Do you ever just want to give up and start a small farm somewhere, off the grid?

@TheHorse (220127)
Walnut Creek, California
February 3, 2021 4:40pm CST
I mentioned elsewhere that I had a rough day Monday. I had three tasks to complete: 1) figure out why I did not receive payment from Guitar Center; 2) get my inoculation information from Kaiser for another employer; 3) contact someone at Century Link about why I have not had phone service at my cabin in Montana for 17 of the last 20 years, in spite of the fact that I have paid them $6,000 or more for that time period. I am at the cabin for approximately one week per year. To cut to the chase, I spent ten hours online or on hold Monday, and was able to resolve only one issue: my inoculation information was sent to my ECE (Early Child Education) position Director. She thanked me. Of the ten hours I was online or on the phone, I actually spoke to a human being for about 20 minutes. If these companies actually hired phone representatives (who speak English, preferably) to help workers or customers like me, they would still make substantial profits (even if they're allegedly non-profit, like Kaiser). They would also provide jobs for human beings. I have read (thought I haven't verified it) that top executives at places like Kaiser make more than $250,000/year. Are you able to talk to live customer services representatives where you live? Do your issues get resolved? Or do you wind up like me, wasting days of your life talking to bots/algorithms and interacting with websites that don't work properly?
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@rakski (125884)
• Philippines
3 Feb 21
it is quite hard getting a hold and talk to a customer service people here. They usually have an automated thing when you call them that you just have to press numbers so and so for every question until you find your answer which most of the time you cannot.
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@rakski (125884)
• Philippines
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse oh yes definitely helpless
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
3 Feb 21
@TheHorse Sometimes, if you just say nothing, you will eventually get passed to a real person. Of course sometimes you will just get cut off, but it might be a risk worth taking!
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
Sounds like its modeled on the American model. Don't you love it when you give an honest answer to a bot, like, "I am not sure," or "it depends," and the algorithm yields, "I'm sorry; I did not understand that." and then repeats the question, leaving you utterly helpless?
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Feb 21
These calls can be so frustrating. Doesn't happen much here lately thankfully. But I used to stay on hold only to never get an answers to my questions. I wish you luck..
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
I feel a sense of frustration when I am on hold for half-an-hour and then get hung up on.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Feb 21
@TheHorse I know the feeling.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse And so that is the reason
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@DaddyEvil (137487)
• United States
3 Feb 21
Yes, I have felt like that. Sometimes, quite often. I can get bogged down listening to bots on the phone but usually confuse them and get passed to an actual human being. Not that the human is always helpful, though. Most services get paid for the number of people they 'help' meaning get off the line again as quickly as possible. *sigh* I get lost in online services and usually ask Pretty to help me navigate them.
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@DaddyEvil (137487)
• United States
3 Feb 21
@TheHorse *shrug* Sometimes the person doesn't speak English very well, true, but you can always hang up and call them back. Often, you'll get someone else who does speak better. Or at least so I've found. But then, I'm used to hearing their accents and can usually understand them. I know some of those types of jobs are coming back to the US. Not that that helps when they hire poor people who can't speak their native language very well anyway. Thick American accents can throw me more than accents from people who aren't American born.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
Often, the real people I talk to speak very ittle English (my native language) and are trying to read from a script. It makes me want to piss (or worse) in the luxury swimming pool of the CEO who demanded that his lackeys hire people like that to save money.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
3 Feb 21
I have had annoying interactions, but nothing like as bad as that, thankfully - your experience is a whole order of magnitude worse! But aside from that - why on Earth did you pay $6,000 for one week's use per year, and it it hasn't worked for 85% of the time why didn't you complain sooner or just leave the 'service'? Surely you could manage one week without a phone?
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
I have been complaining for years.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Feb 21
Sounds just awful. I let my husband, who has a lot of patience, deal with the phone calls. I do the online things. Nothing is ever easy anymore.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
I have been told I have the patience of a Saint. Several times. Especially with children. I am always polite with the $10.00 hour Filipinos or Indians I talk to. But even *I* get frustrated at a certain point.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse A saint would get frustrated.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
@DianneN I am seriously thinking of leaving the grid.
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@paigea (36316)
• Canada
3 Feb 21
Both I guess. I do spend time on hold, but then get to talk to a person and get it resolved. That is terrible about wasting all that money on not having a phone. I want to stay on the grid though
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
I rarely get to talk to a real person.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 21
I did experienced that recently. I wonder whether they still have human working for them. It kept leading me to nowhere. I had to search various way to ensure someone was answering so I could get the problem solve.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 21
@TheHorse It did, after contacting through several platform. I used WhatsApp, IG, Twitter, FB Messenger and Service Portal on the TV itself. Only the FB Messenger works. They don't even provide phone number to call. At least, somehow I managed to get to talk to a human. Even though the other person replied like half an hour each time, at least it was solved.
