Would you restart your life?
By Dolcerina
@Dolcerina (3376)
Hungary
November 30, 2006 1:22pm CST
In my life there were so many bad things. Unfortunatelly my decisions caused that my life drives me nowhere. I do not trust in myself enough. I did not do Bad things (no smoke, no drog, no crime), but I did not see the chance to step to change ever. What about you? Are you satisfied with your small(!) or big decisions?
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12 responses
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
7 Feb 07
sometime i do and sometime i dont, because there are so many good memory of the past if i restart it i wouldnt never be able to go though that again i would lost some of the best memory i had in my life, and restarting doesnt mean it would be better. that is what i think
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
8 Feb 07
When I was young I did not have plans. But if I were younger I would know what should I learn to be succesful.
@lossforredwords (3620)
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
actually im not ok with mylife now.. its just i think i made some bad decisions before that have a big impact to what i am now. ive been so careless and did not appreciate things that i should have given attention. smetimes i think that it would take me a lifetime just to learn to the things that is worth to be known. but if not given the chance to restart my life maybe just to rewind some situation that i could correct.
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@R3fl3XioN (3187)
• France
2 Dec 06
No i would not restart my life !
I'm very happy !!
Have nice day,
Greetings.
@Xeedar (255)
• Italy
1 Dec 06
I'm always satisfied with my decisions, even if they're are wrong, 'cause I took them by myself.
You never have to cry for what life has been and now is for you, you just have to fight to make it better!
Learn to thrust in yourself, and get your decisions by yourself.
You'll see, how your life will start smiling at you.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
1 Dec 06
When I was at the age, that you are now. I was proud to myself. I had a lot of plans. But I failed so many times, that now I affraid to plan again.
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
27 Dec 06
There are many things I've done and didn't do that I wish I could change. I don't think I would want to restart it again though. I think everyone has their own mistakes and we weren't meant to lead a perfect life. We must learn from those mistakes.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
27 Dec 06
Yes but our knowledge today is bigger, so if I would restart my life I knew what to do. What should I do to be succusful.
@imrajesh (1965)
• India
26 Dec 06
hey buddy
there is no such bad or good things as far as life is concerned
everybody has his own problems and eveybody has to fight with them
it doesn't matter how many wrong decisions u have taken in ur life but what matters most is that what u have learnt from ur previous mistakes
so don't repeat the mistakes and take decisions after some thought process
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
27 Dec 06
But if you have more knowledge you can plan your life in advance
@nancygibson (3736)
• France
1 Dec 06
You have to remember that you are the product of your experiences, you cannot be the person you are today without having travelled the paths you have already
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
1 Dec 06
yes, I know. Thank you. But i could be someone else if I had changed the path.
@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
28 Dec 06
well no!i just love my life with all the bad and the good things in it!i would not change anything!and i thank god that i live!everyday !
@Janus7602 (143)
• United States
1 Dec 06
There are things that have happened that I wish I could go back and change, but I cannot, so I accept that they happened and move on. The easiest way to change is to do things differently and do not be afraid to make mistakes. Mistakes are examples of those things that do not work. One cannot learn without making them. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it. As long as you sit in self-pity, the longer you will feel this way. As a friend has shared with me: When the pain of remaining the same exceeds that pain of change, YOU WILL CHANGE.
@Xeedar (255)
• Italy
1 Dec 06
I don't think in this thinks age is important.
I had my decisions, and they totally changed my life.
I leaved my family, my friends, my town few months ago.
It has been really hard, but I'm not sad about it. I made my choice, and I'm living knowing that. It is enough for me.
Difficulties may be a lot, but I'm stronger than problems.
@Dolcerina (3376)
• Hungary
1 Dec 06
Few months is not enough to be sure that your decision is good or not. But, if you dare to do something-it is OK. The problem is that if you will be dissapointed so many times, than you do not dare to make plans, and you do not notice the chance when you can make a decision.I wish you to be succesfull.
