Use Smiley Not to Offend Others
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140097)
Philippines
February 6, 2021 9:15pm CST
We inevitably contradict others' opinions over something. It is because we have the freedom to convey our own beliefs and thoughts about a particular topic or topics. It is not healthy to agree if not agreeable from within. Moreover, I usually use a smiley emoticon not to offend anyone here, despite contradicting them.
Are you an onion skin when being contradicted?
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@jobelbojel (35987)
• Philippines
7 Feb 21
Often times I am misinterpreted by my colleagues when I post reminders on our GC. They thought that I am always angry. They said I should use emoticons to show my feeling.
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@DaddyEvil (137460)
• United States
7 Feb 21
Nope! I have a thick skin. If someone wants to be ignorant and dismiss what I say, then let them go to hell in their own way. It won't affect me at all.
I don't mind if someone has a different opinion from mine. Just because they do doesn't mean their way of looking at something is less valid than mine... it just means they see things from their own perspective.
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@DaddyEvil (137460)
• United States
7 Feb 21
@Shavkat Now I need to disagree with you... just for fun, of course.
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@allknowing (137553)
• India
8 Feb 21
No point in lying to oneself. Say it but politely and yes with a pleasing emoticon
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
7 Feb 21
i have been a manager for many years. I welcome disagreement. My only rule is be civil, Disagree, but be civil!
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
7 Feb 21
@Shavkat i had someone that worked for me, he stormed out of a meeting. We made all the decisions while he was pouting.
He apologized later, but was frustrated because we did the project the way the team wanted not the way he wanted.
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
9 Feb 21
Communication can be trickier without body language. It is something that we really take for granted, even with computers having been a part of life for so long. That is a very good idea to use emojis when intent and tone may not be so clear.
This reminds me of a funny episode of Bob's Burgers where Bob goes to a cooking convention and finds out that everyone dislikes him because he had offended them so much with crude remarks that he had intended as jokes. He thought that he was being playful, but nobody else interpreted it that way. He had thought for a long time that all those people were his friends, but they weren't all because of miscommunication.
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@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
7 Feb 21
I don't expect that all people will agree with me so I am open to different reactions and opinions. I use smileys sparingly.
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