What city changed your life?

@sol_cee (38219)
Philippines
January 25, 2022 6:44pm CST
I found this question in a message board and I was expecting people to answer city names they’ve been to and how or why their lives have changed. But it cracked me up when I read answers like scarCITY and toxiCITY and plastiCITY. Of course, it makes sense. Scarcity can indeed change our life. It wills us to work harder and improve our situation. Toxicity is bad but it can change our perspective in life. Either we choose to be in a toxic environment with toxic people or get out of that orbit. But how about you? Can you answer the question above? Photo is of me in the city that changed my life.
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@DaddyEvil (137487)
• United States
26 Jan 22
I've only lived in two cities in my entire life... Neither acted on me in a way that changed anything about me. Beautiful photo and avatar.
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@DaddyEvil (137487)
• United States
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee I think the large photo of you was taken in Japan... maybe Tokyo? The avatar photo, I have no clue.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Wheee, where, where?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@DaddyEvil noo I mean which two cities did you live?
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• United States
26 Jan 22
Electricity. That is one of the two cities that changed my life. Both are related. The other was Danbury, Wisconsin back in 1969. My parents had a cabin on a lake in Danbury. We lived in a city of 110k. Danbury listed 78 as it's population on the city limits sign. The cabin my parents bought was the house where a family lived for years. There was no electricity, no indoor plumbing and cardboard was the only thing that covered the studs of the walls. The cardboard walls were covered with stories like.... I Saw A Deer Today -John April, 16th 1953 or I Caught Two Bass Today -Tim October 1st 1959 or were several sentences describing their day. It was a diary of their lives there written on the walls of the cabin. Here I was a city kid with all the things a city kid had, reading about the hand pump for water being frozen for a week in the winter and a younger sister being lost in a snowstorm while walking to the outhouse and that they were happy with their new ice box. ICE BOX for crying out loud. I learned a lot reading those stories and knew very young what a hard life could be. I couldn't imagine no electricity or hot water. It was fun for a cabin but to LIVE that way? How did they survive? Whenever I catch myself complaining, I try to think back at how things were for that family and those kids. So I guess Danbury, Wisconsin changed my life too.
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• United States
26 Jan 22
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
That’s so touching, heartfelt. Thanks for sharing.. Makes me think about how we complain about our life when others make do with what they have
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Every city I have lived in changed my life. The city where I studied nurtured me to be good in my profession. The city where I practiced my profession provided me the means to support my family, and the city where I'm retired right now, has kept me safe during this pandemic era. So, I can choose one. feliCity!
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@Jenaisle (14078)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee Yes, and I'm stress-free.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@Jenaisle Good for you. You played your cards well in the game of life
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
YOu are retired? Wowww, envy you
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@RasmaSandra (80659)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Jan 22
I was born and raised in NYC but the city that definitely changed my life was Riga, Latvia where I met my soulmate and stayed for 20 years and when he passed on it was so difficult to leave everything behind and return to the US but I had painful memories,
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Oh, Rasma. I feel you. Virtual hugs to you. You’re so lucky you met your soulmate in this lifetime.
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@RasmaSandra (80659)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
27 Jan 22
@sol_cee and I know I will see him again someday, It was rather interesting I would not have moved to Latvia if my mom was not already 80 and wanted to return to her homeland, Then I decided to do that for her and as it was she only lived for two more years in Latvia but I stayed because I had met my saul mate and it things had turned out different I would still be there,
@JudyEv (341820)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jan 22
So what city are you in?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Lol the photo was taken in Osaka, Japan
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@JudyEv yeah blows my mind every time
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@JudyEv (341820)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee I did think it looked like cherry blossom behind you.
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26 Jan 22
New Orleans, one of the places I dream of visiting.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Hi there. Why did it change your life?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@stewartclint I understand what you mean. I hope you can go to New Orleans and play jazz music there
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee My aunt went, not I. It was the stories she brought back with her that had an impact on me. Particularly that it was the birthplace of jazz got me interested in that genre, and I still am.
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@kaylachan (71590)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
26 Jan 22
I wish I could, but I can't. I've only been to/lived in a handful of places. And, all have had their ups and downs.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Oh, but George is there with you, yeah?
