I think that I am anti-social / myLot

Bucharest, Romania

February 6, 2022 4:18am CST

Hello. I come back after a long time since I have not created a post here on this site. Today I want to tell you that I think that I am anti-social. I pretty much dislike society and social groups and activities because I feel disappointed in humanity. Sorry if I offend with this statement but this is how I feel. I know that most of the people here on mylot are very nice people. Not everyone is bad but it seems like most people are.

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Anna

@LadyDuck (471508)

• Switzerland

6 Feb 22

Welcome back, it was a very longtime I did not see you here. I also feel anti social right now.

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Cristian Ichim

@Cristi_Ichim (3743)

• Bucharest, Romania

6 Feb 22

sorry if you feel like society is disappointing.

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Cristian Ichim

@Cristi_Ichim (3743)

• Bucharest, Romania

6 Feb 22

@LadyDuck Thanks for the support. Wish you well

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Anna

@LadyDuck (471508)

• Switzerland

6 Feb 22

@Cristi_Ichim May be it will pass, we are living hard times. I hope you are fine.

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healerWitch

@healerWitch (417)

• Portugal

6 Feb 22

I'm the same way, antisocial, introvert and with social anxiety disorder. Even though I just got here, I'm already thinking of leaving, not because there's anything wrong, but I just get overwhelmed and I'd rather be working or learning something than chatting.

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Cristian Ichim

@Cristi_Ichim (3743)

• Bucharest, Romania

6 Feb 22

I do get out in groups sometimes but I must admit that I dislike it

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healerWitch

@healerWitch (417)

• Portugal

6 Feb 22

@Cristi_Ichim I gave up on all that long time ago. Every time my extrovert husband tries to suggest something, before he even finishes his sentence, I'm like "no". I like my own company in peace and quiet.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (180711)

• United States

6 Mar 22

I can relate to that statement, but not everybody is bad. Welcome back!

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vikingswest

@Vikingswest1 (6304)

• United States

6 Feb 22

I think everyone feels that way at one time or another. There will always be people in your life and you can't avoid being disappointed by all or part of society. It will happen. How you react will be a measure of your character. If you dismiss all people because it seems most are bad then you lose out on the good in people. Don't put such importance on the acts or words of others and instead dismiss those and move on. You can't hide away from society. You need to develop coping skills so that you can grow as a person and present yourself as a confident adult able to deal with the ills of mankind. If Social Media has you down, shut it off. The news bother you? Shut it off. Friends bother you? Find new friends. There's bad in most people? Find the good.

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Cristian Ichim

@Cristi_Ichim (3743)

• Bucharest, Romania

6 Feb 22

I think that you are right. I should try to search for people that i like to hang out with

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NoneTheWriter

@sammyy (527)

• India

6 Feb 22

I went through a phase of this feeling after some failures in life... Took months and even more than a year but I came back eventually, and yet not the same as before. Some things change permanently.

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Cristian Ichim

@Cristi_Ichim (3743)

• Bucharest, Romania

6 Feb 22

Thanks for your support

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