How would you feel if someone from your past realized they hurt you and apologized?

@rhuenz Thank you very much for sharing that with me. It is very hard when someone hurts us for us to be able to trust them again. Trust I feel has to be earned.

@Hannihar , Yes, trust has to be earned

@rhuenz Correct

@allknowing Thank you for that and that was very true and honest what you wrote. Too bad there are not always lots of honest people in this world.

@Hannihar True, once bitten twice shy , it is but natural that we remain cautious

@kiran8 I understand what you are saying but only if they mean their apology and are nicer afterwards.

@kiran8 You are very right there.

@jstory07 I have people from my past and from living here that I had to learn the hard way that they really did not want to be a part of my life so they are not in it. I was also forced into a situation to deal with someone that was not good at all for me and I dreaded each time had to deal with them and then when could got them out of my life for good.

@Shivram59 Same for me and now I have the jerk above me screwing up things and he got in my computer and took away the sound to my workout.

@Shivram59 You are lucky it never has happened to you. Life is not easy as it and when those like to screw with you then it is not fun at all. You are nice that you would apologize but there are those that do it to others and think they are the victims and will never apologize or pay you what they owe you for things they have done to you and your stuff.

@Hannihar You are right.Life is not a bed of roses.It is full of ups and downs.Accept and uncertainties.I was hurt many times,but those who hurt me never came to apologise for what they did.

@LowRiderX You have a point there.

@Hannihar I like to say that I have nothing from 'sorry', I can't even buy chocolate. I appreciate people who don’t lead to having to apologize later

@LowRiderX I wish the world had nicer people in it then we would not have to say sorry or apologize because people would respect and be kind to one another.

@Hannihar I am too.

@Hannihar I understand and it is unfortunate

@RebeccasFarm I know you understand.

@RebeccasFarm I hope where you are that they do get what they deserve. Unfortunately here that is not the case.

@Hannihar Right. I can be difficult.

@DianneN I can understand the latter part but forgiving is hard for me.

@DianneN ok

@Hannihar some people cannot just be sincere

@Lucky15 That is so so true.

@Lucky15 Why would you not forgive them if they apologized?

@Hannihar He truly sounds like a sick piggy! I'm sorry to know all of this. I knew before some things he did but what you told me was more detailed. I wish you could move elsewhere! I think, just keep looking for places. I know that isn't an easy process and I remember talking to you about this before and I know you were worried in case you moved to a place with more awful people but I reckon just keep looking, if something looks good and you are financially able to move there, I think first look around the neighbourhood and get an idea of how the people seem. I personally already feel you'd find a much better place than where you are now with that awful man-child there! My best wishes to you!

@VivaLaDani13 He wanted me to apologize to him and he is the one doing things to us and I am sorry but I cannot apologize for what someone else does. He would never apologize and he is the type that even if I did apologize he would continue to destroy. He is not all there and I am very very frustrated because I am not finding the right place for us and not sure people listen to me or maybe I did not explain well what we need. This one would never apologize because he feels he is the victim while he is the bully with no conscience. I cannot explain anymore because he gets into my computer, my home phone and my cell phone. I was talking to someone the other day and said I was going home and did not get a chance to say goodbye because he hung up on him. He did that before when I was in the middle of talking to someone and then they were gone and had to call back. That person understood. He is trying to make people think that I am the nasty bad one. He lies and makes things up and acts like he is so charming and really he is not.

@VivaLaDani13 He writes signs only in English so I will know what they say and he says things in English that he has cameras all over. If you have seen that someone can see into someone's home or apartment and has screens for every room is what I think he has. He puts dirt and tissues all over and damages stuff and breaks my plastic bags. It is hard to explain but he must see inside here and when I want to sleep he jiggles the bed. He is mentally sick and has gone to far. You know people that have gone undercover and cannot shake the role they play, he is like that. He got into a role and enjoys it and is very sick because he loves to destroy us and he wrote something in a My Lot thing that I get on my computer saying he will always be in fight with me the rest of my life. I know we have to get out of here but have seen so many wrong places and people do not tell me how many meters and wasted my time so not sure. He is a sick bully with no conscience and he thinks he is the victim and I am the one doing to him. I live below him. He damages my stuff so I will have to replace it and spend money I did not want to. I was talking to two people and he hung up on them so they would think I was rude. One knew the situation so understood. He sees me dial numbers and he sees me do my password on things and he hears me give a phone number so he gets in and messes with the phone. He broke a white noise machine of mine and he damaged my cell phone. He broke my bra and had to replace it. I will never see the money. I clean and he dirties making it look like I am a messy person. It is very sad and some one has to do something because he has gone too far and is overboard. We need to get out as soon as possible but I have to find a place and it is not easy. I walk everywhere because he caused me so many problems with my scooter so it cannot be here anymore. It is very sad that there are such nasty ones here. He will not move so we have to. I am so sick of this and how we have to live and what he does to both of us. When Sophie was on the porch he meowed or barked so she would go in. I tell her it is her porch and if she wants to go out there then she can.

@Hannihar , That is a sad fact in life - ego gets the better of reason and logic.

@Shiva49 So so true.

@Shiva49 That is too bad that people cannot realize when they do wrong to someone that they cannot apologize and mean it.

@Hannihar You are welcome. Have a nice weekend.

@thelme55 Thanks and Sunday is just a regular day here and also the beginning of our work week.

@thelme55 ok and thanks Thelma.

@DocAndersen Sorry Scott, but, it was one on my mind and finally decided to put it out there. Would you accept apologies even if they continued to do it and not stop after they apologized?

@DocAndersen Thanks on both counts.

@Hannihar i would accept the first one. i would have to think for a long time about the second one.

Ok and thanks.

@prinzcy I know exactly what you are talking about.

@Shavka I can understand about how you feel about them from what you have said about them.

@Rashnag Thank you.

@Hannihar your welcome

@CarolDM No, it does not happen often and people continue doing things even if they apologize.

@aureategloom I am glad for you.