Bad News: No Heartbeats

@Shavkat (140119)

Philippines

November 23, 2021 7:28am CST

Tonight, my sister-in-law informed me of bad news. One of our girlfriends is in sorrow and her husband. They are supposed to have a diagnostic ultrasound to know the gender of their unborn baby today. The result was not that they are expecting to be heard. According to their doctor, it has been 1 week since the infant died in her womb. It was revealed with no heartbeats today. This candle is for him or her. How would you react if you were in her shoes? Image Credit: c.tenor.com

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@Andini (3211)

• Indonesia

23 Nov 21

Im sorry to hear that. You know, my mother ever said. Who lost their child, that child will become an angel.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I do agree with that. My family and I believed that people who passed away are our angels now, as my late father.

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Patricia Ocampo

@iKONICNoona (4220)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

This is the saddest news for an expecting parent specially on the part of the mother. There are couples who are having a hard time concieving and this thing really happen to , I just dont know why

I am praying for their unborn child abd Im praying too for the mom to have strength and to never lose hope.They will have a child just pray and wait for the perfect timing.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

It is a bad heartfelt feeling for being in this kind of situation for a mother. She had her first child and supposedly the second one. Thank you for your concern. Please do pray for them.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@iKONICNoona Indeed. We just need to keep on praying for them.

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Patricia Ocampo

@iKONICNoona (4220)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat Yes I will. I have experienced a different situation before , its miscarriage both are very hurtful .

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Anne Marie Guyer

@LeaPea2417 (37379)

• Toccoa, Georgia

23 Nov 21

I have had a miscarriage before and understand the sadness.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I am sorry to hear this. My lovely mom had experienced this before. Unlike her, she is 5 months pregnant and still waiting for the medical procedure to happen.

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@JESSY3236 (20041)

• United States

23 Nov 21

That's sad.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

Yes, it is.

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@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

23 Nov 21

I am so sorry for their loss. That is devastating.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

23 Nov 21

I also felt sorry for them. They are still feeling that way.

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@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

23 Nov 21

@Shavkat They will be grieving for quite some time. That is something that you just never really get over.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@Happy2BeMe I do agree with you. They were so hopeful during the pregnancy for 5 months.

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@CarolDM (203422)

• Nashville, Tennessee

23 Nov 21

My thoughts are with her. Very sad news.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

25 Nov 21

@CarolDM I agree. It is best not to say but through action counts more.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I agree. I can still think of her. No guts to talk to her closely. I am not good at this.

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@CarolDM (203422)

• Nashville, Tennessee

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat No words are needed actually. Just let her know you are there for her.

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@Nawsheen (28643)

• Mauritius

23 Nov 21

OMG, that's terrible. I'm sure this came as a great shock to them

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@Nawsheen (28643)

• Mauritius

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat It's difficult for them. They already had plans to welcome the little one

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@Nawsheen Yes, I heard. They were supposed to buy baby clothes after knowing the gender yesterday.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

23 Nov 21

You figured it out. They are still cannot believe it.

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@allknowing (137781)

• India

23 Nov 21

One week and she did not know? Unbelievable and ofcourse a sad day for all of you.

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@allknowing (137781)

• India

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

She just thought there is nothing wrong a week ago. Actually, she is blaming herself because she felt like a menstrual cramp last week and ignore it.

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@Juliaacv (51359)

• Canada

23 Nov 21

How very sad, I hope that as a couple they can remain strong and support each other during this very difficult time. Although I delivered both of our children, one of my pregnancies was high risk as the baby stopped growing 2 months before I delivered.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

23 Nov 21

I am praying for them to withstand the downside of this situation. I am sorry that you had experienced this.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@Juliaacv I agree. I have not visited them yet. I will just let them take the time to process this situation.

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@LadyDuck (472074)

• Switzerland

23 Nov 21

I am really sorry, this surely was a devastating news.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

It was a heartbreaking news. My family and I are having a never-ending story about it. We knew from the very first start that they were so excited about this pregnancy thing.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

@LadyDuck Actually, she is 39 years old. I missed one detail that she is a hypertensive woman. We suspected that it is a result of preeclampsia.

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@LadyDuck (472074)

• Switzerland

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat - I am really sorry. Are they young enough to have kids in the future?

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@wolfgirl569 (108128)

• Marion, Ohio

23 Nov 21

So sorry.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

23 Nov 21

I hope they can overcome this soon.

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Anindita Sengupta

@aninditasen (16503)

• Raurkela, India

24 Nov 21

That's very painful for any parent. During my elder sons delivery my and the baby's life was in danger. Both of us were not expected to survive. Miracle happened and both of us are safe today. I have grown old and he has grown up.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I also believe in miracles. For them, I personally think that it is not the right time to have this baby. God has his own plans for each one of us here on Earth.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

26 Nov 21

@aninditasen Thank you for agreeing.

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Anindita Sengupta

@aninditasen (16503)

• Raurkela, India

25 Nov 21

@Shavkat Yes, you are right.

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• Nigeria

23 Nov 21

Quite a sad time it must be for them. I pray and hope they remain strong and take heart for their loss.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I hope things will be fine soon for both of them.

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• Nigeria

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat yea hope so too. It ain't easy.

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@agentx053193 (161)

• Philippines

23 Nov 21

This is so heartbreaking! My deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family of this baby :(

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I will tell her our deepest sympathy about this.

@askme123 (6228)

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24 Nov 21

This is so sad.Sorry to hear. Did the child's mother take the Covid vaccine?

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

Yes, she did. I am not sure if it is the causative factor because she got the vaccines before getting pregnant.

@cacay1 (83577)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

24 Nov 21

That's truly bad feeling sucks in despair.

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I agree. I think she was admitted to the hospital today.

@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

23 Nov 21

So sorry to hear

. It's heartbreaking news. Condolences to her

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

I hope they can able to cope up fast. I do not want her to be so depressed about it.

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@Rashnag (30592)

• Surat, India

24 Nov 21

@Shavkat everyone takes their time to moan. We can just support them in times of grief

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Zhang jing xuan

@zhangxueying (3339)

• China

29 Nov 21

A sad thing

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

30 Nov 21

Indeed.

@Faster16 (3181)

• Indonesia

24 Nov 21

I'm sad to hear that

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

24 Nov 21

It is indeed a sad story

@DoloresHazel (1)

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25 Nov 21

I'm very sad to hear that

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@Shavkat (140119)

• Philippines

26 Nov 21

@DoloresHazel Thank you for your concern.