When will you come to know in advance

@rhuenz (10643)
November 23, 2020 11:06pm CST
Sometimes our decision ends with good result or worst. Now we are decided with my husband to have our own place and life I hope we are in the right decision, It would not be a luxurious life but at least with peace and freedom. Have you done any decision in your life? How is your experiences?
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@Nakitakona (56484)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
Everyone is here for happiness. Now you are on the verge of frustration for happiness is nowhere to find. If you don't to be a martyr, make a final decision now. Nothing looking back. But if you want to bear such inconvenience in life and willing to suffer while living, stay put.
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@Nakitakona (56484)
• Philippines
25 Nov 20
@rhuenz You're welcome. Hope it would be settle soon in your favor.
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@rhuenz (10643)
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26 Nov 20
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@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
Haha i got your point, I am not a martyr anyway,it always come in my mind that thought that...everything is our choice,to be happy or to suffer.Thanks for that reminder.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
24 Nov 20
@rhuenz I have made lots of decisions but not all good. Right now I wish I could make a decision but we cannot afford to move so stuck we are if all agrees. I am glad you will have peace and your freedom. That is very important I feel.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
I can relate on you. Maybe there is decision that brings goodness and some regrets. And yes peace and freedom matters in living a happy life
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
24 Nov 20
@rhuenz There is no answer for many things going on in my life.
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@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
@Hannihar There is answer my dear,just commit everything to God.
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 20
I made lots of decision in life. Not all are good, not all are bad either. I won't lie if there's time I regret some of my decision. But what's done is done. Just accept, learn from it and move on.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
Very true,learn from it.
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rakski
@rakski (126362)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
oh yes, We moved out from my in-laws and rented an apartment near my office. My MIL was having her menopausal that time and it was very difficult to deal with her plus the fact that it is hard to deal with her. And a few years after, we were able to find a home of our own with my SIL's help.
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@rakski (126362)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
@rhuenz yes, though my sister-in-law is near us, we two are okay. and she helps me a lot too. She also know how it is to deal with her parents since she experience it also
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@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
That's good to know you have your own place now. Mostly in-laws are a headache haha.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
I believe you are making a good decision. Best of luck.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
Thank you.
Anne
@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
Decision to live with my love and have our own place to live, you're right it's nice to have a freedom no one will control you.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
Freedom to live is very important.
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Anne
@Hytton03 (5451)
• Philippines
25 Nov 20
@rhuenz yeah right ;)
Shavkat
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
I had so many decisions in life.
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LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (52096)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
You realize it's still pandemic right? good luck I hope you don't end up in a neighborhood that has high covid cases.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
I pray for our safetiness. I saw the place,it's spacious and independent house. Distance from the city so it would be good.
Angela ugwu
@Silvrose (174)
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24 Nov 20
Yes peace and freedom matter a lot in someone's life.we all pray to have peace and freedom.Goodluck in advance
Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
24 Nov 20
Decision to get married at young age. It's risky, but both of us learn and we do great.
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rhuenz
@rhuenz (10643)
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24 Nov 20
Thanks for sharing, I am glad you stand in your decision and face it.
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@jdbces (1845)
• Philippines
24 Nov 20
I'm glad you'll be living separately from your in-laws. It'll be worth it. No matter how you may struggle in pursuing your independent life, it will be worth it. You cannot buy peace of mind.