confirmed: I lost my first baby
By Simone
@Janet357 (75646)
November 15, 2020 11:52pm CST
I don't know what to say but as I am writing this, am crying. I lost my baby.
I was going to name him/her Proverbs. But he or she is now gone....
It is hard to explain what am feeling right now. But I have totally understood what motherhood is all about, her love for her child is just immeasurable...
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@crossbones27 (49344)
• Mojave, California
16 Nov 20
That is rough that is so heart breaking.I would give biggest hug to try to make that pain a bit less.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Nov 20
I'm so, so sorry. I must admit I feared the worst when you asked me about spotting.
I lost my first baby too (at full term so it was a stillbirth) but went on to have two perfect children. I hope the same happens to you, though I know how devastated you must be at the moment.
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@arunima25 (87737)
• Bangalore, India
16 Nov 20
Oh! Dear. That's heartbreaking. I remember your posts and I know it's a big loss for you. I have no words for your loss. I will just hug you tight and say that all is in God's plan. Have faith there.
Have faith there.3 people like this
@arunima25 (87737)
• Bangalore, India
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 Keeping you in prayers dear.
What was the cause of this miscarriage??
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
16 Nov 20
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Proverbs loved you too because you are his/her mother and you nurtured him/her in your womb even for a while.
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@GodServantme (1541)
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16 Nov 20
My mom loss 4 kids Beacuase of miscarriages and she have depression after that
@rsa101 (38126)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 Although we didn’t experience that l can feel the pain your going through.
. I am actually grasping for words that could comfort you at this time but l think you need this time to grieve. Just pray and be strong at this point in time of your life.
. I am actually grasping for words that could comfort you at this time but l think you need this time to grieve. Just pray and be strong at this point in time of your life.1 person likes this
@Letranknight2015 (51914)
• Philippines
16 Nov 20
Hello @prinzcy The baby's body no longer functions, But the soul is definitely in heaven now. You need to name the BABY even after the passing. You might end up seeing this baby again grown up there and doesnt realize you didn't name him/her.
There was a story about a boy colton bourpo who was NDE while he was operated.his sould went to heaven and met a nameless sister. He went back and later told his parents.
My mom had two miscarriages, two elder brothers before me. Of course, if they had lived, I probably wouldn't have existed.
I'm sorry that It's a really sad loss. But NAME the Baby @prinzcy regardless
When he was 3, Colton Burpo went to heaven during an operation on his ruptured appendix, and at now age 11, tells what he saw and heard! http://event.cbn.com...
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@iKONICNoona (4185)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 I am sad reading this. And I dont know what comforting words to say but keep your self healthy for now. Be with family members.
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@RasmaSandra (79362)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Nov 20
I am so sorry to hear this, Virtual hugs to you, I know it is a very hard thing to go through,
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@Michellekidwell (29370)
• Sonora, California
17 Nov 20
I am so sorry for your loss
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