My Crushes Also Have Got a Crush on Me?
By Neil
@Neil43 (3363)
February 10, 2022 3:55am CST
I broke up with my last last October 31, 2021. So, technically I have been single from then on. I have been single for the past three months for that matter. The longest time I have been single since I started having had a relationship at the age of 21.
I was so depressed for a couple of reasons. One was because of my break-up and another it was because of my failure in my business venture which made me become indebted right now.
Adding to the foregoing, my research is also causing me stress since I started it.
I have been meaning to look for someone who can really make me happy. A one true love so to speak. I have two crushes on Facebook that I have been avidly following. These two never even reply to my comments on their posts, and I thought they don't like me. Also, I have the feeling that they are probably celebrities in their own countries. I never attempted to message them in the fear of being rejected by them. I thought that if I had done it, I would have wound up frustrated and would have caused me more depressions. They are two too good looking people for me and I don't think they will like me too.
Just yesterday I dared and I posted a somewhat sexy photo of mine that showed my hard earned abs. It is more prominent than that one in the picture that you see here. To my surprise almost both of them messaged in the messenger saying 'very sexy' and 'nice body' all at the same time. Quite similar comments or reactions on the picture I posted huh.
So, I grabbed the opportunity to chat them back and indeed I was given the opportunity to really start a conversation with them both at the same time. I was then lucky knowing that according to them seldom they chat with someone. And oh you are right, they actually like me. OMG! One is from Singapore and the other is from Indonesia. Both of them are really hot. Both of them are good looking. Both of them are professional. Both of them are bankers.
I tried to get to know them both more and I asked questions to gauge but I got almost the same answers. They seemed to have similar personality. One interesting question I asked was what they are looking for in a relationship. And you know what their answer was? They both said that they just want to be happy, loved and cared.
Now, I have one single dilemma. Who should I take seriously?
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7 responses
@askme123 (6228)
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10 Feb 22
Is that you for real with those big
muscles? Which country are you from?
You need to date someone in your own country.
You are still young and will meet many ladies in your lifetime no need to rush.
In the meantime work on making yourself a better man such as being financially stable.
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They are not hulk muscles though. I won't probably get to that point. I only love muscles for aesthetics. Exactly what you can see now in the picture.
@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
10 Feb 22
Just to have a crush on you looking after your abs or photo is not love.
I think you should take time and should know about each other first. Maybe once you chat with them you get to know both of them and you accordingly choose between them.
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@jobelbojel (36024)
• Philippines
11 Feb 22
Looking for someone to make you happy? Oh boy, I would say that is a no-no. Settle for the one that you will spend the rest of your life. Do not look for someone to make you happy. If you are ready to "give" that's the only time you should love a partner to be with you forever.
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Feb 22
As long as they won`t end up loving you for your abs ..try to know each one of them by personality now ,,not by what you see
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@MarieCoyle (38563)
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11 Feb 22
If you didn't get them to respond to you until you posted that photo, then they aren't worth knowing. Real relationships are not just about looks. They are about feelings. And looking for someone online often just doesn't work. Remember, they very well might not be who they claim to be online.
Dig deeper into yourself and present the entire package, not just a body. Yes, your body is admirable and nice. But bodies don't make or break a relationship.
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