Its Time for her to leave

@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
April 29, 2021 3:55am CST
I am not sure whether to be happy or sad about it. My big sister who ahs been living with me for years will be leaving this month. My big brother is going to renovate our old house and he plans to give my big sister her share. I am happy because finally she can have her own place and we are going to have more space in our house when she leaves. Even then, it makes me sad at the same time because I have been used to having her around helping me a lot in the house. She also feels the same way but 'd rather not to show her my sadness. I just reassured her that our house is still open to her any time she wants to visit or stay. (photo is mine)
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@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
That's really a heartbreaking moment.
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@Shavkat (139672)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
@cherigucchi I think she is not that far away, right?
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
It really is but its fine since we can still see each other whenever we want to.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
@Shavkat No shes not. I think 10 houses away.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
2 May 21
It is a good news. Every person is entitled for a place of his own. However close you may be, she can not consider your house as her own. She can always visit you whenever she feels so.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
3 May 21
@cherigucchi Yes that is true.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
2 May 21
You hit the right words. Truly it is also a comfort on her part having a place of her own eventually,
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
8 May 21
It's sad but you can still visit her and her to you. Perhaps it's time for her to be independent.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
8 May 21
That is correct,
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@JudyEv (339431)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Apr 21
This will mean a big change for you all as your sister has been with you for so long. I'm sure it's for the best.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
Yes, it is for both of us but I also believe that it is for the best
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• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Apr 21
It's good she leaves because it will motivate you too to find your own place when the time comes
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
Yes, you are right then
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• Nairobi, Kenya
30 Apr 21
@cherigucchi the flowers are beautiful!
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
30 Apr 21
Awe. That feeling is shared by every bro and sis. Keep up the positivity. Have a good day. Take care
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
Thanks a lot
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@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
30 Apr 21
@cherigucchi your welcome dear
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
29 Apr 21
Very photo. Mixed feelings happen a lot. My sister-in-law used live with us. I felt the same way when she moved out.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
I am just going to miss her
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@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
29 Apr 21
That is a normal feeling. You can still see each other every now and then.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
30 Apr 21
I know that and we keep assuring each other.
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
We will be missing anyone who has been with us for quite a time when they leave.
@erictsuma (9726)
• Mombasa, Kenya
29 Apr 21
If you missed her you can always visit her.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
Yes or she can visit me as well.
@Shxrubia (2752)
• Indonesia
29 Apr 21
However she had spent the day with you, it was certainly difficult to let go of the habit.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
That is true. my heart really aches but I have to let her go.
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
I think your kids are old enough to help with chores. They will also learn time management while learning the basic chores. I'm glad your older brother thought of her and her future. Is she single?
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
Good for her to start another chapter of her life. Just keep in touch from time to time and it will be highly appreciated by you sister.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
yes thats true. It really is another chapter. We promised each other that we will always be in touch and she can come visit anytime
@12345Lot (109)
• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Apr 21
and that is what we call life
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
29 Apr 21
Surely it is.
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