Marry for love or for security?

Both love and security are essential elements of a perfect marriage. I would say that love is really the foundation of a marriage, but without the financial (as pillar) to support it, it will still collapse anyway. Nowadays, woman should have claimed equility from man. I think your friend should put love in the first place. Coz the economy status could be improved progressively. She could get a job and get more income or they both could work on something to generate better income (eg like working on mylot:), jst kidding).

i think marriage for security can't last

for both

I will definately marry for love...I have a realtionship 6 years old and will get maried by next year end

I think that she should be with who ever she loves, not someone she feels safe or secure with.

i would marry for love .... love brings security in a relationship .money doest buy happiness

in situations like this, love always prevails. love can make you happy and only love will make a couple work together hand in hand for a better future. stability will come after you two work for it. it takes time and effort. but it will come to those who work hard for it.

Ive met many truck drivers over the years. You can see what I do and I make rather good money. Enough for a large house. A truck driver lives across the street, his house is the same price as mine. There are alot of truck drivers that make this kind of money. So tell your friend if he is wonderful this is far more important than how much he makes right now. Give him a chance, things can improve. Too many women get rid of a good thing for the potential for financial security and end up being miserable that they lost one they loved , especially if what they lost turned out not to be as financially secure as they were hoping.

for love

i think marry for love would be a better option.

for love

I would marry for love. She has some say in being responsible too. Obviously it would be nice to have both paycheck be substantial, but truck drivers make good money and she could take a job as well if she doesn't have one already.

i think she should marry for love because we can never tell what's the faith of her boyfriend and ex-boyfriend too, at least she decided to marry whom she love.

well go for love if she thinks she can never blame or complain for the ups n downs she ld b facing....if she thinks she cant handle...then here comes a compromise for love..goto da other bf...

i will mary for love,since the existence of life is continuous

I married for love not money. In fact my husband and I don't have a lot of money and we are very happy. I think when you have to save up for things instead of putting them on credit cards, etc. it makes your marriage grow stronger and happier. This is the way my grandparents and his grandparents were and they have been married for 50+ and 60+ years.

i will marry for both, love and security....

for me marry for love, because marriage without love is useless.

As such she was in love with ex-friend. And he can give her security. Over a period of time she will forget her boy friend. Time has a healing affect. Suggest to marry ex boyfriend.

love is most important thing when marriage is concerned.. marrying for security is totally useless as life become to wage..