People have been curious
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
Holiday, Florida
February 7, 2022 12:36pm CST
About why I was married so many times. Perhaps if I do like a series of these guys? 
Just to explain how it happened.
Photo is of myself and first hubby in 1970 or there abouts. My blonde sister-in- law had talked me into bleaching my hair and I had ( just for fun) talked him into letting me give him a little patch of blonde in his hair 
He about never worked,and when he did and got paid a little, it usually went on drink
. In spite of all this, I practically worshiped the guy. He was a mommas boy and she pretty well ran our life too. After 10 years of all this, he was drunk one night, came home and told me he had cheated on me several times in the past and would I forgive him ?
That was it ! The straw that broke the camels back you might say. I didn't forgive him and when he passed out, I took my 3 kids and a few things and left him for good.
So that's the story with # 1. I was 25 years old with 3 small children.
# 2 next post
What do you think ?
Just to explain how it happened.
Photo is of myself and first hubby in 1970 or there abouts. My blonde sister-in- law had talked me into bleaching my hair and I had ( just for fun) talked him into letting me give him a little patch of blonde in his hair
He about never worked,and when he did and got paid a little, it usually went on drink. In spite of all this, I practically worshiped the guy. He was a mommas boy and she pretty well ran our life too. After 10 years of all this, he was drunk one night, came home and told me he had cheated on me several times in the past and would I forgive him ?
That was it ! The straw that broke the camels back you might say. I didn't forgive him and when he passed out, I took my 3 kids and a few things and left him for good.
So that's the story with # 1. I was 25 years old with 3 small children.
# 2 next post
What do you think ?20 people like this
18 responses
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Feb 22
way back then I was determined to put my all into it and make it work. Plus I had 3 kids with him and was still young and stupid
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Feb 22
@marlina Took way to long though. I seem to have stayed stupid through 3 more before I found the right man.
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@shaggin (74126)
• United States
10 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 I wondered about that with my first husband as well if I should have tried longer.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Feb 22
@shaggin you always feel let down even knowing you done all you could.
This ones next wife stuck with him 45 yrs now. 
I don't know if it's because she could get no one else to marry her or if he treats her better because I trained him well and he learned his lesson. I have heard he stopped drinking and no longer allowed his mother to run the show.
I don't know if it's because she could get no one else to marry her or if he treats her better because I trained him well and he learned his lesson. I have heard he stopped drinking and no longer allowed his mother to run the show. 2 people like this
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Feb 22
With the next one I felt perhaps I had given up on the first too soon. I found I jumped out of the pan into the fire with the next one.
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@snowy22315 (188074)
• United States
7 Feb 22
Surprised you guys lasted 10 years. Now, I am curious...how many times have you been married? Two for me, and I keep telling myself the 3rd time is the charm, but I have to get my lazy butt in gear and hunt!
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Feb 22
5 times. and I too thought 3 rd would be charm, but no, he was rotten to me too
Let's hope you have better luck.
Let's hope you have better luck.2 people like this
@kaylachan (77064)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Feb 22
I think you did what you had to for the sake of yourself and your children.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Feb 22
@JudyEv I will dear. Thank you for being so encouraging 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Feb 22
I will get around to the rest before long. I was hoping it would be an interesting series. for when I have nothing else to write
for when I have nothing else to write2 people like this
@JudyEv (351224)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 I'm sure it will be but take your time. 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Feb 22
so that might take a few days for the next post. I'll try.
Yes I was only one day 17 yrs old when I had my first baby the day after my birthday. Then, I had the next baby 11 months later before my 18th birthday,by the time I was 19, I had 3 babies. Hubby would say jokingly that he was afraid to take his pants off near me.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
8 Feb 22
@Kandae11 5 all together for me but the other 2 were spaced out.
he had 3 quickly with his second wife, so obviously he was the culprit
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@Kandae11 (56244)
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7 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 Ha ha. I am tempted to ask how many kids but l will wait for the next post.
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
7 Feb 22
I don't blame you, you did good to put up with all that for 10 years. So how many times have you been married?
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@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
7 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 Can't wait to read you'r post about your other 4. I was only married one time, it lasted for 18 years, he was really controlling. After having to live with what I did while with him, I never wanted to get married again.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
7 Feb 22
@sweetashoney after my second I didn't either. But the next ones always talked me into it.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Feb 22
It's been so many years and I'm not good at math. I definitely know, I was 16 when I first married because I had to lie about my age. Back then, you could get away with that.
I know it took at least near a year (9 months) to have my son. But I was only 1 day, 17 having him next day after my birthday. So maybe I was 24 when I left. I don't know. Not good at math. sorry. 
So maybe I was 24 when I left. I don't know. Not good at math. sorry. 2 people like this
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Feb 22
@LadyDuck yes. Well my father hated the guy and warned me against him. Wish I had listened. Guess I wasn't too bright.
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@LadyDuck (472982)
• Switzerland
10 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 - You were very young when you got married! I cannot believe that in your country they did not check the documents. My father had to sign his agreement when I got married because I was not yet 21 years old. Now the legal age to get married is 18, but back in time it was 21.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Feb 22
It was. Hope you are well sweetheart. I need to check and see if you and all my friends have new posts now
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@DaddyEvil (146049)
• United States
8 Feb 22
He didn't deserve you is what I think.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
12 Feb 22
yes that's what my dad said. but I was young and stupid.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
12 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil My dad worked with his grand father and they were friends. That's how we met. He came to visit his grand parents and they lived next door to dad. My aunt had taken me to dads to live after mom abandoned me at her house again for several months. but that's another story.
Anyway, dad knew him well already so didn't want me around the guy.
He tried.
He tried. 2 people like this
@DaddyEvil (146049)
• United States
12 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 Your dad and I think a lot of you.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Feb 22
I put up with a lot but worst part is, I jumped from the pot into the fire with next husband I married. 
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Feb 22
@sol_cee Me either It's just my trying to think how to put it together without making it too long.
It's just my trying to think how to put it together without making it too long.1 person likes this
@sol_cee (38218)
• Philippines
10 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 can’t wait for the next installment
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@Courtlynn (67091)
• United States
11 Feb 22
Cheaters are horrible people, I don't care what anyone says. Zero excuse for doing it and shows so much disrespect. Sorry you've had to deal with that too
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Feb 22
yes and the only time I ever did it was when I knew they had done it to me several times already. 
Even then there was probably no excuse.
Even then there was probably no excuse. 2 people like this
@Courtlynn (67091)
• United States
13 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 no excuse even then. But you learned
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@RubyHawk (99397)
• Atlanta, Georgia
13 Feb 22
@bunnybon7 That’s good that you found one outstanding man.
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@wolfgirl569 (114793)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Feb 22
I would not have stayed 10 years. Glad you woke up.
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Mar 22
I married him at 17 yrs. My dad signed a paper
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@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Mar 22
@Fleura I think it depends on the person, maturity of mind, and how well you match. Too often people mistake infatuation and/or lust for love.
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@Fleura (31485)
• United Kingdom
30 Mar 22
@bunnybon7 In my opinion that's way too young. In fact to my mind anyone under 30 is far too young to get married! But then there are always exceptions who choose the right person even at a young age, like @LadyDuck
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@LindaOHio (187033)
• United States
8 Feb 22
That's a sad tale. I'm glad you got out of that marriage.
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@porwest (99040)
• United States
10 Feb 22
Cheating is a big no-no in my book. My father was a forever runaround. Never could keep it in his pants. He's 72 now and impotent. Probably serves him right. lol
Besides that his current wife is a hot mess. She's like 57 and looks like she's 77. Irony is a you-know-what. lol
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yep I see.