@RebeccasFarm (90294)
• Arvada, Colorado
26 Jan 22
In order... 1. Oxford, England 2. Dublin, Ireland 3. Boston, MA 4. Rome, NY
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
There's Rome in NY? Cool
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• Arvada, Colorado
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee Yes and it is full of Sicilians
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
26 Jan 22
@RebeccasFarm New York is full of Sicilians and also Neapolitan.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
26 Jan 22
Monte Carlo changed my life. We moved there when I was 24, I really loved our 31 years in that beautiful place. I remember you were in Japan for a long time. This is a beautiful photo.
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@LadyDuck (472004)
• Switzerland
27 Jan 22
@sol_cee - Monte Carlo is a beautiful city and I spent the best years of my life there. I was 24 when we moved there and I was 55 when we moved here.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
10 Feb 22
@LadyDuck did you plan it that way?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
From time to time you wrote comments about your stay in Monte Carlo. That city must have truly made a mark in your life.
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
28 Jan 22
I think the city that changed my life was the city where I did the university.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
@nela13 that’s deep. Why, what did you major in?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
Is that a big city? In my country, many students go to the capital city, Manila, to study or find a job. It’s like two hours by airplane from my place
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@nela13 (58720)
• Portugal
3 Feb 22
@sol_cee it is bigger than mine but I what I studied and learned there changed my life.
@dgobucks226 (35721)
27 Jan 22
I think the city which had a big impact on me was going to college in Columbus, Ohio. Huge campus and a major city it made me more extroverted. I tried out new things, joined recreational activities with friends and grew up a lot. Definitely not Toxicity, lol.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
Hey, how many Columbus are there in the US?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Feb 22
@dgobucks226 thank you for googling
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@dgobucks226 (35721)
8 Feb 22
@sol_cee Sure thing
• Nairobi, Kenya
26 Jan 22
That's a beautiful photo of you. I can also say scarcity but I have lived in around five cities in my town but I won't give them any credit of changing my life
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Hmm.. Why is that?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
@mildredtabitha the best answer for today
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• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Jan 22
@sol_cee Because it is Jesus who changed my life
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
26 Jan 22
What a great photo. Probably New Orleans. Many stories there.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Ellen DeGeneres always talks about New Orleans
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee It is a great city with wonderful food. Ellen is from the area.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@CarolDM and they have this distinct accent, right?
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@Faster16 (3181)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 22
I like your photo, looks happy
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
Yey, thank you. How about you?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
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@Faster16 (3181)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee beautiful
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
3 Feb 22
Chicago when I was 14, bad things happened to me there. Phoenix, when I was 47, I met the love of my life and wonderful things happened for 9 yrs.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
5 Feb 22
@sol_cee thanks
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
4 Feb 22
14 is such a young age for bad things to happen. Virtual hugs
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@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
6 Feb 22
I always believe in simpliCITY, I hate people who show off.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Feb 22
Lol of course that’s well thought off
@jstory07 (139816)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Jan 22
Japan is a pretty country. I am glad your life was changed.
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@jstory07 (139816)
• Roseburg, Oregon
26 Jan 22
@sol_cee I have lived around the world and had a good life.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
How about you?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
@jstory07 oh wow a globetrotter!
@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Jan 22
Cities with beaches. I love the beach. My favorite is New Smyrna Beach in Florida.
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@LeaPea2417 (37369)
• Toccoa, Georgia
27 Jan 22
@sol_cee No, but it's very nice to visit.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
26 Jan 22
A beach gal! How about now? Are there any beaches where you live?
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@Ronrybs (19588)
• London, England
27 Jan 22
Yes, my thoughts jumped straight to an urban setting. Some people are quite creative
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
Such big brains they have. Zombies alert loll
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@Ronrybs (19588)
• London, England
7 Feb 22
@sol_cee I am safe then!
@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
26 Jan 22
What city are you in? Lovely photo too by the way :-) Yes, I agree - all of those things leaves imprint on us. I would need to think about the city... :-)
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Feb 22
Sorry I had to take the photo down. It was from Osaka, Japan.
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
7 Feb 22
@sol_cee Oh that's ok. Wow Japan is beautiful