Hard times - be there for someone

@Bensen32 (27610)
United States
December 16, 2020 6:04pm CST
These are hard times for many people. Just this time of year without all that is going on is hard on some people and this year it is even harder due to the pandemic. I know there are many who get sad due to the holidays and missing family that they might not be able to get together with or that have passed on. This year with many places still restricting travel and get togethers it’s going to be even harder on some people. Try your best to contact people and let them know you are there for them even if you can not be there physically. Check in on each other and let them know they matter. This time of year, and this year for sure, stay in contact with family and friends. Your phone call or visit could mean so much to them. Being there for someone can make a world of difference. Take care of yourself and each other. Know there are people who care. Feel free to send a private message if you need to, I don’t have the answers but I certainly can listen.
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rebelann1949
@rebelann (112770)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Dec 20
That's what we do here. I just found out that one of my friends has to remain in quarantine because one of the providers for her mother had covid, we talk on the phone and text, it's all we can do for now.
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rebelann1949
@rebelann (112770)
• El Paso, Texas
18 Dec 20
I pray his cancer will go into a permanent remission @Bensen32
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Yeah, we can only do what we can, I talk to my parents at least once a week. I can not see my father right now since he is fighting cancer and does not want to take to many visitors.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
18 Dec 20
@rebelann Thank you, yeah we can hope for the best.
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George B Vieto
@Deepizzaguy (102523)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Dec 20
In these tough times, we need to assist one another.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Yes, we do. It's hard times for many people.
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George B Vieto
@Deepizzaguy (102523)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Dec 20
@Bensen32 That is so true.
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Marie
@Tampa_girl7 (50179)
• United States
17 Dec 20
This is a beautiful message. I hope everyone puts these things into action.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
We can hope they do. There are many that need this help.
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RasmaSandra
@RasmaSandra (79648)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Dec 20
I think this is the years that people need to be there for one another. I am on my own but I am going to make myself a Merry Little Christmas
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
I hope that you enjoy this time.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (339433)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Dec 20
That's very thoughtful of you and what you say is so true. So many find Christmas very difficult.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (339433)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Dec 20
@Bensen32 Our state has just closed its borders again after new cases in the East. Some who have just arrived will now have to go into quarantine again.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
@JudyEv Wow, so things are not getting any better there either it sounds like.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Yes, they do and this year I think is much harder for people with everything that is going on.
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Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
17 Dec 20
I don't have large social circle. But I do keep contacting friends and family. This is a good reminder for us.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
18 Dec 20
@Cheyee Yeah, sometimes that make the world of a difference for someone, just knowing someone is there for them.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
I am the same I don't have a lot of friends but I been trying to keep in contact with those that I do have.
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Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
18 Dec 20
@Bensen32 true, let them know we always there for them. Maybe not much helping but listen their rants
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popciclecold
@popciclecold (38586)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Wow, what a powerfully true post. Thank you.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Thank you, I know some people that are already going through some hard times and I feel for them.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
17 Dec 20
In times like this, we need to have a strong support system.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
17 Dec 20
@Bensen32 Thanks.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
You are right about that.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
17 Dec 20
What a beautiful message you are sending here through your post. I am in touch with those I know have no one. It's sad being alone during the holidays.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (471253)
• Switzerland
18 Dec 20
@Bensen32 Many elders will be alone for the holidays this year. Our Mayor has appointed volunteers who are ready to visit those who feel too lonely.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Yes, many people really have a hard time around the holidays. It's very sad that this year it is even worse cause many can not get together with others.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
18 Dec 20
@LadyDuck Oh that is a very nice thing to do.
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Akke Ladye
@Mga_715 (89)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Dec 20
I totally agree with you. This year has been a a challenging year for everyone especially when it comes to celebration. We cannot just celebrate special occasions just as how we celebrate them before. Just like you said, travelling has also have its limitation. Going to a place to meet your friends and family is not the same as before and it is just sad knowing that you cannot celebrate with them. True enough, we can tell them how much we love or miss them through online platforms or through phone calls but it is still different when you can hug or kiss them. Let us just hope everything will get better in the coming months so we can experience again all the things we want to do like spending time with our loved ones.
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Akke Ladye
@Mga_715 (89)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Dec 20
@Bensen32 yes definitely. We need to find ways to get connected with our loved ones
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
@Mga_715 It is very important now more then ever.
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Bensen32
@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
17 Dec 20
Yes, a phone call is not the same but it is better than nothing. We have to stay in contact any way we can.
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