confirmed: I lost my first baby

@Janet357 (75646)
November 15, 2020 11:52pm CST
I don't know what to say but as I am writing this, am crying. I lost my baby. I was going to name him/her Proverbs. But he or she is now gone.... It is hard to explain what am feeling right now. But I have totally understood what motherhood is all about, her love for her child is just immeasurable...
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@crossbones27 (49463)
• Mojave, California
16 Nov 20
That is rough that is so heart breaking.I would give biggest hug to try to make that pain a bit less.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thank you for this kind words! I really appreciate it.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
16 Nov 20
I'm so, so sorry. I must admit I feared the worst when you asked me about spotting. I lost my first baby too (at full term so it was a stillbirth) but went on to have two perfect children. I hope the same happens to you, though I know how devastated you must be at the moment.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
Was it your first baby? The one you lost? At what age? After how many months before you got preggy again?
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@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
16 Nov 20
That is really sad. I am sorry for your loss.
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@JudyEv (340019)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Nov 20
I am so very sorry to hear this. You must both be devastated.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
My devastation is beyond words but somehow some biblical texts lessens the pain.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
16 Nov 20
Oh! Dear. That's heartbreaking. I remember your posts and I know it's a big loss for you. I have no words for your loss. I will just hug you tight and say that all is in God's plan. Have faith there.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 Keeping you in prayers dear. What was the cause of this miscarriage??
@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thank you. It is one of the most painful moments of my life.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
16 Nov 20
I am so sorry for your loss. I know Proverbs loved you too because you are his/her mother and you nurtured him/her in your womb even for a while.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
Your comment made me cry. It gave me hope. I wish indeed that he or she felt my love for him or her.
16 Nov 20
My mom loss 4 kids Beacuase of miscarriages and she have depression after that
@pitstop (13794)
• Australia
16 Nov 20
This is heartbreaking. I hope you get enough support to help you through this tough time. I can't even imagine how you're feeling. Praying for healing.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thanks for the prayers.My husband is very supportive along with my other family members. It just makes me cry everytime i remember it.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
16 Nov 20
Oh I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I also am speechless as to how to comfort you at this time as I can understand you have to grieve for your baby.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 Although we didn’t experience that l can feel the pain your going through.. I am actually grasping for words that could comfort you at this time but l think you need this time to grieve. Just pray and be strong at this point in time of your life.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thank you. It is like losing a grown son or daughter.
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• Philippines
16 Nov 20
Hello @prinzcy The baby's body no longer functions, But the soul is definitely in heaven now. You need to name the BABY even after the passing. You might end up seeing this baby again grown up there and doesnt realize you didn't name him/her. There was a story about a boy colton bourpo who was NDE while he was operated.his sould went to heaven and met a nameless sister. He went back and later told his parents. My mom had two miscarriages, two elder brothers before me. Of course, if they had lived, I probably wouldn't have existed. I'm sorry that It's a really sad loss. But NAME the Baby @prinzcy regardless
When he was 3, Colton Burpo went to heaven during an operation on his ruptured appendix, and at now age 11, tells what he saw and heard! http://event.cbn.com...
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@rakski (122997)
• Philippines
16 Nov 20
I am very sorry to know this.
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
17 Nov 20
I am so sorry. Take care. This happened to me also.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
were you able to get pregnant again after your miscarriage?
@rhuenz (10643)
16 Nov 20
Oh what happened why you lost your baby? I am so sorry to hear that, I once experienced it too,i can feel the pain. Like i am hoping for another blessing to come,you too hope for it.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
when did you have your first miscarriage?
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@rhuenz (10643)
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 January of this year only.it's 1 month miscarriage
@iKONICNoona (4194)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 I am sad reading this. And I dont know what comforting words to say but keep your self healthy for now. Be with family members.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
Thank you. I fee your sincerity. It is beyond words to.explain my grief. I think even if i have many kids, he or she will always have a special place in my heart
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
16 Nov 20
Be strong, I hope God give you strength. I know it's hard, but I believe all your family support you. And your child loves you.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
It makes me happy to know that my child loves me too.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
17 Nov 20
@Janet357 hugs..
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 20
Stay strong
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
I am not good at this kind of situation, but I am sorry to hear this.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
It is okay. Thanks for the sympathy.
@RasmaSandra (79858)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Nov 20
I am so sorry to hear this, Virtual hugs to you, I know it is a very hard thing to go through,
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thanks Miss Sandra. The saddest moment of my life.
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@fluffy69 (4955)
16 Nov 20
Sorry for your loss,stay strong and stay positive
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@Janet357 (75646)
20 Nov 20
thank u
• Sonora, California
17 Nov 20
I am so sorry for your loss
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
Thank you.
@KityCat (7736)
• India
17 Nov 20
That is heart breaking... Sorry for your loss.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Nov 20
thank you.
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