I love my mother.
@Abejar24 (75)
Tacloban City, Philippines
December 6, 2021 12:53am CST
This morning I am so disappointed of what I've witness.
A young girl fighting with her mother. Imagine? She's just 18 years old and she could even talk to her mother disrespectfully? Even I, I've never talk to my mother some painful words, cause I can't carry seeing her crying because of me. The pain I feel was so much for her mother and I feel pity for the girls attitude, I know one day she'll experience it. We shouldn't be talking to our mother like they have done nothing to us. Remember, they raise us and sacrifices for us, can you even dare to scold them and show them disrespect? For me no! I love my mother even if she's like a rapper everyday. That's the normal ability of a mother because we don't know what stress and pain they are going through.
Please love your parents while they are still on your side or you might regret it. Spread love to those people who loves you and avoid hurting them because, we all have different level of sensitivity.
Just a reminder.
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@solidcodes (1765)
• Philippines
8 Dec 21
@Abejar24
that's good you get along well with your mother.
but mine it's a big not.
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@elmer0421 (432)
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8 Dec 21
@solidcodes Not every child has a good relationship with his or her parent......It's hard for any child to deal with narcissistic parent for example.....
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@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
6 Dec 21
I don't love my mother only because she did something for me and sacrificed so many things for me.. she did so because she wanted to nit because she had to.. she knew she had to the minute she wanted kids..
Tho I do love her because she's a good human being, a good person, not just because she raised me. If you know what I mean..
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
9 Dec 21
@Shavkat Or she could be autistic and having a melt down, or anxious and felt provoked. Why is it always "they're a juvenile delinquent" or "they hangout with the wrong crowd"
@elmer0421 (432)
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6 Dec 21
Many children behave because of their own parents....Look at the behavior of many parents now.....Many are controlling parents although we also see some good parents.At some point we can't blame why children behave the way they do....Respect is mutual...Parents deserve respect and so do children.
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@elmer0421 (432)
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8 Dec 21
@Abejar24 Alan Kazdin a sterling professor of Yale University has pointed out the important role played by guardians or parents in shaping children's behavior...He gave useful strategies on how to raise a child.Without a doubt, parenting is such a skill but unfortunately there is no regulation in becoming parents....One person can have a child although lacking of skill in rearing a child...
@Abejar24 (75)
• Tacloban City, Philippines
9 Dec 21
@elmer0421 Yes all mother's started with less experience on how to raise kids and they have the rights to have kids even if having kids is not their expertise.
@strawberrypink (74)
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6 Dec 21
I am sad to read this story, because my mother has passed away.
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@Marchy (99)
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11 Dec 21
I also feel the same when I saw someone scolding their parents. As a mother I don't want my children to throw their tantrums to me or saying bad words to me that will hurt my feelings, it makes me feel that I didn't give them enough guidance and right moral education.
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
6 Dec 21
I love my parents too. I do respect them.
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@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
9 Dec 21
The thing is that mother may be disrespectful or even abusive to that child if your parent doesn't love and respect you sure as hell you don't need to show love and respect back. Perhaps the girl is autistic and having a meltdown, perhaps the girl has anxiety and her mother did something to provoke her do not judge this girl based on her behaviour or YOUR experiences with YOUR mother.
Some parents think they are owed respect because they raised someone but contrary to their belief they are not.
Not to mention contrary to popular belief a mothers love is not unconditional if you think otherwise you are wrong. Look at all the religious parents that have disowned their children because they are queer.
@Fa_Maverick (9487)
• Australia
9 Dec 21
@Abejar24 oh yeah demon children exist I knew one of those.
@solidcodes (1765)
• Philippines
8 Dec 21
Not all parents are good.
Some are super good.
Some are abusive.
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