Question: What if you were married, then...

I don't see such dreams. I dont think it's cheating. Just seeing someone in dreams cannot be called cheating.

I'm not sure what you're asking, exactly. Are you saying, if I drempt I was married to a man that isn't my husband, would I feel it was cheeting? If that was the question. Then no. We often can't control what we dream about. And, it's healthy and normal to have dreams of different people, things events. Rarely-if-ever do my dreams contain my current husband. However, while I'll agree cheeting in general is wrong, sometimes it's unavoidable. People tend to get married believing that that relationship will last until the end of their lives. And, for some couples that's true. For others, marriage may not have been a mistake at the time, but people's feelings can and do change.

@Shavkat I've never had a dream of cheating, or at least, I wasn't the one cheating. But either way, it's just a dream and the cheating isn't really taking place. In real life, I would never do it.

I don't think it's wrong to have someone in your dreams. One doesn't have control over dreams. I won't feel guilty at all

dreams are simply dreams, there is nothing in or about dreams that are real. so, if you dreamed about another, does that change your love for your wife?

I experience weird dreams all the time but this one is next level

No, I wouldn't feel guilty about it. But I probably wouldn't discuss it with my partner.

Lol... dreams are not In our hands.. But if it's a good dream why would anyone feel guilty...

I have sleeping problem and hardly dream. Sometimes I sleep like a log let alone dreaming. Even if you dream someone, I think, it has nothing to do with other person. It is not equivalent to cheating.