@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
5 Feb 21
Did it finally get solved?
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@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Feb 21
Last year I had a question for the DMV at a specific location - and there was nothing to be found online. And then I tried to find a number, but it was a general number for all of CA - I couldn't navigate to talk to a real person. And then the "ask" thing online was a robo chat thingie . . . "it" didn't understand my question. Argh - advanced technology is not for the best sometimes.
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@much2say (55912)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse Yah, but we need that customer service. Hey, I just noticed Pikachu!
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
It really isn't. But as customer service declines, profits (or tax revenues) go up.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
@much2say Heh. That was my Avatar on good old Epinions!
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
4 Feb 21
We can still speak to humans when we call customer services. Our Internet providers is getting better. You go online, enter your phone number and ask them to call when someone of the customer service is ready to listen to you. No more waiting time.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
5 Feb 21
@TheHorse In my opinion it is a lot better than letting people wait for hours.
@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
Some companies "call you back" here too. It's a good idea.
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@wolfgirl569 (107932)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Feb 21
It depends which company I am dealing with. Phone problems are the worst one that I have. Thankfully I seldom have a problem
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@wolfgirl569 (107932)
• Marion, Ohio
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse Hope you can get it fixed. It might be easier just to shut the phone off since it never works anyways
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
You are blessed. I was promised something like a $300 refund for the last few months, but the pawn I spoke with could not deal with bigger issues. Did the letter I wrote disappear into a vortex? I wish I had a lawyer friend who stood by me.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
@wolfgirl569 Sigh. It's partialy about honoring my late parents. We've had the same phone number for 60 years.
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@xFiacre (13123)
• Ireland
4 Feb 21
@thehorse those days make me fanaticise about owning a small goat farm in the lower alps of northern Italy.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
Can I be your herder? All I ask is that you let me bring one or two guitars.
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
4 Feb 21
To answer your first question, for about the last 10 years I have been thinking and planning a way I can disappear into the woods or mountains and drop off the grid. Just got to get the kids grown up and out of the house first. Part of my job responsibilities is filing warranty claims. Although I speak to a live human being when I call, I can sometimes be on hold for an hour or more. I think they do that on purpose to discourage people from filing claims. Anyway, my record is 2 hrs and 45 minutes on hold, only to be denied the claim. I filed an appeal. Another hour wait on the phone. But at least after all that they honored the claim.
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@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Feb 21
@macayada Patience is not something I am good at.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
Heh. I'm not sure what my record is for one hold. Probably about the same.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Feb 21
Patience is the key
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@JudyEv (341820)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Feb 21
We find it hard to find humans to talk to, except scammy ones who ring about four times a day.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
"Who ring" I love it. It woulds more musical than "who call." Yeah, I get about three a day.
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@NJChicaa (120073)
• United States
3 Feb 21
I HATE when I can't speak to a real person
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 21
It' very rare that I get to a real person. When I do, they often don't understand English (my native tongue).
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@snowy22315 (182000)
• United States
4 Feb 21
Not really, that stuff seems romantic in nature but is a lot of work. I am not into hard work.
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• United States
4 Feb 21
It can be a struggle to talk to someone over the phone. I don’t have much patience either.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
I USUALLY have patience. But everyone has a tipping point. As I mentioned t DIanne, I applied for Sainthood, but couldn't get through to God.
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@macayada (1497)
• Cavite City, Philippines
4 Feb 21
@TheHorse maybe you misspelled your name
@Shiva49 (26765)
• Singapore
4 Feb 21
A human at the other end of the line is getting rarer and rarer. Quite frustrating to see how paying customers are treated this way
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@spiderdust (14760)
• San Jose, California
4 Feb 21
I often end up like you, wasting my time dealing with bots and struggling to find an actual live human being. It's frustrating.
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
It really is.
@dgobucks226 (35721)
4 Feb 21
Speaking to a real person is becoming a rarity in today's world. Do they even have them anymore? Anyway, if you want to spend your entire day waiting on the phone you may be successful. I usually wind up writing them rather than playing phone tag. I've had issues with insurance companies (the worst) for a medical bill that only received the proper attention through threatening letters. On the phone I just got a run around. Gee, why didn't you receive your payment from the Guitar Center job? You'd think that one would be easily solved?
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@TheHorse (220127)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 21
Something about an error in the routing number. I DID write a letter to the phone company that handles my phone in Montana. I never got a response.
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@dgobucks226 (35721)
5 Feb 21
@TheHorse Ah, the phone company enough said...
@Mikmath (103)
4 Feb 21
No, just with bots also :'( There are times that my concern is not addressed at all because, well, the automated response did not include the category of my concern.