"Did YOU ever feel DEATH from within?" / myLot

Philippines

November 16, 2020 5:42pm CST

Loving someone can make us feel death when being hurt by him or her. I am not referring to death physically but being brokenhearted. Breaking up is the root cause of feeling death from within, especially if it happens abruptly. There are so many reasons why it happened. It cannot be denied because it affects the total well being of a person. Have you ever experienced this kind of feeling? How did you cope up? Image Credit: media4.giphy.com

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Mr.Yang

@jefferson126 (3316)

• Shenzhen, China

17 Nov 20

To be honest,when i am youngster,maybe will get heart-break due to breaking up with a girl.However,nowadays,as i grew up,i understood you need not rely on anyone,even a girl leave you alone,you can still be alive.trust me,time will relieve any distress.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

I do think we can cope up with ending a romantic relationship with someone. Dwelling in the past relationship for so long is unhealthy.

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Mr.Yang

@jefferson126 (3316)

• Shenzhen, China

17 Nov 20

@Shavkat ,of course,once a relationship closed down,you should discard it completely,don't keep past memory or memento,it is useless and maybe cause sadness.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@jefferson126 It is not good to be in a relationship with the ex.

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Arya

@yoalldudes (35037)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

More than you can imagine. Betrayal all those stuff. It makes me want to end my life.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@yoalldudes I am fine now. I had moved on.

Arya

@yoalldudes (35037)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

@Shavkat Are you okay now? Being hopeful and moving on will help.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

16 Nov 20

Those is something that one would not want to experience in a relationship. I could not recall mine but just had to forget about it because it was difficult to always make the memory alive is just nit good to recall.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

I agree. It is the moment that we don't want to remember. It's a feeling that we need to forget.

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Yanzalong

@yanzalong (18987)

• Indonesia

16 Nov 20

It was a long time ago. I don't remember exactly how I felt.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

As a matter of fact, it is better not to remember the feeling of being brokenhearted.

Kharla Jolly

@kobesbuddy (78871)

• East Tawas, Michigan

6 Dec 20

After ten years in a good marriage, my husband decided he wanted a divorce. For no reason, except he wanted to be free to date again! Yes, I was heartbroken, this hurt terribly for a long time. Eleven years, I was a single parent to our two children. I met a very kind man and in two years, we got married.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

7 Dec 20

I am sorry to hear this. I am glad that you cope up with the changes after the divorce for the kids. The bright side is that you found new love again. It was not a good feeling to be heartbroken.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

10 Dec 20

@kobesbuddy I a happy for you. I do hope I can find my soulmate, too.

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Kharla Jolly

@kobesbuddy (78871)

• East Tawas, Michigan

7 Dec 20

@Shavkat Now, I have a better life with a beautiful husband, who really loves me.

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Shifa

@ShifaLk (17817)

• India

17 Nov 20

Yes.. it happens..... We actually depend upon that person for our happiness and..... I think we should not do like that but still we do

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@ShifaLk I am not sure, too. Perhaps they are just being like that.

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Shifa

@ShifaLk (17817)

• India

19 Nov 20

@Shavkat yes. But I wonder how the other person sometimes becomes so feelingless... I don't know even if love actually exists. Because then how it gets finished if its existed in the 1st place

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Shifa

@ShifaLk (17817)

• India

22 Nov 20

@Shavkat yes. Perhaps they're lying

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BrittneeD

@BrittneeD (350)

• United States

24 Nov 20

My first serious love at 15 honestly made me feel this way it took me months to get over it ....days of just crying weeks of crying at night .. I still watch certain movies and feel that sting of my first love..not sure how else you get over it I guess it just slowly fades and you hope to find new love.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

24 Nov 20

I am glad that you shared your thoughts about it. I thought I was the only one who felt this way before. But then, we can move on and find a new love in our lives.

DianneN

@DianneN (247184)

• United States

17 Nov 20

I never experienced heartbreak from breaking up. I usually was the one causing the heartbreak, but I broke up in a caring way.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

17 Nov 20

I think you are one of the women who can break up in the kindest way. Is it easy?

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (140140)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@DianneN That's really not a good situation. Your ex cannot accept the failure in having a relationship. Perhaps the father is so concerned with his son's agitated behavior.

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DianneN

@DianneN (247184)

• United States

17 Nov 20

@Shavkat It's been a long time. The last breakup was with my boyfriend of 6 years. That was a rotten mess. He wound up having a mental breakdown, and his father called me to tell me to get rid of my new boyfriend (my future husband) and return to his son. So glad that episode is over. And thanks!