Ugh, I hate crying.

@AmbiePam (92375)
United States
November 27, 2021 3:53pm CST
Crying can be cathartic, but my cry today was not. I cried over something a jerk said, and even though I knew he didn't deserve my time, I still cried. I get so mad at myself for letting people get to me. Do you?
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@nela13 (58594)
• Portugal
27 Nov 21
I don't know what the jerk said but he doesn't deserve your tears.
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@1creekgirl (41387)
• United States
27 Nov 21
We all have times like that...you just remind yourself what a great person you really are and how much myLotters love and respect you.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
28 Nov 21
Thank you.
@Juliaacv (51045)
• Canada
27 Nov 21
Once you've purged your tears dry them, and remember those of us who love and respect you.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
28 Nov 21
Thank you, sweet friend.
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@Juliaacv (51045)
• Canada
28 Nov 21
@AmbiePam You're welcome.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
27 Nov 21
Something was said to me yesterday, I felt like crying but didn't. I smoldered, which isn't healthy. People will say things that hurt us, but how we react either helps or it hurts ourself. We can't change someone else's bad behavior, but we CAN change how we respond. Walk away, without a word. This is my goal!
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@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
28 Nov 21
Plus, make sure you never cry twice over the same thing.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
7 Dec 21
Good advice
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Nov 21
I used to get upset over those things but I try to walk away these days.
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@marguicha (222747)
• Chile
27 Nov 21
I donĀ“t cry for that. now. For me, now, crying means emotions.
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@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
27 Nov 21
We are only humans subject to hurting words. Cry it out. We need to release the angry feeling.
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@jstory07 (139500)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Nov 21
I would just walk away. Some people are just mean spirited. I hope you are feeling better now.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
28 Nov 21
I am, thank you.
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• Midland, Michigan
10 Dec 21
I cry over silly things sometimes too. Did the jerk see you cry? If not it either way it's a way to release stress and I wouldn't worry about it. Better than screaming at him.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
10 Dec 21
Oh no, he didn't see. I didn't want to give him the satisfaction.
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@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Dec 21
It's easy to cry when people are mean. I'm sorry he was a jerk.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
27 Nov 21
You are allow to cry but pick yourself up and move on.
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@Spontaneo (14700)
• United States
27 Nov 21
I used to have long, beautiful hair. By now, my hair would have been down to my ankles. However, years ago, a boy called me "rag mop". So, I got my hair cut off.
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
28 Nov 21
How rude of him!
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@Kouponkaren (5503)
• United States
29 Dec 21
I am sorry someone hurt you enough to make you cry. I agree with you that he is a jerk. I try not to get myself in situations where I let people get to me. I am fortunate to have been able to surround myself with people who are generally uplifting and supportive of me. I haven't been able to do that always though.
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@jobelbojel (35461)
• Philippines
7 Dec 21
If it is negative comment, I try to reflect and see if it is really me but I just brush it off.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Dec 21
Jerks should not be allowed to get to you. Hopefully, the cry let you clear your soul of pent up emotions.
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@paigea (36317)
• Canada
28 Nov 21
That jerk is not worth your tears. Take care
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@LindaOHio (177809)
• United States
28 Nov 21
I cry when I get mad too; and that really makes me frustrated.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
7 Dec 21
Oh yes, I do too. I hate crying as well. You're right some jerk isn't worth your time or energy or tears, but it's only human.
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@Noland (70)
• Indonesia
28 Nov 21
Its okay to cry. Sometime crying make us feel better. whtever a jerk said, dont think it to much, just let it go, i know you will be better soon.
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