How to Deal with Snobbish People

I don't mind if they think of me this way, too. There is nothing wrong if being frank when saying things to others. It's not my cup of tea to sugarcoat things up. If I do, then I am just cheating myself by being real to them.

I can do that. I will just shake my head when feeling annoyed. There are times that we cannot avoid them since they keep on pestering us.

@DaddyEvil Oh, my. Are you that martyr? You might be a saint for being with me.

@Shavkat *sigh* I know... it seems, no matter what happens, I can't get away from talking with you, no matter how badly you treat me. I just don't know what to do about it.

I can hate them but not vocally. I can still ignore them.

@LadyDuck

@Shavkat I really do not care of them, I do not even hate them.

I agree it will not affect us if ignoring them.

@rakski

@Shavkat true

I agree. I sometimes pretend that they are not be seen by me. For some reason, I just laugh at them silently. I must admit that it makes me entertained because of their unacceptable actions.

@Deepizzaguy Oh, my. If I am in your shoes, I will fight back. I think it is not the right thing for them to do this.

@Shavkat I laugh at some people who call me a "whiner" or "Stupid" since they are blinded by their ignorance.

It is a nice principle to guide me in dealing with people who have bad intentions towards me. We can also use the phrase: 'If you love me, the more I love you.'

@yoalldudes Are you referring to people who are backstabbers? Well, they will not have a chance. I can determine people who have bad intentions.

@Shavkat That's right. It works both ways. What about those who seem friendly, but you sense the true intentions

I can understand where it is coming from. If things are out of hand, I will do the same thing.

@Shavkat I see. Maybe we can just unfollow or block these people so as to avoid seeing them every now and then.

@ARIES1973 I am planning to do that soon. It is not worth it for them to be my friends on Fb.

For me, I can tell by reading the words used and typed by these people. I can feel if they are sarcastic or not. It seems that I can be a critic if there is a chance. I also don't dwell much on Fb. I just checked the private messages sent by those people who want to be connected with me.

I personally want to share that some of my close friends became like this. I don't know why they had changed when living and working abroad. It seems that they had changed for a different level of persona. For this reason, I continue to ignore them on Fb. Some people think that I am snobbish in person. It is just a first impression but it will change if these people will try to know me more than the first meeting. However, there are some situations wherein I really cannot open up with a particular person. It is like I am sensing something is not right to be with him or her.

@Shavkat You are not the only one, I encounter those same people who suddenly think they are above everyone else when they got here. This is especially true for those who went from having almost next to nothing to suddenly having lots of things, as if they are now living the high life. For me and my family, this is not the first time that somebody went abroad. Even back then, my aunts and uncles have been living and working abroad, so we are exposed to this kind of lifestyle at an early age. We know that there is nothing special about it. We have the same bills to pay, our salaries may be in a different currency but the expenses are also the same.

@Raine38 I must say that it is the reason why we have to cut the tie with our relatives to my father's side. When they had a bunch of money in their pockets, they had changed and wanted to nibble us down. We fought back when they are trying to get my old man's inheritance. How greedy they are? Sorry to say, my family and I are warriors and they cannot easily pull us down. They gave in eventually. For my friends who are living and working abroad, they really changed Even my best friend in NYC, just sent me a message on FB and didn't reply anymore to certain concerns.

The best way to handle them. Staying away from them is not a bad thing. It can refrain us from having some conflicts to them.

What if these people are living with you or visit you?

I also feel the same way. Some people perceived me as being snobbish because I don't much when meeting new people in my life.

It is a strong word if these people had shown ill-feelings towards me. But I can kind enough to just ignore them.

@CarolDM I agree. Besides the point, I don't need to be stressed out because of them.

@Shavkat You are better off to let it go and walk away. not worth it.

If they are not related to me, it is well and good. If they are, I will try my best to ignore them.

I have the same feeling. I don't want to force myself to be with them if they don't want to.

There are so many mutant students lately. They are so rude and I continue to ignore them. The downside is that they are making me have poor evaluation. With this concern, I continue to ignore the company's staff because they don't anything anyway.

@RebeccasFarm Don't be worried. I just go with the flow and ignore them. In this way, I can still carry on my job.

@Shavkat Oh that is not goo to reflect on you

Honestly, I blocked two or three here before. I cannot remember who are they now. All I know, they are hitting me below the belt.

@DianneN It is a food thing that they don't do it anymore. I blocked them.

@Shavkat Are they still bothering you?

I agree. It can be one of the stressors if we entertain them. It is best to stay away from them.

I agree. We don't need to please everybody. Being ourselves is fine and no need to defend ourselves to be accepted by them. That's the problem for some people who judge others easily.

That's really awkward. For the reason that he is your cousin. If I am in your shoes, I will just ignore him. Who knows he might open and be friendly. You are right that you perceived me as an empathic person.

@Shavkat I’m an empath as well.