Ride or Drive?

@Cheyee (8344)
Pakanbaru, Indonesia
January 12, 2021 2:25am CST
I noticed most of family in South East Asian have motorcycle or scooter. And most of women know how to ride it. But everytime I see American movies or European movies, motorcycle is uncommon unless it's a big motorcycle like Ducati or Harley Davidson. Most common vehicle in Europe and America is car. And it seems like most women know how to drive. Me personally can ride motorcycle, I learned it 5 years ago. My husband often persuade me to learn how to drive, but I am too afraid. How if I hit someone and that person get severe wound (or death). I know it will be very useful skill since my husband often works out of city, but I just can't. How about you, can you ride motorcycle? Or can you drive car? Or you can do both? Picture of my scooter.
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17 responses
@Shavkat (139367)
• Philippines
12 Jan 21
I used to drive a car but not a pro. I cannot drive a motorbike.
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@Shavkat (139367)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee I did not renew my driver's license for cars only.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Do you have driver license? Have you ever learn how to ride?
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
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@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 21
I can only ride an automatic motorbike, and because I don't have a driver's license yet, I don't dare to go on big roads.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
How long have you been learn?
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@May2k8 (18323)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee Enough with 5 days of study and routine. It already 7 years I think.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@May2k8 kids these days already ride motorcycle at earlier age, maybe 11 or 12.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
12 Jan 21
Scooters and motorcycles are too dangerous. I’ve have cars to drive here.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Why is that? think car is more more dangerous.
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@JudyEv (338640)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Jan 21
I think it would be more dangerous on a motor-cycle. I can drive a car but not ride a motor-cycle.
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@JudyEv (338640)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee I tried to ride one once and fell off. I didn't try again. lol
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@JudyEv yeah, it can be traumatic.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Have you ever learn how to ride ?
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@Janet357 (75646)
12 Jan 21
No I don't know how to drive and I don't like doing it.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Glad i am not alone.
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Jan 21
I prefer a car in case it rains.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee They are too dangerous for me.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Oh yeah. But riding motorcycle is more romantic in the rain
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 21
I can drive a car but not a motorcycle. We don't even have motorcycle. Among our family members, only my older brother and brother in law know how to drive a motorcycle.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee I don't know. Never try. Also, I don't have a license for it.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
How about automatic motorcycle? It's not hard at all.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@prinzcy I see. But riding motorcycle for short distance is more practical than driving car.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
why do you say driving a car is more dangerous than a motorcycle or scooter? don't motorcycle or scooter drivers as well as their passengers ever get into accidents in your country?
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• Philippines
15 Jan 21
@Cheyee the reason the majority of responders in your post are saying scooters/motorcycles are more dangerous is because the rider and passenger have no protection when they get hit or if they hit something. they will be crushed or thrown off and run over.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
I am not saying which one is more dangerous. But for me I am just afraid hitting someone when I drive, because car causes more damage to people we hit than motorcycle.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
16 Jan 21
@hereandthere but accident always happens no matter what transportation you used. How about bicycle? People still use bicycle even bicycle has no protection.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
12 Jan 21
I am not a fan of a motor bike because its too dangerous
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Why is motorbike is more dangerous than car?
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee Considering the wheels it has. It is more prone to accident and there have been a lot of reports of accidents which involved it.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@cherigucchi but bicycles also has 2 wheels?
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
12 Jan 21
I know how to drive a car, even if I never passed the exams to get my driver license. I never drove a motorcycle it is far too dangerous here.
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@LadyDuck (470745)
• Switzerland
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee My husband drives all the time and I do not want to spend a lot of money to get my driver license. The traffic on the main road is bad here, the roads are narrow there are not many motorcycles even because right now you get frozen if you use one. There is ice on the roads here in winter... not very smart to use a motorcycle... we need a driver license also for motorcycles.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
You dont have driver license? Far dangerous to ride motorcycle? How come?
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@LadyDuck ah, yes riding motorcycle in winter is not wise decision we also need license to do that
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee I can understand learning to drive is hard for you. I know a scooter and motorcycle are different. So, is that a scooter or motorcycle? I had cars in the States. Here I do not drive cars. I have a mobility scooter that I use for transportation.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
13 Jan 21
@Cheyee Do you have a helmet when you drive it? Can you ride it on the highway or freeway? I no longer live in the States. I live in Israel. I am an American and Israeli citizen.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
14 Jan 21
@Hannihar I do use helmet. I can ride it on highway, but my husband doesn't allow me to. Double citizen? Is that mean your parents are from different countries?
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Yes. I am more afraid if i hit anyone than driving. You have home in states? In my picture is my scooter.
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• United States
12 Jan 21
I can drive a car, but like you, I would be very afraid to drive a motorcycle.
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
We are the opposite!!!
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
12 Jan 21
my mom drives a car, but cant drive a motorcycle. and im the opposite, i can ride a motor but still cant drive a car haha
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
Why dont you learn?
@hidvcmbr (248)
• Malta
12 Jan 21
I can ride both of bike and motorbike but I can't drive. I'm too afraid to learn driving, but I'll try someday
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@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
13 Jan 21
I still dont want to learn. I dont have enough courage
@RebeccasFarm (89741)
• Arvada, Colorado
14 Jan 21
Yes I can ride and drive both but I have none and I like not having any..too expensive for me
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• Arvada, Colorado
16 Jan 21
@Cheyee Yes but I do not want one
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
16 Jan 21
Dont they offer some kind of installment?
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
16 Jan 21
I tried to learn how to ride a motorcycle when I was 16 but had a wreck. I was too scared to try again. I've been driving a car (and have owned cars) since I was 16. (Pretty is unusual here since she doesn't know how to drive and doesn't want to learn how to drive. She can't ride a motorcycle, either.) Some Americans own motorcycles. Some Americans own scooters. (Scooters are more common in large cities than they are anywhere else.) Most Americans can drive a car and most own their own car. The United States is a large country with very little public transportation. If you don't own a car or know how to drive a car, most of the time you are stuck when you need to go somewhere.
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@DaddyEvil (137249)
• United States
16 Jan 21
@Cheyee Yes, most European countries have good public transportation. The little public transportation we do have here most people won't use.
@Cheyee (8344)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
16 Jan 21
I learned riding motorcycle when my daughter entered elementary school and i used to pick her up everyday. I see, so public transportation is better in europe?
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@porwest (89267)
• United States
17 Jan 21
I do not ride a motorcycle, but here in the U.S. while riders are predominantly male, some females do ride. A lot, in fact. But yes. We make a distinction here between scooters and motorcycles. We even have a tendency to see a guy on a BMW bike and think... That's not a damn motorcycle. lol Harley rules the biker's world in this country, and while there are some nice ones that are not Harley's, most guys ride Harley.