Remembering my mother
By Judy Evans
@JudyEv (340254)
Rockingham, Australia
February 3, 2022 4:23am CST
Today would have been my mother’s birthday. She was born in 1910 and lived to be 104 ½. She always liked to add on the ‘half’. She had a hip replacement at 99.
Although she was very frail towards the end of her life, she didn’t get dementia although she did suffer some memory loss from time to time.
My mother was a wonderful person who worked very hard all her life. She loved gardening. When they retired from the farm to the nearby town, she often said half the plants in the town came from her garden which would have just about been the truth.
Although she didn’t belong to the Red Cross, they made her an honorary life member because, year after year, she donated a great many potted plants to their yearly fund-raising stall. She would also help sell the plants and give advice to prospective buyers.
She loved all animals and birds and raised many pet lambs over her lifetime. The photo shows her making friends with an alpaca.
I hope she is kept busy tending gardens in Heaven.
Thanks so much for @DaddyEvil for pointing out that, to US myLotters, pot plants means marijuana plants. My Mum didn't grow pot but only potted plants.
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
3 Feb 22
Your mother reached a very old age. I am glad that, like my mother, she did not get dementia. Memory loss is very common, I start to have some "senior moments".. I am sure she is enjoying tending the gardens in Heaven and talking to animals.
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@arunima25 (87819)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 22
Your mother did live a long and fulfilling life Judy. It's heartwarming to know about her. She sounds just a wonderful fine lady. And I am sure that she must be busy tending gardens there in heaven. I always wish that to happen to me too when I reach there.
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Feb 22
@arunima25 That's lovely to hear. Things will have changed a lot in her lifetime.
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@arunima25 (87819)
• Bangalore, India
3 Feb 22
@JudyEv Remarkable lady! She really inspires. She knew well how to keep herself actively engaged in productive ways. I guess all that helped her to stay fit and live that long. My grandparents were like that. And they did live close to 100. My grandaunt will be 97 in few days and she is enjoying her life and is active throughout the day
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@Marilynda1225 (82789)
• United States
3 Feb 22
That's a wonderful picture of your mom with the alpaca. Amazing that she lived to 104 1/2 without many aliments. I'm sure she's tending the gardens in Heaven and that they're lush and beautiful.
@pot plants
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@Marilynda1225 (82789)
• United States
3 Feb 22
@JudyEv that spade and shovel do look "very" well worn. It's amazing how much you look like you mom Judy
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Feb 22
@Marilynda1225 Someone else said that! haha Yet I can't really see it.
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@LindaOHio (178870)
• United States
3 Feb 22
Happy Heavenly Birthday to your Mum. She had a hip replacement at 99? God bless her! I know how rough it was at 60 something to have mine. Absolutely love the picture.
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Feb 22
@LindaOHio It is indeed. She raised so many lambs over her lifetime.
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@BarBaraPrz (47343)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
3 Feb 22
Your mother must have been a kick to know,
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@wolfgirl569 (106425)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Feb 22
I am guessing she is one of the head gardeners there by now.
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
3 Feb 22
You were surely blessed to have your mother with you for 104 1/2 years! I’m sure she lived a wonderful life and is now living an even better life in heaven!
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@Neil43 (3313)
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3 Feb 22
Hahahaha. I would not imagine your late mum would be into such kind of venture though. @DaddyEvil is such a...
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
3 Feb 22
People who have a passion like that can live for a very long time it seems. I have had some centenarians on both sides of the family two of them (one is still alive) were very religious, and the other one was probably exceptionally good humored if she was anything like my grandfather. He lived a good long time himself rapidly closing in on 96 when he passed.
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@snowy22315 (180870)
• United States
4 Feb 22
@JudyEv Yes, gives you something to get up for in the morning.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
4 Feb 22
I admire your mother for having a long life and a productive life. She lead a healthy and meaningful life
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
4 Feb 22
@JudyEv She is really blessed for her kindness
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
3 Feb 22
You're very welcome. I really try not to notice little errors. I just didn't want anyone to think your mom was giving away weed. You'd never make people believe you and Vince don't still have some of her "stock"!
I love the photo of your mom!
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
4 Feb 22
@JudyEv "Pot" and "weed" are the most commonly used names for it here.
You'll probably make the "mistake" again just to have fun on myLot.
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil My Mum used to pull up weeds. What am I going to call them now?
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@DaddyEvil (137259)
• United States
5 Feb 22
@JudyEv As long as you say it that way, we think of noxious plants being removed.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Feb 22
Your mother was an amazing woman, she lived a very full, long life:) What a blessing!
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@JudyEv (340254)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Feb 22
@kobesbuddy At around 95, Mum suddenly cut down on sugar and fatty foods. I don't know why she bothered really. She was never fat. She was too busy to ever put on too much weight.
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
3 Feb 22
@JudyEv My grandma was a remarkable woman, we all loved her. She lived to be 91, which was pretty good. All her life, she ate whatever she pleased! lol
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