Silent treatment

@ONDARI (18)
Nairobi, Kenya
September 22, 2021 7:16am CST
I was given this silent treatment by someone that I love. It really hurt me like so many times but have come to realize don't let it put you down.its really an emotional abuse but being busy has really helped me alot.
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11 responses
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Apr 22
I usually use silent treatment and all I really want people to do is give me attention and show that they care. I don't think it is an abuse it is just a way to seek attention that you failed to get.
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
8 Oct 21
Just ignore him when he wants to talk to you. That should make him think.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
28 Sep 21
I am glad keeping busy helps.
@sharonelton (28472)
• Lichfield, England
23 Sep 21
It's not nice when that happens. I hope you are OK.
@YUSRIL10 (197)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 21
It is very painful
23 Sep 21
The one who loves you would only want you to better either with them or for yourself just so you could be happy truly in life but if what they do hurts you and if that person is important to you then you need to do a treatment to make them understand that their behavior is not letting you live happy
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
22 Sep 21
Hi there. Welcome to mylot. Yes. It is really hard to receive a silent treatment from your love ones. Why try to ask the reason why?
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Sep 21
Love and value yourself more. It’s better than investing your emotion to someone who doesn’t seem to care about how you feel.
@flapiz (23133)
• United Kingdom
22 Sep 21
I know silent treatment can be daunting but maybe that person had a different way of coping and has his/her reasons. Give them some time maybe they'll come around.
@aninditasen (16337)
• Raurkela, India
23 Sep 21
If you are on the wrong wait for the person to specify and then apologize. If the other person has done you wrong then stay calm and try to forget the whole thing.
@asianlady (2697)
• Ireland
22 Sep 21
Don't worry too much about it. It will just go away. That kind of process will give you more ideas of what to do next whether to stay or part ways.