'll manage everything as a man but today story has changed, he behaving like he can't fight for me, can't make his life complicated.
Anyway we need time to be disconnected I think.
Good day all
I wish him a blessed birthday and you all please pray for him.
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16 responses
@vandana7 (100638)
• India
10 Nov 20
@piyushbhatia1 Perhaps you can tell me. I feel the guy should be man enough to tell her he has no idea to continue with this, and is extremely sorry he led her to believe there is future and tell her he is disconnecting for her own good, but would be there for her should she need help, ever.
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@vandana7 (100638)
• India
10 Nov 20
I am no great relationship adviser. But I feel he is using you. He also has an egoistic pleasure in you fawning over him. Please stop as it will hurt your confidence. You be the one to ditch him. Family not accepting? Does it matter if he loves you? Not made for each other so what. Tomorrow you are not going to wish him. Please do not! Have a ball. Get out, lift his phone but tell him you are busy. Play hard to get. Go have fun, and make him feel he is the one who is missing out on you. Do not fawn.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
12 Nov 20
@SHOHANA I'm really sorry you're in this situation. I know it must be hard. And what is harder is one of the options I'm about to suggest to you. And that is to straight up tell him that if he cannot fight for you or be 100% sure that he wants a relationship with you, then it's best for you to say goodbye. And either two things can happen with you doing that.
Either he will realise that he really can lose you completely and make things right or he will just say goodbye also. And for your sake if that was the case, then that's better for you. It's horrible waiting for someone to be with you only to have nothing happen or improve. It's not a nice feeling to be an option to somebody. Or to give someone the very best only for them to give you nothing back.
I honestly wish you the very best!
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
13 Nov 20
@VivaLaDani13 he was frustrated and now he is sorry for his negative attitude, I decide to forgive him
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
15 Nov 20
@vandana7 I agree with you. I understand how hard that can be especially if things don't work out the way we were hoping but I also truly believe that it's better to know that soon as possible so the healing can begin as well as moving on.
@SHOHANA That is good he was sorry. I do hope his negative attitude isn't a continuous thing though and he treats you the way wish and deserve to be treated.
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@LindaOHio (182154)
• United States
10 Nov 20
I think you need to make a clean break from him.
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@jdbces (1845)
• Philippines
10 Nov 20
I really hope you'll find someone better which you deserve. I have a cousin who lost both parents already and I was happy when she married a good man because that's what she needs, that's what you also need. I hope you can find some good distractions like a new hobby, your job, part time job, spending time with a good friend/a new friend or a better man. Anything just not him. 
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@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
10 Nov 20
I wish him a happy birthday, in my opinion I think you are doing the right thing to be disconnected with him although it's hard but it's good for both of you.
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@Dreamerby (6017)
• Calcutta, India
11 Nov 20
What are you waiting for? Just cut off all contacts with him. Clear the mental block. You don't owe him for anything then why keep on doing something which takes peace away
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