Are you married?????????? If not...do you wanna get married??????????

@Rashu169 (4391)
India
November 30, 2006 12:55pm CST
i really dont know....i am not married...but the tuff question is do i need to get married........those who are married what do u say???????? and those who are not...do u get cold feet thinking abt it??????????
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@jimbl75 (152)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I'm married, actually my second go at it. First marriage didn't go so well. Which makes my current marriage all the sweeter. I'm very happily married to a wonderful woman. I feel like the luckiest man alive. The thing is, you'll know when you want to get married- if you have any second thoughts, or "cold feet", then it isn't meant to be. It's so cliche, but you have to go with your heart. I'm so completely in love with my wife, and our relationship is so fulfilling, it can be overwhelming sometimes- if that can make sense. Anyway, when you have that feeling, you'll know. Jim
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
thanks Jim....well i really sometime feel its the right time and i should settle down...but then sometime i feel i should give more time to the relationship...........i am as such totally committed and dnt even have doubts abt him...but then again...
@diya82 (115)
• Germany
30 Nov 06
No,I am not married...but i do want to get married...it dont fancy a life alone...we need someone to share everything ..thats how life goes...Y r u so much worried about getting married?Problems will be there but there is no walk of life without problems...so have an optimistic attitude...someone somewhere is made for u...
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
30 Nov 06
ahhhaaaaaaa.thats true...i dnt want to live my life lonely...alone...it scares me.....but then what if u marry and then think...he is not the one.....
@rahulmig (1030)
• India
3 Dec 06
NO NOT NOW
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
3 Dec 06
same here...
@carmat (2849)
• Canada
3 Dec 06
I would have to say my best advise is to be sure that you want to marry the person before you commit to it. In my opinion the vows are really serious, better or worse, richer or poorer, you can't take them lightly. Once you say I do that's it you are committed for life, or atleast you should be.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
3 Dec 06
yeah...commitment is required...any relationship
@Timinator (739)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I don't ever want to get married. It is stupid because it only benefits women. It won't change the amount that people love each other, and it gives the woman the oppurtunity to divorce the man and take lots of his money. I won't get married until the system is changed so i don't get ripped off.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
30 Nov 06
welll system does suck...but then dnt u want to have someone to share ur emotions lifelong........well what can i say.it just well...........
@findcutegj (1466)
• India
1 Dec 06
Nop, im not married and frankly speaking, i am not interested in getting married at least till im 30.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
how old are u????????/ well decsions might alter.....what if u fall in love and find the Right one???
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
but one one thing u r right that....we should take decsions depending upon our standing
• United States
30 Nov 06
I'm not married right now, but I am in a steady relationship. I do want to get married in the future...I can't get married now, as I'm in college, but I hope the guy I marry is my current bf.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
thats good..............be in love always
@imbiz06 (335)
• India
1 Dec 06
i really want 2 get married bcoz everybody likes it..and i cant wait fot this.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hmmmmmm...very excited arent u...are u in love???????????
@blueman (16509)
• India
30 Nov 06
i am not married, and will remain so for some time i guess. i think i am not in a hurry though.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hmmmmmm....well are u in a committed relationship???
@girsang (353)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 06
i`m not married yet yes i do married someday, just not find the right one i will married to a woman who love me, my family and also love kids
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
2 Dec 06
hmm......well....thats true but then life is just so full of surprises....anyways i would also love to marryjust to enjoy the togetherness
@willywill (352)
• Turkey
30 Nov 06
not yet but i love to try as it is God will to be married.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
yeah...but did god really invent this concept or did the society
@vinaykant (812)
• India
1 Dec 06
I am not married yet but i will be married very soon. I think marrige is a part of our life and we must have to do it. At least we test the ex of marrige.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hmmmmm....well that much ur correct that it is a valuable part of life... well u r right i guess
• United States
30 Nov 06
I am happily married and have been for almost 15 yrs I cant even imagine being single again.lol
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hey thats really gr8...i mean arent u lucky....
@rhinoboy (2129)
1 Dec 06
I was never bothered about getting married, i was committed to my girlfriend from early in our relationship but we lived together (in sin!!!) for about 7 years and although we lived as husband & wife and had the opportunity several times to get married, it just wasn't important to us. This year, she fell pregnant with our daughter and the old fashioned guy came out from inside me and insisted that we get married straight away. It has honestly made no difference to our lives (or maybe we just cant tell since we have a new home and a baby to deal with!!!) One thing I have always said though is: "Have a wedding to get a marriage. Don't get married to have a wedding"
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
2 Dec 06
"Have a wedding to get a marriage. Don't get married to have a wedding" well said ....and...thats the real truth......
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I am married but i dont think anyone "needs" to get married. It all depends on the person and if they feel that strong of a connection with someone to dedicate their life to that person. Marriage isnt easy.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
thanks....now i am really bonked off
• Germany
30 Nov 06
Oh, yes I want merry, but I don`t know who wants me.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hey thats kind of snob.....stop being one...........
@annsweets (2046)
• United States
30 Nov 06
yes i am married
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
30 Nov 06
no cold feet when u were getting married....is it fun????????
@annsweets (2046)
• United States
30 Nov 06
yes i am married
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
30 Nov 06
u happy????????????
@italofbi (484)
• Brazil
30 Nov 06
no i don't and i don't wanna it xD
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
hmmmmmmmmmm...thats pretty on the spot???????????
• Australia
30 Nov 06
Im not married havent found my soul mate and when i do i will get married
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
1 Dec 06
wel, arent we all looking for the Soulmate...to keep us happy always and love us