Love at first sight or Hate that turns to Love?
@Luna08 (14)
Philippines
May 11, 2021 4:30am CST
Have you ever experience hating someone and then falling in love with them? for me its more romantic that way than falling in love at first sight. I mean everyone has a different romantic stories in life, and some of them are your common fairy tale cliche.
About how they are rescued from something horrible that comes in there life, or overcoming something bad while your love interest is the one helping you behind, loving someone from afar, being attracted to them instantly when you first met them, childhood sweethearts, etc.
but have you ever experience hating their guts at first, just plain hating them, cursing or burying them inside your mind? But then something miracle and almost magical happened that you forget about all your negative emotion to this said person, and then became friends but still in denial.
I can't say that it happens to me but i think i love it more watching or listening to this kind of stories than your everyday fairy tale cliche. Because its more entertaining than just fall in love at first sight, and then falling out love faster than the shooting star from above.
How about mylotters? tell me what kind of romantic stories do you love watching/Listening?
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@sulynsi (2671)
• Canada
15 May 21
Its a common movie/novel trope and if people believe its the best way to have a romance, it could cause lots of heartache - real life can be a nasty wake up call.
There is a wonderful short 'white board animation' video that helps us know the difference between attraction, infatuation and love.
It is simply explained but makes so much sense.
Why not check it out? Hope you enjoy it as much as I did.
https://www.jw.org/en/library/videos/#en/mediaitems/TeenSocialLife/docid-502016211_1_VIDEO
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@RebeccasFarm (89883)
• Arvada, Colorado
11 May 21
I might like them at first but nearly always wind up 'despising' them and their actions.
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@sharonelton (28862)
• Lichfield, England
11 May 21
I fell in love with someone after having a dream about them! Well, it's not someone I could actually be with, it was a fictional character from a TV programme!
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@HomewardBound (552)
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12 May 21
I like stories where the couple immediately feel comfortable together, like they’ve always known each other.
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@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
11 May 21
I don't think it is called hate, it is called"playing hard to get"
@mildredtabitha (16126)
• Nairobi, Kenya
12 May 21
@Luna08 I think people want it like they see in soap operas. Do you agree?
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@Luna08 (14)
• Philippines
12 May 21
@mildredtabitha yeah some of them like just like they what they saw on movie or operas
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@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
11 May 21
But to note that is also like a kind of cliche story.
I mean you hate each other at the start and by the end, you are in love.
this generally doesn't happen in real life.
Once an enemy always an enemy. 
that what I think.
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