If you're married and someone shows interest in your spouse...

i think it's a compliment...shows how attractive my partner is :D actually, it all depends on how the man take it, how they respond to the advances. (it takes two to clap!) wherever we go, we will meet flirty women like that, it cant be avoid.

I think it's rude and offensive and very disrespectful to your marriage, especially if they know he is married. My husband is a retired bullrider and had a few "buckle bunnies" that's what we call them..lol I think alot depends on how your spouse acts also, if they are enjoying the flirting I would be more upset, my husband always put them in line and made sure they knew he was married.

I do not like it. Sometimes I will tease my husband if a women seems to be flirting with him, but at the same time I find it offensive. Most of hte time that we are out and this happens we have all three of our kids with us. I mean, come on! He is out with his family, are some girls really that dumb?

If I were married, I would get a bit jealous if someone hits on my spouse.It would be also a compliment for me because I know that he's the man I dream of marrying.It becomes offensive when it's too much.

If you have faith in your spouse, it shouldn't worry you or make you feel insecure. Take the moment lightly, joke and let the moment pass. The spouse must politely decline and make their commitment clear so that a clear message is delivered to the person.

Honestly I dont have to do anything cause my husband is very quick to say something like "have you met my wife" LOL and in all honesty I am amused when it happens really cause I know he is coming home with me..they can look all they...hell give his tush a pinch if it'll help you sleep better LOL My husband isnt cool with leaving it be though partly because I think it embarrasses him and partly because he worries I might snap and hurt the girl if she gets too carried away so he jsut stops it before it even has a chance to go there ya know...

well it depends.

it would surely be a compliment to my husband, but definitely offensive to me, LOL! my jealousy depends on how my husband reacts. if he ignores her i'd feel good, and if he bluntly turns her down or shoo her away, even better, LOL! but if he entertains it, whoa! that's totally a different story.

It happends to me a lot. I have a long time boyfriend. I don't know how to react. They can flirt just in front of me, like I am a ghost. Are they better looking? no!. Are they more intelligent? no....but for some reason they just want him...(reality check)

i think the most imp thing in a relationship is trust on each other... ya it is a compliment coz u luv sumone whos verrry popular...but at the same time u feel bad also..tat the person whom u luv is luved by sumone else also..but u shud remem one thing tat a hammer can brk glass as well as make steel strong so its upon u whether u wanna become lyk steel or glass....

if someone do that i will knock his face give him a tight slap. and made him sit on the donkey

and one thing you need to get offended by this but yes at times you may have to act defensive to ensure that your spouse doesn't fall into a trap.

It makes me mad when I see or hear about girls flirting or being touchy with my husband. I know that he's with me, but really! What kind of woman hits on another mans husband knowing that he's happily married and has a child?

I find it offensive. It irritates me whenever another girl is attracted to my partner. I mean don't they see that I'm already with him and that he already has a partner. I just don't get why some people are so stupid. (Sorry for the language!) This topic steams me up. I hate people who are like that. I might react violently but I will think before I act or say something first. Usually, I investigate first but if I really smell something fishy then that's the time that I do something about it. ^^

I am on the fence with this. I think it is flattering, but at the same time very disrespectful. However, if my fiance doesn't react to the person who is hitting on him, it doesn't bother me. Thankfully, my fiance is very oblivious to the world around him while we are out so I don't have to worry about him noticing if anyone is hitting on him. On the same note, he doesn't notice when guys hit on me. Sometimes a bit of jealous would be nice :o)

It depends on the situation. My husband has been hit on by women that dont know he is married and I take that as a compliment, knowing that other women want my man. However, if the woman knows that he is married and still hits on him and makes advances at him then there will be problems!

its really hurts me..bcoz we r indians and we dont like our spouse to go behind someone other than us..

I think that this can be both a compliment and offensive, it all depends on the nature of the hitting on. It is really hard to say how I would react with out knowing the nature of the flirting. I am comforatble with someone flirting with my wife, but if the nature of the flirting goes to far, then I will have an issue.

I would turn into the child from the exorcist movie. Oh..yes, and breath fire. I am that way..and I trust my spouse completely...imagine if I did not

Well this has happened to me a few times actually. The last time was a few weeks ago at a friend of my wifes birthday party. We were out at the bar drinking and having a good time and my wife wanted to go dance. Well I'm not a dancer by any means so she went with her friend.(Her friend is female btw) They were dancing and a guy came inbetween the two of them and started dancing with my wife. When the song was over he offered to buy her a drink and asked her to come sit at his table. She declined and came and sat back down at ours. A little while later he came over and again offered her a seat at his table and she again declined. Her friends were looking at me as if to tell me to say something, I did not. When he walked away everyone started asking me why I didnt say anything and I explained to them that she's a grown woman, and as much as I love her I can't control her actions or the actions of others. I don't blame the guy for thinking my wife is a hottie cause I do. I'm not upset at him wanting to talk to her. I'm not a jealous man and there was no reason for me to act like an idiot. So I kept silent and continued with my drink.