Keeping favourite things - even if they’re broken

@Fleura (30539)
United Kingdom
January 27, 2022 3:55am CST
A comment by @BarBaraPrz just reminded me of this. A couple of years ago I was visiting a friend one morning. She also had another friend visiting at the time and was making us all tea, for which she was heating water in a kettle on the gas stove. When the kettle was boiling she gingerly picked it up with the aid of a tea towel and carefully poured the hot water into the teapot, while simultaneously blowing away the steam. This seemed a rather odd way to do it but I thought perhaps it was some sort of Romanian tradition (she’s Romanian, obviously!) Her other friend, also Romanian, thought it was some strange new habit she had picked up. I only found this out afterwards of course, because at the time neither of us commented but simply watched in some bemusement. Only after she had made the tea did she tell us that she had to go through this peculiar ritual because the handle had fallen off her kettle! She loved it so much, having brought it with her from Sweden, that she didn’t want to throw it out but had to use the tea towel to protect her fingers from the heat while also blowing away the steam so it didn't burn her hands. We did laugh! Luckily she still had the handle, so with the aid of a pop-riveter I found among my Dad’s things (thanks Dad!) and a couple of long rivets donated by a nice man on Freegle (thanks Nigel!) I was able to repair it for her and it’s still going strong. All rights reserved. © Text and image copyright Fleur 2022.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Jan 22
I understand her completely. Also it is getting back to where we should all start saving on everything until we have no choice but to let it go. Everything is getting more and more expensive around the world.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
That's very true. Perhaps the cost of everything rising will make people think twice!
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
27 Jan 22
This is a funny story. Mom had a kettle identical to the one in your photo. I also repaired an old garden chair thanks to an old pop-riveter and some long rivets donated by a store.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
27 Jan 22
@Fleura Exactly, rivets come in large packs and I only needed a few. I always find someone kind enough to donate me some.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
Seems like a good type of kettle! Rivets are handy things, but they often come in packs of 500 or 1,000 which is a waste if you only need one or two!
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@JudyEv (341743)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jan 22
What a great story. I'm sure she's over the moon at having her kettle repaired. The best thing we ever bought was a pneumatic (if that's the word) pop rivetter. We nearly wore it out when we were converting our big bus to a motor home.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 22
It still makes me laugh! But she still makes tea with the same kettle so that's a win! But wow a whole bus! That must have taken a lot of work (and rivets!)
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 22
@JudyEv That must have been a great achievement when it was finished! I would love to do something like that.
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@JudyEv (341743)
• Rockingham, Australia
28 Jan 22
@Fleura It was a lot of work and yes, a lot of rivets too. Here it is with some of the windows removed. The panels would have been put in with pop rivets.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Jan 22
You are so kind to repair her kettle. I enjoyed reading this
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
Thanks, it was a funny incident. And I love to be able to fix things and make them work again!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
27 Jan 22
@Fleura Yeah. It's funny to me too because the rest of you thought it was a Romanian ritual only to realize the kettle needed a handle
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
27 Jan 22
It's tough to part away with things that we actually love. That must have seemed odd. But good that she was still able to use it.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
It did seem odd but we were both too polite to say 'What on Earth are you doing?'
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@arunima25 (87855)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jan 22
@Fleura Even I would have gone quiet. Good that she cleared the doubts on her own.
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Jan 22
I have many things that belonged to my family that I keep.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
Same here. I have things from my mother and father of course, and from my aunt, and from my grandmothers and grandfathers (only one of whom I ever met), my great aunt and uncle and even my great-grandmother.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
27 Jan 22
@Fleura I do as well, precious treasures I call them.
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@BarBaraPrz (47611)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
27 Jan 22
I had a kettle where the knobby on the lid came off when I went to refill the kettle. Seems it was only cheap plastic and the steam had heated up the screw enough to melt through the plastic. I replaced it with a lovely porcelain cabinet-door knobby.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
1 Feb 22
That's a great idea! Well done you!
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• China
28 Jan 22
Your friend is attached to the old kettle so much.She was definitely obliged to you for repairing her kettle and letting her dispense with the peculiar ritual.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 22
Yes she was pleased to be able to use it 'normally' again! And I was pleased to be able to solve her problem in just a few minutes : )
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@flapiz (23151)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
Oh bless her! I love it when people are sentimental over their things. As long as not too much as it can be considered hoarding.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
I guess keeping nostalgic things you still use is a good idea. Keeping useless things for nostalgia's sake is perhaps hoarding : )
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
27 Jan 22
Some of these broken things can be preserved.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
27 Jan 22
@Fleura Indeed, you said it on point.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
Luckily that one was an easy fix with the right equipment (which I happened to have!)
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@DaddyEvil (137460)
• United States
27 Jan 22
I'm sure that would have seemed odd.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
It was so funny that neither of us said anything but just politely watched. We laughed a lot afterwards!
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@DaddyEvil (137460)
• United States
27 Jan 22
@Fleura That's the thing. You were both too polite to question the way she was doing things.
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@Ronrybs (19589)
• London, England
27 Jan 22
Me too! I have things I won't dispose of, but will keep using carefully or in a slightly different way.
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@Fleura (30539)
• United Kingdom
27 Jan 22
It's funny how attached you can get to certain things isn't it? But sometimes if you find a really good one you don't want to give up on it!
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